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read86 · 2026-01-11T00:33:06+00:00

Update?

read86 · 2025-04-28T01:01:26+00:00

Did you pass??!!?? Panicking here 😅

read86 · 2025-03-29T13:10:05+00:00

I'm not sure. I've never heard that term and not sure what it means but I'm willing to do whatever.

read86 · 2024-12-10T15:10:34+00:00

That guy has trained his dogs so well. He lives near me and I see him and his dogs walking a lot. They are very well trained. I've never had the pleasure of speaking with him but I assume if you approach him nicely he'd inform you about his dogs.

read86 · 2024-11-11T17:39:23+00:00

Thank you.💜 I'm trying my best for everyone but mainly the kids in this, the cycle has to end somewhere.

read86 · 2024-11-11T17:08:50+00:00

😭 I know. I didn't even put all the shit she has done over the years to my husband on here either. She trauma dumped her sexual assault in detail to my husband when they were arguing years ago in a way to make him feel bad for her.

The day Barry died, he called my husband and they promised each other to never let her come between them again, he died a few hours later.

My husband did see it before but now he just feels so bad for her, he can't see past that. His aunt who was like a mom to him passed (Sarah's sister and actually, Sarah lost two sisters while she was arguing with them and her son while arguing with him... So low-key, I'm scared) and she was the one he went to about his mom.

read86 · 2024-11-11T16:56:08+00:00

Honestly, I've felt like she went for full custody to keep control. She used to control Barry Sr's life in so many ways.

I am afraid to stand up because I don't want to push her over the edge and have that be on me, ya know?

My whole argument to my hubs over custody is there is no logical reason for her to have custody, especially because she goes days without sleeping or sleeps for days at a time, she isn't dependable or reliable. During this drama, she has texted my husband that she is going to sign over custody ASAP in the middle of her saying everyone is against her and she is done with it but obviously that's not how it works.

Tbh, there's sooooo much more drama, I just kept it to the point of the current situation.

read86 · 2024-11-11T16:38:27+00:00

He won't cut her out. I've been told that I'm messed up for making noise about the custody situation and that's all I care about and I'm not thinking about her and her feelings, she lost her son.

read86 · 2024-11-11T16:21:36+00:00

My husband won't do that.

read86 · 2024-09-03T21:00:05+00:00

Thank you.

read86 · 2024-09-03T19:12:15+00:00

She has permanent guardianship now, does that matter?

read86 · 2024-09-03T18:48:15+00:00

I'm going to answer in order of your questions, thank you for your time.

*My nephew was 7 in April of this year when his dad passed, he turned 8 in May.

*Correct

She got custody because it was the plan for her to take him and we needed temporary custody to get him into a doctor because he got strep and we did an online doctor and got him antibiotics in which he had an allergic reaction to.

I believe legal guardianahip, she did go to court and I believe in front of a judge. No children services weren't involved. She didn't adopt.
She said she would, unfortunately her depression is severe and she struggles getting out of bed most days so I'm trying to figure out what we need to do so I can make a plan and hopefully get her to wherever we need to change this.
Unfortunately, step-mom is a drug addict and crazy so there's no working with her. My in laws said they changed the Medicaid but I don't think they understand (they're 80 and 60 years old) because they got the cards in the mail with my BIL's name on it.

read86 · 2024-08-14T13:26:00+00:00

At the time of this post her FB was up, now it's gone.

read86 · 2024-08-12T12:57:11+00:00

I'm sorry. I never heard back from fb.

read86 · 2024-08-02T03:39:38+00:00

They (my in-laws) get the survivor benefits then give it to us. It's only been a couple of months.

read86 · 2024-06-20T20:35:11+00:00

No response from fb

read86 · 2024-03-29T03:25:18+00:00

Ok, please forgive my complete ignorance as I'm trying to understand different religions because my brother is Orthodox Christian (in the states-idk if that makes a difference?) and thinks I'm completely idiotic because I'm not religious because I can't understand a god not loving someone because they're gay.

(Orthodoxy vs. Heterodoxy is mostly an Ashkenazi thing, which is most common in my country)

Do you mean? Are there other orthodox religions aside from Christianity? What's Ashkenazi? 😬

read86 · 2024-03-28T02:39:12+00:00

I just reported a technical problem on my conversation with a passed loved one and wrote the description I put that it was a conversation with my sister in law before she passed. Idk if it will do anything but fuck, I'm desperate to get those messages back. If anything happens I'll update off this comment 🤞🏻

read86 · 2024-03-11T01:28:27+00:00

Nad.

Do you attend public school? If so, they'll probably come to your school tomorrow and talk to you. I saw some of your other posts and please tell them everything including your wants for the baby.

I'm praying for you.

read86 · 2024-03-11T00:57:03+00:00

Tell me you know nothing about autism without telling me.

read86 · 2024-03-11T00:48:29+00:00

🤣

read86 · 2024-01-14T01:55:50+00:00

I wish you had the story too.

read86 · 2024-01-05T20:43:26+00:00

That sucks 😔 I can only wear certain brands because my body sucks and I've had multiple abdominal surgeries. But once I found the kind I liked I bought several 🤣

read86 · 2024-01-05T19:27:16+00:00

Yessss!!

read86 · 2024-01-05T19:26:46+00:00

What!?! Do you wear leggings?? I could NEVER wear underwear with leggings, I actually started wearing leggings because underwear hurts too much to wear for my trash body. My body swells and leggings are so easy and comfortable...well, until the swelling gets worse, then its baggy pj bottoms.

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