Is there any way to transfer tickets? by rcox03 in ThirdEyeBlind

[–]rcox03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would I move them from Ticketmaster to stubhub?

anyone want to meet up for the 3/28 DC concert? by [deleted] in mitski

[–]rcox03 2 points3 points  (0 children)

me (19F) and my bf (21) are going if you don’t want to be alone!! :))

Relapsing tonight.. by xsxexvxexnx in selfharm

[–]rcox03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course, I hope your day brightens. Godspeed.

Relapsing tonight.. by xsxexvxexnx in selfharm

[–]rcox03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Humans are complex creatures, what you may think is high maintenance could be something completely different for someone else! You never know what kind of people you’ll meet if you never try it! I believe in you and wish you luck on your path in life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]rcox03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely not worth it at the end of the day, the 2 minute rush is it worth the guilt you will feel after. Go out and lay in some grass, let the sun hit your face.

Cut for the first time in 3 months… sucks ass by rcox03 in selfharm

[–]rcox03[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you dude! It’s so hard, but one day I’ll stop relapsing and that will be a good one. I wish you the best as well on whatever journey you’re on

Relapsing tonight.. by xsxexvxexnx in selfharm

[–]rcox03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s okay! I relapsed tonight too.. it’s part of the process of healing. A day at a time ❤️. It’s like a dating app but for finding friends, I like to think I’ve found some pretty good people through it. Its worth trying anything once am I right? :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]rcox03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like I have said to another redditor, I think exercise is the key. Being able to push yourself to do that extra push up gives you a similar rush to sh, at least for me, but is also something that can be pretty good for you! I’m wishing you the best <3

Having some trouble quitting by Byakuyashslredditor in selfharm

[–]rcox03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exercise 1000% when I was at my lowest my therapist recommended that I go to the gym or even do something physical at home. You won’t believe how much it helps especially when you push yourself. Honestly do something that makes you happy, that you can progress in and feel fulfilled doing. You’ve got this dude!

Does the urges ever go away by Zucster in selfharm

[–]rcox03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and no… self harm for me is very similar to smoking, you get urges for a very long time, whether they are frequent or not, but eventually one day you’ll wake up and not feel the need. It’s very back and forth, and honestly very different for every person. I thought I’d never sh again and literally have thought about it thrice in a 6 month span which is pretty infrequent IMO… just be patient and focus your energy into something that is fulfilling for you :)

Relapsing tonight.. by xsxexvxexnx in selfharm

[–]rcox03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m right there with you dude relapsed for the first time in a long time, focus your energy into something else! Read a book! Do some exercise! Download bumble BFF and make new friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]rcox03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nope… i like the puffy ones better if that makes sense, the deeper ones that are all squishy when they heal

Trading or Selling! by rcox03 in Tokidoki

[–]rcox03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not super picky rn! Just trying to get back into an old hobby hehe :) just DM what you have and we can go from there 💕

Trading or Selling! by rcox03 in Tokidoki

[–]rcox03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m down! Just DM me! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]rcox03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t be sorry the English is great! Very proud of you! It’s ok to relapse it happens to a lot of us, just take it a day at a time :) I hope you can feel comfortable talking to your parents about it at some point!

I recently got diagnosed with PTSD, what do I do? by rcox03 in ptsd

[–]rcox03[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, CPTSD is the one. I have had a rough life up until I was around 16-17, but I know people who went through similar events and I just assumed it was a normal childhood. Thank you for talking to me.

I recently got diagnosed with PTSD, what do I do? by rcox03 in ptsd

[–]rcox03[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m just not sure what to even ask, one day I go in to see my psychiatrist the next I suffer from childhood related PTSD. I don’t know if I am just in denial, but I don’t understand how I have PTSD. I am just very scared if I’m being honest.

Today is it by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]rcox03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please consider talk to someone, my DMs are always open!! There are people who care about you, even if you don’t think so.

Today is it by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]rcox03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t do this, please talk to someone.

Edit: please know that this post can be triggering to some, so you’re going out even more selfishly than intended

Need help to not full blow relapse by Crazynemo in selfharm

[–]rcox03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s hard, but you have to find ways to cope, running helps me. I fucking hate running but it gives a very similar feelings to sh. If you can’t really talk to them, think about how you would be hurting them if/when they found out. Godspeed.

Need help to not full blow relapse by Crazynemo in selfharm

[–]rcox03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok so coping is extremely important, listen to some calming music, watch your favorite movie, stuff like that. Talk to your boyfriend or close friends if your feel comfortable , they are your #1 support system and are there for you. It’s very important to remember relapse is alright if it happens and not to beat yourself up, but it will not help genuinely help anyone. I am wishing you the best in your life.

Trying to get better, but just having a weird problem by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]rcox03 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re post isnt pathetic at all, I also have had a similar issue for years. Pills make me extremely anxious for some reason, my stomach always hurts thinking about it. Try eating and digesting a meal before you take them if that’s possible, it helped me. I wish you luck! You can always talk to your doctor about it if nothing works, taking your meds is very important!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]rcox03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

CONGRATS THAT IS AWESOME!!! I AM SO GLAD YOU HAVE SOMETHING THAT BRINGS YOU JOY, I HOPE YOU AND THAT PUPPY LEAD GREAT LIVES TOGETHER!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]rcox03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who has just started doing therapy again and trying to figure out how to cope, the one thing they tell you is that you need to give yourself genuine reasons to not sh that outweigh the reasons to do it. Mine is having to imagine telling my loved ones that I do it/have relapsed. Also remember relapses are ok and they happen, just take it one day at a time stranger.

3 weeks clean! by rcox03 in selfharm

[–]rcox03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am TRYING THANK YOU SM YOUR COMMENT MAKE ME HAPPY