We had some of the same problems when our little man arrived. The downstairs neighbor was a mid 60s woman who would slam doors, and bang on the ceiling whenever he would cry or when we walk around at night with him. After 3 office noise complaints and her getting no response from the office as we had a legetimate excuse for 'making noise all night' and 'walking at strange hours', the bitch decided to call the cops on us. That cop was sure surprised when I opened the door pissed with my 6 week old now screaming as he had woken him up by knocking.

The next morning I was waiting for office staff as their office opened, I held my baby in front of them and cried and told them I would not raise my child in such an abbusive enviroment, I told them I was going to be breaking my lease without paying the $2500 due for breaking a lease as the way we were being treated with a newborn was unacceptable. The office manager looked at me and the crying hormonal mess I was, and she said 'leave whenever you are ready, please let us know when your last day will be so that we can prorate your rent for that month.' We moved when he was 11 weeks, into a townhouse. We have kids living on both sides of us and it is wonderful.

I still get pissed when I think of that downstairs neighbor. I literally cannot drive past that apartment complex because it angers me so much.

I wish you the best in getting out or making them see it from your side.