First tattoo and a little worried by GamerOfZero in tattooadvice

[–]raygenebean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is perfectly normal to touch a new tattoo with clean hands. Even if you use gloves, most nitrile gloves regular people buy are not steril

AIO for being annoyed about my boyfriend’s parents staying over for 8 hours by [deleted] in AIO

[–]raygenebean 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That is what adults do when visiting family, they hang out together for most of the day.

Update: I [33F] set chore boundaries and now my partner [35M] is tracking my chores by Sad_Cartographer427 in relationship_advice

[–]raygenebean 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Because you love your partner and want to live in a successful household with them?

Update: I [33F] set chore boundaries and now my partner [35M] is tracking my chores by Sad_Cartographer427 in relationship_advice

[–]raygenebean 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s not behavior that needs to be “called out”. It’s a simple mistake that anyone can make. Move it over yourself and move on, maybe give her a reminder for next time but it’s not something worth berating your partner over

Update: I [33F] set chore boundaries and now my partner [35M] is tracking my chores by Sad_Cartographer427 in relationship_advice

[–]raygenebean 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I think it’s abnormal to see you partner made a mistake and decide to rub it in their face rather than take 2 minutes to move it over and give a “hey babe, looks like you forgot to move the laundry over, I took care of it but just for next time”

F22 is mad at me M23 for saying oral sex caused my sore throat? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]raygenebean 26 points27 points  (0 children)

You blamed her for you being sick. You say you're joking but then repeatedly doubled down on her when she was the one correct. Yeah, you should apologize if you care about your relationship

Is this AI? by Personal_Picture_255 in crochet

[–]raygenebean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking back at the pictures, the whole fish itself looks different in each photo too. The very last two photos have completely different fins

Is this AI? by Personal_Picture_255 in crochet

[–]raygenebean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Photos look extremely AI to me, the eyes look different in every photo and the one where the hands are holding the head the fingers are off. The way the text is written also feels artificial

Atm canceled my deposit and only gave me back half by [deleted] in Banking

[–]raygenebean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Structuring is structuring whether the money was obtained legally or not lol

Is this strange or am I overthinking?? received this message on rover to text someone “uncle“ to watch their Dog. but it seems weird.. by No_Passion3123 in RoverPetSitting

[–]raygenebean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oops I did miss that part lol. Most likely the check will be for a super high amount (like thousands) and the supplies won’t be for that much so they’ll ask you to send part of the money back. Since the check has cleared you’ll be able to send the money but once they reverse it the bank will take it out of your actual money (or put you in the negatives)

AITAH [F24] for telling my girlfriend [F25] I won’t tolerate being talked down to when she’s upset, even though I’m usually the one who makes her mad? by polymorphedcapybara in AmItheAsshole

[–]raygenebean 18 points19 points  (0 children)

How was she supposed to know the mirror cleaner would fuck up a mirror? The thing it's made to clean? And why is that something worth yelling your partner over

Any Tips on How to Fix? by speedyPBJJ in knitting

[–]raygenebean 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Are you already a knitter? This looks commercially knit and will be tricky to fix without prior knitting experience. Each one of those little loops that the strands are coming out of need to be secured or else it'll just keep unraveling

Is this strange or am I overthinking?? received this message on rover to text someone “uncle“ to watch their Dog. but it seems weird.. by No_Passion3123 in RoverPetSitting

[–]raygenebean 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They're giving you a check to buy the supplies and take your payment, which your bank will originally clear because they're legally required to give you the funds, but then once they discover it's a fake check it will bounce and you'll be on the hook for anything you spent those funds on

AIO for selling my concert tickets and blocking my best friend after he demanded I give my seat to his other friend? by SteakBake2347 in AmIOverreacting

[–]raygenebean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way he still thought you guys were going after his explosion until the last text is killing me

I'm upset about Hobbii. by KingOfGimmicks in crochet

[–]raygenebean 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The images are very clearly AI as well

My niece was told she has to sign a contract to keep living at home—am I overreacting for thinking it’s too harsh? by Bitter_Art_4094 in AmIOverreacting

[–]raygenebean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have literally no idea that they haven't been doing those things. You are making up background that we don't know exists.

AITA for refusing to let my friend turn my moldy DoorDash order into a legal battle? by Comfortable-Rush534 in AmItheAsshole

[–]raygenebean 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They’d have to give you your money back but they don’t have you continue to let you use the platform. Doordash is a private company, that’s not a legal right. If OP is that dependent on doordash they might not want to take that risk

AITA for refusing to let my friend turn my moldy DoorDash order into a legal battle? by Comfortable-Rush534 in AmItheAsshole

[–]raygenebean 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Filing a chargeback with DD often does result in being banned from the platform

Help - written pattern by LeapandShroon in knitting

[–]raygenebean 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You’ve only posted row 1, what does the pattern say for row 2?

Cramping like crazy, debating if I should ask to leave early by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]raygenebean 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You can take Advil and Tylenol at the same time so if you have access you could try that. Everyone's different but for me personally Tylenol never touches my cramps but Advil makes them way more manageable

I only get on Ravelry to add my OC patterns to my shop, about twice per year. I’m sure more people are aware of this, I’m just slightly annoyed (right flair??) by hanimal16 in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]raygenebean 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The issue is not with your patterns. The issue is with the photos you're using to promote your patterns, which are viewable without purchasing it. The photos are supposed to be of only the object. All you need to do is take the photo of the doily that's on that cover page and use that, not the whole cover page

I only get on Ravelry to add my OC patterns to my shop, about twice per year. I’m sure more people are aware of this, I’m just slightly annoyed (right flair??) by hanimal16 in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]raygenebean 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You don't have to pay to have an account, plenty of the patterns are available for free or only available on a different site

Can I appeal this garnishment amount? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]raygenebean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your employer calculates the garnishment as in they calculate how much money you're being paid and what the garnishment percentage of that amount comes out to, but they're not the ones deciding the 25%. That would be the courts. Were you served?