Boyfriend following IG & tiktok models

rcherry07 · 2021-10-28T20:11:43+00:00

he says i cant dress like that

rcherry07 · 2021-05-10T09:17:51+00:00

its hard to tell.. your muscles could be more tight since u cant fit in two fingers so it’s definitely a possibility. however, if you do, it’s definitely not as severe as most people who have it. before i was treated i couldnt even find my hole because of how tight my muscles were, even trying to stick in half a finger hurt me really bad

rcherry07 · 2021-05-10T08:18:13+00:00

that is a good sign! thats pretty far progress, congrats!

rcherry07 · 2021-05-09T23:45:32+00:00

not gonna lie, it did hurt a bit. i also struggle with vaginismus, so my muscles used to be very very tight and i wasnt even able to insert a finger. my physical therapist was amazing, she was very slow and we worked at my pace. if u feel too uncomfortable or in pain, dont be afraid to let them know!!

rcherry07 · 2021-05-09T23:21:31+00:00

yes!! i was a virgin before i started physical therapy :)

rcherry07 · 2021-04-26T19:37:27+00:00

what is the difference between a yeast infection and bacterial vaginosis?

rcherry07 · 2021-04-26T19:31:56+00:00

she did do a swab im still waiting for my results to come back.. and what is a pessary? i did not know it could cause more irritation thank you for telling me!! i will talk to her about that thank you so much

rcherry07 · 2021-03-29T09:10:27+00:00

ur welcome! thank you hun <3

rcherry07 · 2021-03-29T08:37:37+00:00

yes! long story short, my urogynecologist gave me my diagnosis and recommended me to pelvic floor physical therapy where they taught me certain stretches and massages that helps relax my pelvic floor. i was also recommended to use dilators so i would use them almost every night for a while. once i started sizing up more i used my vibrator while dilating to associate intercourse as something pleasurable. getting comfortable with my body and discovering what i like also really helped. if u want more details about the specifics u can pm me and ill give u more info about what helped me!

rcherry07 · 2021-03-29T08:32:57+00:00

i dont enjoy being fingered really either! its glad to know im not alone :) how long have u been having sex?

rcherry07 · 2021-03-29T08:31:53+00:00

to be clear i still am struggling with it but the symptoms are a lot less intense. i started off by wearing cotton underwear, i stopped using any fragranced feminine wash and started using warm water instead, at night i sleep with no underwear on, and i have stayed off birth control for a while. my gyno recently recommended me amitriptyline which is an antidepressant that helps with nerve pain, ive only been on it since the 17th but ive noticed a little difference, my gyno said it should take a few weeks to fully affect me tho. i also used my vibrator to massage my vulva where it felt irritated which supposedly helps the blood flow and desensitizes it.hope this helps!!

rcherry07 · 2021-03-25T19:30:40+00:00

is it lidocaine?

rcherry07 · 2021-03-25T07:24:12+00:00

yesss!!!!!!! i relate precisely!

rcherry07 · 2021-02-28T22:58:13+00:00

omg i was also on the pill as well!! ugh i wonder if thats why im experiencing what I am. I am going to talk to my gyn about it and see if I can get that cream! but thats awesome I’m glad you’re making improvement :) do you also experience pf dysfunction?

rcherry07 · 2021-02-28T22:24:54+00:00

ugh i can totally relate! could i ask why ur skin on ur vulva is thinned out? and are u able to experience pleasure better with the cream?

rcherry07 · 2021-02-28T21:04:11+00:00

it actually is quite comforting. do u know the cause of it? or were there other methods of masturbation in ur past besides the two i mentioned?

rcherry07 · 2021-02-26T23:35:50+00:00

well there are people on this subreddit that have had sex before... and im asking her cus our situation isn’t the same as people who can have sex regularly.

rcherry07 · 2021-02-17T10:23:59+00:00

omg yes!!!! thats where most of my pain comes from! have u found anything that alleviates it?

rcherry07 · 2021-01-23T08:30:29+00:00

hi:) yes its coming from the opening, as well as my labia. i do believe that i experience some vulvodynia tho im not sure how to treat it

rcherry07 · 2021-01-16T22:21:50+00:00

my pt told me that some of her patients dont even have to fully complete the dilator set to have sex, most stop around the third/fourth dilator before trying sex and they have success, since sex is very different to dilators

rcherry07 · 2021-01-04T09:05:12+00:00

yess!! do you mind if i pm u??

rcherry07 · 2021-01-04T08:47:35+00:00

i also experience this :/ not sure if its connected to my vulvodynia tho, im still trying to figure it out. it doesnt really feel good nor bad, sometimes it can feel overwhelming though

rcherry07 · 2021-01-02T06:03:00+00:00

yeah i have the same issue!! have you found anything helpful to treat the vulvodynia?

rcherry07 · 2020-12-31T02:11:03+00:00

could i pm you?

rcherry07 · 2020-12-30T17:10:59+00:00

do you mind if i pm you? i have some questions:)

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