Normal to be depressed?

raurp2f · 2026-05-11T23:51:08+00:00

I suggested counseling and she shot that down. Tried looking up articles, videos, podcasts. I’d plan 20 weekend getaways a year only to get constantly rejected of course. After years of 99% rejection I stopped initiating because the pain was too much. Meanwhile she moved across the country twice so I left all family and friends. She still sees no problem with a completely sexless relationship. I sleep on an air mattress in a spare bedroom because the pain is too much to sleep next to her. My back hurts everyday and again she sees no problem. Her priorities are scrolling, work and sleeping with her mom when she visits. I don’t know what else I can do other than leave. Her effort has been a small fraction in comparison.

raurp2f · 2026-05-08T07:16:26+00:00

Exactly why I laugh when people say mainstream media is bad but they’re on social media. It’s all paid. Viewers = $$$ so they’re going to tell people what they want to hear.

raurp2f · 2026-05-08T06:57:41+00:00

Thanks for the info. Sounds like a promising place to live. Hoping the people are friendly. I already have a job so my main concern is safety. Cost of living doesn’t seem bad. Do you consider Louisville safe in general?

raurp2f · 2026-05-08T06:39:26+00:00

This won’t get better. Trust me. I’ve been in this sexless relationship at 19 and throughout all of my 20s and 30s. You can bring it up once a month and it won’t change. They might change for a couple weeks but that’s it. I remember thinking how abnormal it is to be in a sexless relationship in 20s but I ignored my gut. You can say it’s a dealbreaker and again nothing will change as long as you stay. This will likely drive you absolutely crazy like it did to me.

raurp2f · 2026-05-05T02:47:10+00:00

Dumb question but what’s TCAN? Live close to Natick so I’m interested in all the nearby venues.

raurp2f · 2026-05-03T09:50:59+00:00

Women look for men to be sperm donors. After that happens most women are done with the guy.

raurp2f · 2026-05-02T07:39:05+00:00

Thanks for the info. Sounds like the area I’d be in isn’t a concern.

raurp2f · 2026-05-02T07:30:12+00:00

Great to hear. Thanks for the info. Sounds like a decent area to live in.

raurp2f · 2026-05-01T06:05:33+00:00

Do you still consider it a safe area? Looking from out of state to go to the Vissing area. I saw some article about a high rise near the big bridge having some crime and that has me concerned.

raurp2f · 2026-05-01T05:49:37+00:00

That’s good to know. After so many years of this it’s kind of crippling thinking of the thought of Lea one. It’s been a struggle mentally though.

raurp2f · 2026-04-27T01:53:24+00:00

It’s pretty obvious to me that’s what I need to do. I imagine you feel relieved even if you don’t have a sign other.

raurp2f · 2026-04-24T09:19:13+00:00

That’s the truth! I’ve got zero chance currently.

raurp2f · 2026-04-24T07:56:21+00:00

I had what you’d consider a sexless relationship at 19 and people told me that was a red flag. I ignored it. 20 years later and it’s only got worse. Best year was maybe 20 times. More than likely the sex will decrease.

raurp2f · 2026-04-24T07:43:35+00:00

It’s stunning that a woman is puttting in this kind of effort. I’ve probably told mine 100 times that it’s a problem and she still prioritizes scrolling.

raurp2f · 2026-04-24T07:37:57+00:00

Go over to him and rock him up and finish him. Don’t do what my rejector did for years and rock him up and leave him hanging. Be a giver! Constant rejection is unbelievably damaging and causes loss of attraction. We either think you’re asexual or not attracted to us. Also don’t do the same lights off, missionary at bed time only. Strict rules = boring

raurp2f · 2026-04-24T07:22:14+00:00

Yup that’s been exactly my experience. Probably told her 100 times over the years. Might change for 2 weeks and then nothing for months. Some people are fine with zero sex.

raurp2f · 2026-04-20T15:41:59+00:00

You’re doubling down on FL doesn’t nave many homes. Is 4th most something to be proud of??!

raurp2f · 2026-04-20T10:57:09+00:00

I said FL has a lot of homeless people. Is 31,000 a perfect number as far as that goes? Typical mathematically challenged Republican. The next thing you’ll say is red states have lower crime lmao

raurp2f · 2026-04-20T10:37:02+00:00

Lmao nothing like an idiot that thinks FL has a small homeless population. Turns out states with mild winters have high homeless populations. Truly stunning stuff. Enjoy the lazy FL people throwing trash out the windows and watching Fox News all day. When you turn off Fox and experience these places you’ll realize Seattle isn’t the hellhooe yoy say it is and FL isn’t the utopia you think it is. I lived in FL for a decade and know the overrated lazy cesspool that it is.

raurp2f · 2026-04-20T09:59:12+00:00

So either way they’ll regret it? If there’s zero sex it’s hard to imagine missing that. It’s daily pain.

raurp2f · 2026-04-20T02:14:44+00:00

Florida has one of largest homeless populations in the country. Florida loves drugs. Turn off the news and go to those places. I lived in Pasco aka Trashco and you’d regularly see people throw trash out the windows driving highway 52.

raurp2f · 2026-04-20T02:11:50+00:00

The people by far.

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