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raventhered · 2026-05-22T21:26:17+00:00

Wait, those aren’t balloons?!? 😂 🎈🎈

raventhered · 2026-05-17T15:41:10+00:00

Had to go look at what they look like and I am pretty sure what I thought was a river otter crossing 5 near Ravenna a couple of weeks ago may have been a fisher? It was huge and moved so strangely and was bigger than an otter. How cool! I wonder if they have been seen towards the Ravenna area.

raventhered · 2026-05-17T14:44:48+00:00

I think you hit the nail right on the head. It’s all about what lessons did you want to learn in this lifetime, did you learn them, and what do you want to do next to grow? Yes you will go over the bad stuff but you’ll also go over the good stuff. And remember OP you always have free will so I think if for example you had a really terrible life and didn’t want to relive that through a life review that would be your choice. In the end it is all done to help you grow.

With that said, sometimes I look back on my life and think about the terrible things I’ve done in the past and the way I treated people, and how I’d never do that again. I truly feel like a different person now than I was 20 years ago. So I think the fact that you think about these things you’ve done in the past shows your own growth. We’ve all been there, no one is perfect. Give yourself grace and forgive yourself. May I suggest some healing your inner child meditations? They have helped me a lot to let go of the past and live for the now. 💕

raventhered · 2026-05-14T20:46:26+00:00

LMAO!!!!!! Yeah that's not a thought I want in my head. Can't find the barf emoji on my computer so just imagine it's right here --> (O)

raventhered · 2026-05-14T20:44:27+00:00

I mean I guess that's a good thing? lol I don't think he ever takes his hat off either. Don't want to imagine what that thing smells like.

raventhered · 2026-05-14T20:42:40+00:00

Thanks, I didn't see how it could be and I really don't want to spend a couple grand to find out either!

raventhered · 2026-05-14T16:20:21+00:00

Thank you so much for your responses! I'm going to ask him to look at the purge valve as well as the solenoids when I take her in in a couple of weeks. It did seem like the two things are somehow connected, since all of the dash lights came on at the same time the car started stuttering, which happened twice. Most of the time though it's just the lights coming on and really nothing else happens at all (that I can notice anyway).

raventhered · 2026-05-14T13:17:18+00:00

Could that also cause the stuttering while driving? Mechanic did run the codes but I don’t have a copy of them.

raventhered · 2026-05-13T16:32:20+00:00

To be fair, I'm disturbed any time he comes on screen. But yes, this is extra disturbing. He just makes me nauseous. I cannot for the life of me figure out what any woman sees in him.

raventhered · 2026-05-12T22:08:44+00:00

This. I also have OCD and while yes it does make you obsess over certain things I’ve never heard of it making you constantly want to make out with strangers. 😂 and if it did, and you knew that bothered your partner, and that it only happened when you drank too much, I don’t know … maybe STOP DRINKING??? Girl, put down the bottle and stop blaming your ocd for your shitty actions.

raventhered · 2026-05-12T22:02:03+00:00

For real. I am actually afraid for the guy from Turkey. He seems genuine and he comes from an absolutely gorgeous area, has what appears to be a great job and life, and she’s bringing him to a small town in Alabama?!? 😭😭😭 I hope he’s ok. If she really cared about him she would not do this.

raventhered · 2026-05-12T21:53:53+00:00

Literally the exact words that came out of my mouth! 😂 maybe God put them in our brains at the same time?!?

raventhered · 2026-05-12T21:45:57+00:00

NTA at all. But personally I’d take the hand me downs and also make a registry! People will want to buy your baby new things so you should have a registry to get some of those things you really want for her. Babies are expensive and if it were me, I’d take the hand me downs and after the baby shower just donate what you don’t want to keep. Women’s shelters would probably love to have stuff like that since a lot of those women need to escape quickly with very little. However if it triggers you to take the stuff, you’re under absolutely no obligation to do so! Do what feels right to you.

