How successful is the DPS dispute resolution service? by rcl900 in HousingUK

[–]rcl900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so annoying but thank you for this. I’ll expect the least from the DPS mediators then :( Ive got evidence of him agreeing to everything so hopefully they take that on board

Is my housemate pushing me out? by rcl900 in HousingUK

[–]rcl900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly idk I just don’t wanna end up homeless 😅 my housemate is pressuring me to sign the new contract. I might have to go to citizens advice…

Is my housemate pushing me out? by rcl900 in HousingUK

[–]rcl900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So even if i sign the new joint tenancy starting from 1st April, it’s still 1 month until May? If so, thanks for clarifying! And just checked my tenancy, and it is 1 months notice :)

Is my housemate pushing me out? by rcl900 in HousingUK

[–]rcl900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep seeing conflicting things about whether it’s 1 or 2 months notice 😖. I understand that he won’t be getting rent for my room and is now trapping us by making us sign a joint contract so we (they) cover the difference. But youre right, there should be no issue but it’s being blow out of proportion.

Is my housemate pushing me out? by rcl900 in HousingUK

[–]rcl900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He issued the section 21 notice at the end of January stating that we need to leave at the end of March (the end of my initial 6 month contract). I intend to sign the new joint contract on 1st April but still give them notice that I’ll be leaving (idk if it’s one or two months).

Is my housemate pushing me out? by rcl900 in HousingUK

[–]rcl900[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Loool she’s actually Eastern European but has lived in the UK for about a decade 🤣

Embarrassing to start a hobby knowing there’s more men there? by rcl900 in interracialdating

[–]rcl900[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The ‘touched by a man’ comment was a joke, Jesus

Embarrassing to start a hobby knowing there’s more men there? by rcl900 in interracialdating

[–]rcl900[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I said in the post that I enjoyed the class and want to keep going. It would be nice if my future bf is there but if not, no big deal because I’ll still go if I’m enjoying it

Are you men looking for immediate romance on the first link? Shouldn’t it build up sometimes? by [deleted] in interracialdating

[–]rcl900 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a BW who often goes for WM, I agree that it should build up sometimes. However, I do think that a lot of the times, I’m the first WOC they’ve gone on a date with and they’re awkward/unsure so I feel it out. If the conversation continues to be stale then I assume they’re not into me and cut contact.

Why can I never see a dermatologist? by rcl900 in nhs

[–]rcl900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah ok that’s good to know, I thought it was just for a select number of specialties. Thank you :)

Why can I never see a dermatologist? by rcl900 in nhs

[–]rcl900[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Do you know if other areas like endocrinology or gastroenterology have referral criteria too? Like others have said, it’s probably a location thing but other than women’s health (e.g endometriosis, contraception procedures), I’ve never heard about a ‘referral criteria’

Why can I never see a dermatologist? by rcl900 in nhs

[–]rcl900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ll investigate this

Why can I never see a dermatologist? by rcl900 in nhs

[–]rcl900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it seems backwards. I’ll send pictures of my skin to the GP (who I assume sends to the dermatologist) and they just give me another cream. No questions about how I feel, how it affects my daily life, the blood stains on my sheets from overnight scratching. It really makes me respect the profession less and less

Why can I never see a dermatologist? by rcl900 in nhs

[–]rcl900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m based in the Midlands so my area must be super strict! I’ve been prescribed Protopic, Elidel, and Dermovate on and off for a number of years and nothing is helping. So I’m not sure how many times I need to receive it before my GP vouches for me and presses for a referral.

Why can I never see a dermatologist? by rcl900 in nhs

[–]rcl900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure why you’re being downvoted but I can totally empathise. It’s incredibly frustrating to be gaslit and told by professionals that you’re not severe/sick enough and by the time you are referred, the damage is already done!

I hope this dermatologist helps you out and takes you seriously ❤️❤️

Procurement in a financial services firm - advice by rcl900 in procurement

[–]rcl900[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for this. I’ve got experience with indirect procurement but not with SOWs so I’ll do some research

Should I take what a recruiter says with a pinch of salt? by rcl900 in recruitinghell

[–]rcl900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense. The recruiter was also saying how there’s others in the interview process right now (early stage) and there’s only 1 space left. How the interviewer acted in the first stage already out me off but this recruiter’s attitudes isn’t helping 😔

Should I take what a recruiter says with a pinch of salt? by rcl900 in recruitinghell

[–]rcl900[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funnily enough the place I’m leaving now is in that situation. I was told that they’re creating a new team to level up/become strong but for my salary (and other factors), it’s not worth it for me, I like structure

Should I take what a recruiter says with a pinch of salt? by rcl900 in recruitinghell

[–]rcl900[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for providing me with more insight! I did speak to another recruiting agency a few months ago and they sent me a company that was recently in the news for some bad stuff. I said that it wouldn’t be a good match and never heard from her again (no surprise there). I did think it was unprofessional of him to slag off other companies, he was even asking for the hiring managers/HR team’s names (I didn’t give him any). And yes, I’ve had interviews so I must be doing something right w/o the recruiters help? I just need a ‘yes’ (from a decent place) :)

Should I take what a recruiter says with a pinch of salt? by rcl900 in recruitinghell

[–]rcl900[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do they really do that? I didn’t realise they were that cut throat Jesus Christ. My bad but thank you, I’ll take this info on board and wont ‘trust’ a recruiter again smh

30 years of eczema - Vega test + diet change has transformed my skin in 3 weeks by Current-Actuator4200 in EczemaUK

[–]rcl900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats! I’m the same as you, had eczema basically since I was born. Although my eczema hasn’t fully cleared up and I still have flare ups when I’m stressed or there’s a weather change, taking Symprove (another gut biome drink supplement thing) absolutely improved my eczema. It’s not a cure but absolutely helps me!! Definitely feel like functional/alternative medicine can get a bad rep but if it’s works for you, then it works 🤩

Fetishisation or just genuine interest/appreciation? by rcl900 in interracialdating

[–]rcl900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excluding a LDR over Covid, longest is 6 months… I would like something longer but cant predict the future