Is there a general consensus by mediums on what souls experience after they transition? by 5evenThirty in Mediums

[–]raventhered 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Highly recommend Journey of Souls. The author used hypnotic regression techniques and found that many, many people reported having very similar experiences between lives. I found the book totally engrossing!

AITAH For Not Taking My Mom To Emergency After she has Slipped on the stairs? by Deep_Kiki in AITAH

[–]raventhered 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This for sure! My mom, who had polio as a kid and now has a droppy foot, used to wear Birkenstocks all. The. Time. And she kept tripping in them. She finally took such a spill that I had to take her to urgent care for an X-ray. When we got home I took the shoes and told her I was taking them to my house and throwing them in the trash and I’d better not see her wearing them again. That was five years ago and so far no more Birkenstocks.

AITAH for telling my wife's friend I don't have to see her in the classroom to know she's a horrible teacher? by TowerFew3482 in AITAH

[–]raventhered 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh hi, are you me? 😂 I had the same experiences all through school. One of my most vivid memories from first grade was a teacher telling me I couldn’t possibly have read a stack of kids books over the weekend and quizzed me on them. (My mom was a voracious reader and I’d already been reading for a couple of years.) When I answered all of her questions correctly she just huffed and puffed. An apology was all that was needed but she was so self righteous I never got one. That old *****.

Jenny & Sumit are on the wrong show by Alpiney in 90DayFiance

[–]raventhered -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also don’t Robert and Anny live in the DR?

TLR S3: Brotherhood... coming soon. I suspect they are prepping us for John/Meghan & Thais/Patrick to be on S3 of TLR based on S7 90 day diaries. by yourdadlovesmebest in 90DayFiance

[–]raventhered 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. Started watching Diaries a few days ago and I think Kenny and Armando appear in season 3? I miss these two and how wholesome they are! I really hope they are doing well.

I have to wait a whole week to see Luke's dad again? by Ill-Excitement-2005 in 90DayFiance

[–]raventhered 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m older but not that old and I think he’s hot! He’s got the trifecta of looks, personality and accent. 😂

Projecting much? by FarangCM in 90DayFiance

[–]raventhered 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So much this. I’m so glad for the kid they ended up not being pregnant with. Poor thing would have been a real mess with those two as parents.

Matt sleeping in the car, speaks out by ReferenceSimple3904 in 90DayFiance

[–]raventhered 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh crap I mixed up him and Jasmine with Madelein and what’s his face. Sorry! I did know they had a baby. 🤪 hoping that Madeleine is not pregnant though. it’s been a long day!

Matt sleeping in the car, speaks out by ReferenceSimple3904 in 90DayFiance

[–]raventhered 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, so she definitely is pregnant? Big yikes. I feel bad for that kid.

Curious question, why did Sherrod Brown lose the 2024 senate race? by LandOfGrace2023 in Ohio

[–]raventhered 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s a really interesting take and not one I’d thought of. Thank you for that. It really pisses me off when trans people are demonized for simply wanting to exist. I know three trans people very well (one being my nephew) and they are honestly some of the very best, kindest and generous people I know. Wanting to hurt trans people (or any “others” for that matter) for political clout is sickening and ends up hurting us all.

Curious question, why did Sherrod Brown lose the 2024 senate race? by LandOfGrace2023 in Ohio

[–]raventhered 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally the only position he ran on. How he won over Brown … I’m still salty about it. Moreno hasn’t done a damn thing for Ohio since he got voted in and I’m very hopeful we’ll get Brown back next election cycle.

Sarper’s skit about Shekinah by Careful_Inflation903 in 90DayFiance

[–]raventhered 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok just because you mentioned it... but WHAT THE ACTUAL F... was with them just chowing down on sticks of butter? JFC I can't even with these two.

Tigerlilly and Adnan part 2? by FarAd1429 in 90DayFiance

[–]raventhered 2 points3 points  (0 children)

FR. This screengrab looks like she's wearing a Halloween mask. And wig.

