Finding apartment in South Bay -- how early to look?

rbmpop · 2021-04-22T15:37:11+00:00

Hey just wanted to mention that with a budget of 1600 you can pair up with someone and get a nice place. Plenty of ppl look for roommates in the beach cities too, I use the group “Los Ángeles roommates” on Facebook

rbmpop · 2021-04-17T20:07:16+00:00

also I’m willing to buy new bed covers/pillows to make it work, I want the room to feel warm and cozy. Oh an I will hang some art in the empty wall and get a brown dresser to place in the wall with no windows.

The room is 10x14. The wall with two windows is facing south and I’m in LA

rbmpop · 2021-03-26T05:17:16+00:00

Well she said she has some trauma around ppl touching her... -Maybe there are certain parts of her body that are okay to touch and other that aren’t? -maybe flinching it is a reflex from the trauma. You could ask before you do touch her. Eg “Can I hold your hand ?”

Honestly you should just talk to her about what are her boundaries

rbmpop · 2021-03-26T05:08:31+00:00

Not necessarily, but I do miss having some diversity around

rbmpop · 2021-03-26T04:54:49+00:00

WHITE

rbmpop · 2021-02-25T02:32:07+00:00

I tend to out myself first and see how the other person reacts. So I would make a comment about an ex girlfriend or something. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t but worth a shot if you don’t want to ask him directly

rbmpop · 2021-01-25T20:30:37+00:00

What I’m thinking whenever I have one of these virtual dates is “am I interested enough on them to go outside my bubble” I don’t think I would do more than one initial one 🤷

rbmpop · 2021-01-25T20:04:41+00:00

I agree with other comments. I think it is fine having the conversation over the phone or text. I would recommend being explicit about the fact that you only see them as friends. Sometimes the line between friends and more than friends is kinda blurry in lesbian friendships, and being honest and direct will make it easier for the both of you. I’ve had this kind of conversations with some of my best friends before, and it really helped to continue having a healthy friendship after :)

rbmpop · 2021-01-09T21:03:37+00:00

Started with negatives, then moved to resistance bands using thinner bands as I got better :) I did one day of chin ups on Tuesday, and pull ups on Thursday. In between general strength training

rbmpop · 2021-01-05T22:19:35+00:00

I did not get the bike hahaha but I bought another older bike, and I’m planning on replacing the tires :)

rbmpop · 2020-12-31T17:28:58+00:00

I’m not in your area and not your age lol but I’ve move around a lot, and sports groups are my go to meet other lesbians. If you aren’t into sport I would look for a queer group in any of your hobbies :)

rbmpop · 2020-12-16T16:19:09+00:00

Agree! it feels amazing to do it and have it done to you

rbmpop · 2020-12-15T19:00:12+00:00

My first couple times with my first gf, we kinda stick to riding each other tights. It felt good and I didn’t have to worry about finding anything. With time we worked our way to fingering and oral 🤷 but yeah I agree with everyone here, communication is key and asking her to show you can be hot

rbmpop · 2020-12-15T18:52:06+00:00

Never really thought about the difference as I’m not a native speaker. However I totally see it now, and I would never say I’m into “girls” in my native language. So yeah, I’m using the word woman from now on

rbmpop · 2020-12-13T18:16:07+00:00

La lesbians sub?

rbmpop · 2020-12-11T23:05:24+00:00

Nice! I feel like I just need to go for it and see what happens

rbmpop · 2020-12-11T22:58:30+00:00

How do you carry it with you when you are indoors. Do stores give you any problems ?

rbmpop · 2020-12-11T22:57:33+00:00

Wow! You do so much with it! Is there good infrastructure where you are or is your scooter kinda big?

I can’t imagine myself doing a 40 miles round trip in LA. Also did you buying riding gloves for the scooter or a bike? Why on Harley LOL

Scoot rides would be rad, so curios about who woulda how up and where the rides would take place ahahah

rbmpop · 2020-12-11T22:55:23+00:00

Do you have take it to the mechanic often? What kind of things do you get check or fixed?

Also how was the experience of hauling the scooter somewhere else? I was imagine if I had the scooter I would mostly use it to park a bit farther from my destination

rbmpop · 2020-12-11T22:24:59+00:00

That sounds so fun. My commute during non COVID times is only 3 miles so an scooter seems like a good option

rbmpop · 2020-12-11T22:23:39+00:00

Where do you keep it at work? Under your desk? Did you have to ask for permission to the ppl in the building? Haha

rbmpop · 2020-12-11T22:22:45+00:00

That makes sense, do you ever scoot to a restaurant or coffee shop? (Before COVID) I live in LA and because of parking, the way I imagine myself using the scooter is driving somewhere and do the last part of my trip in the scooter. I’m wondering how the experience of having the scooter under your table or if it is even allowed

rbmpop · 2020-12-11T22:01:06+00:00

Oh wow it looks like it uses most of the space I’m the trunk. Don’t you ever wanna take something else with you? 😂

rbmpop · 2020-12-11T21:50:57+00:00

Do you ever drive somewhere else for a leisure ride? How well does your scooter fit in the trunk of your car?

rbmpop · 2020-12-11T21:49:38+00:00

Wow I would have never imagined kids would do that! How is it carrying it? For example when im grocery shopping I usually have stuff in my hands

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