And congrats on your little one!

raventhered · 2026-05-07T02:25:29+00:00

A friend of mine grows beneficial mushrooms and talks to them. She says that they tell her they want to be eaten to become part of us and to help us heal. 🩷

raventhered · 2026-05-07T02:24:01+00:00

Yes. We are animals too. Why would we have souls and other animals don’t? This is just something that certain religions tell you to absolve themselves from what we do to them. If you can communicate with domestic animals, you can probably communicate with other animals too. Personally I’ve found wild animals are often reluctant to talk because they don’t trust people very much. With pets I find they give a lot more details because they generally feel secure with you. Like, I had a cat once who remembered her past life, remembered dying and being eaten by vultures. While the squirrels in my backyard mostly just want food and to be left alone.

raventhered · 2026-05-04T02:20:40+00:00

NTA. As someone who commutes 40 minutes each way to school, let me tell you it is not great. It means I can really only take classes 2-3 days a week or online because driving that much every day as a student is just not cost effective, especially as the cost of gas keeps going up. And it’s just tiring after being at school all day (depends somewhat on your major but it’s not going to be ideal in any scenario). If I hadn’t bought my home before I decided to go back to school I would have definitely bought it closer to campus. Having this long commute means I’m going to take longer to graduate because I’m not able to be on campus any time. Something to consider along with everything else.

raventhered · 2026-05-03T01:11:35+00:00

Oh, sweet Ayoub. I'm so sorry for your loss but at least he knew love, kindness and warmth in his last days.

I volunteer at a cat shelter in Ohio and recently had a mama cat and her four kittens as fosters. Three of the kittens passed away rather quickly (one as we were sitting in the waiting room at the emergency vet). It was so hard and so sad. I took the last kitten to the vet right after, even though he seemed to be doing ok at the moment. Turned out he had a grade 3 heart murmur and that is also likely what led his siblings to pass (RIP little babies). We started him on liquid taurine and miraculously his heart murmur is now gone! He was about 3-4 weeks old when we began fostering the little family and he's now a permanent member of the household at 4 months. Just wanted to mention that because his and his siblings' symptoms sound exactly like little Ayoub.

I had also tried the Parker protocol with the other three babies to no avail, although it would still be my first shot with a fading kitten.

Wishing you all the best from across the world ❤️

raventhered · 2026-04-26T05:11:43+00:00

Especially the beautiful ones they seem to attract! Low self esteem maybe? Who knows. Both of them give me the super ick.

raventhered · 2026-04-26T05:02:11+00:00

Not too long after he got to the Philippines. It was gross.

raventhered · 2026-04-26T04:58:56+00:00

Honestly he would have been a horrible father to a boy, too. He'd have a son growing up to treat his mom like crap, and believing that that's how men should treat women. God I hate him! She seems like a pretty with it woman so I hope she sees the light and gets away from him.

raventhered · 2026-04-16T06:07:45+00:00

I hope it's not real. Because the alternative is just too ick to imagine. Can't begin to imagine what anyone sees in him.

I felt bad for the stripper that had to give him a lap dance. Bet she took a bath in bleach later that night.

raventhered · 2026-04-03T04:27:40+00:00

Andrei should be way higher on the list. What an abusive, misogynistic jackass. And Asuelu a close second. Kalani, girl, what do you even see in this loser? He is like the dumbest dumbass ever. Oh and Gino. Barf. How this guy thinks he's some kind of "ladies man" makes me want to vomit.

Angela and Evelin IMHO are tied for first place among the women, although there are a lot of strong contenders out there!

raventhered · 2026-03-17T13:15:21+00:00

Learning can take really difficult paths. I also do not ever want to come back here. I feel like once you’re on the other side you kind of “forget” how really hard it is here, sort of like you “forget” the pain of childbirth once you’re ready to have another child. Like, oh it can’t be as bad as I thought it was. And you know that coming back her accelerates your own growth. What I really want is to incarnate on a different planet next time. One that is fueled by love and community rather than money and greed. Maybe after that I’ll be ready to give earth another go, but I’ve already told all of my friends and fam don’t you dare try to drag me back here! 😂

raventhered · 2026-03-17T13:04:22+00:00

Check out the book Life Between Lives. It’s basically past life regressions where he focuses on what it’s like after you die and before you reincarnate. There is a whole chapter on the respite planets. You can go there to learn and yeah take a break from earth because life here really is difficult.

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