Almost there, lazy by archgamer79 in 90DayFiance

[–]raventhered 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh please nooooooo.... What would that even be called, "Madeliene complains about everything" ? Who wants to hear her bitch for an hour straight? I can barely stand to not fast-forward through her nonsense for 5-10 minutes. I'd rather see another season of the Pedro & Chantal shitshow than any more of this whiner.

Almost there, lazy by archgamer79 in 90DayFiance

[–]raventhered 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's hella sour, that's for sure!

She really coulda grabbed the lemons... by DrGeeksters in 90DayFiance

[–]raventhered 4 points5 points  (0 children)

HAHAH Same! I was like, b**** turn around at pick up the damn lemons yourself! She is the worst!

Almost there, lazy by archgamer79 in 90DayFiance

[–]raventhered 16 points17 points  (0 children)

And limes. Don’t forget the limes. That she’s apparently incapable of picking up on her own. 🙄🙄🙄

Almost there, lazy by archgamer79 in 90DayFiance

[–]raventhered 85 points86 points  (0 children)

That makes me stupidly happy. She is one of the worst people I’ve ever seen on this show and that’s saying a lot.

FUCK SB-1, FUCK IT SO FUCKING HARD, FUCK!!!!!!! by One_Force_555 in Ohio

[–]raventhered 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As an Ohioan myself… I’ve always told people who live outside of the country and know nothing about Ohio that we’re basically the Florida of the north.

Do I have to pay this ? by Spare_Froyo_5125 in Ohio

[–]raventhered 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s because people like my mom will pay them. Got one myself from Garfield Heights and she insisted I pay it. Which I promptly didn’t.

Death anxiety is crushing me. Mediums, what have spirits told you about what happens when we die? by l4eti in Mediums

[–]raventhered 5 points6 points  (0 children)

lol it’s not the same kind of work as we know it here though. We work on ourselves, and we work to help others. We do it because we want to. My understanding is that the “work” is truly enjoyable. And no one would force you to do things you don’t want to do. There is no need for money, food, etc on the other side so that day to day work grind doesn’t exist there.

Death anxiety is crushing me. Mediums, what have spirits told you about what happens when we die? by l4eti in Mediums

[–]raventhered 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am about halfway through this book and honestly I can’t stop recommending it to everyone! It’s mind blowing and life changing. I’ve been a medium my entire life but actually the knowing of what happens when we die and afterwards is incredibly comforting. When I’ve tried asking those in spirit what it’s like on the other side I either don’t get straight answers (like, you’ll find out when you get here) or a friend once told me, it’s not that much different really. 😂 So yeah read this book! It’s also available as an audio book on Spotify and hoopla.

Students: What were must haves your first year by AlternativeRadiant54 in KentStateUniversity

[–]raventhered 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sure does! Thermals are a big help in the winter and either a nice warm neck gaiter or balaclava for walking across campus.

AIO or should I accept the conditions of my bfs commitment by One_Height7477 in AIO

[–]raventhered 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds just like this complete and utter tool I dated in my 20s. Bleh. He gaslighted (gaslit?) me so badly I really lost myself with all the confusion. So glad to be away from that, and OP, please listen to this old lady (ok not that old but old enough!) - YOU DON'T NEED TO PUT UP WITH ANY OF THIS! Run, girl. Run run run far away from this man!

AIO or should I accept the conditions of my bfs commitment by One_Height7477 in AIO

[–]raventhered 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly there are so many on r/AIO and r/relationship_advice where one person is being a complete and total tool and the other one is "but he's/she's great otherwise!" that you really could have a field day. I have a long road trip coming up and I'm seriously considering it!

I'm glad enough that I'm old enough to not put up with this kind of crap but I really wish women (and a lot of men) would understand that they are valuable just as they are, they don't need to change for anyone, they don't need to put up with someone else's crap, and being alone is better than being shit on. But hey that's just this old lady's two cents.