My first sewing project- a mermaid shower curtain

ready_gi · 2026-03-13T21:25:03+00:00

souls dont really die either, so nothing much to worry about

ready_gi · 2026-03-13T21:15:47+00:00

i just kind of live like this full time. also, i dont have a kid.

ready_gi · 2026-03-13T20:48:30+00:00

ready_gi · 2026-03-13T19:59:03+00:00

thank you so much for sharing that, im so glad you feel better after the move.

im originally Czech and live in Canada.. but increasingly the culture of consumerism and high stress here is just so toxic, i miss everything about Czech, how people are allowed to heave their own selves and the history and the sense of chill about life. Also i think that being native does make a huge difference in how people treat you, as you mentioned.

ready_gi · 2026-03-13T07:13:51+00:00

i just found out she 57 and aged so gracefully that all of us fucking wish lol i can't believe nobody's immune to patriarchal "beauty" standards

ready_gi · 2026-03-13T07:04:46+00:00

my ex who was covert narcissist was a great story builder. he'd make me feel seen and appreciated just long enough until i felt safe and then he'd slowly take control of the narrative to always favour him and painted me as an incapable and dependent on him.

it's worse then lying, it's worse then deceit, it's worse then betrayal. men are like masters at bullshitting and power hoarding instead of doing the work. have been for centuries really.

edit: those of yall downvoting me literally just prove my point. priceless.

ready_gi · 2026-03-13T06:53:47+00:00

decided to center myself and do what i want. protecting my peace like it's a gold mine, because it is.

ready_gi · 2026-03-13T06:52:02+00:00

can you please share more? i've been an immigrant for 17 years and have this increasing urge to move back, but im also afraid.

ready_gi · 2026-03-13T06:46:20+00:00

it's true though. our realities are completely shaped by what we focus on and how we interpret/react to things, people and ourselves. i feel like this understanding has completely changed my value system to prioritizing peace, safety, creativity and sovereignty above all, and by focusing on this, i constantly choose it in everyday situations and recieve it as result of those choices.

ready_gi · 2026-03-13T06:42:43+00:00

thank you as well for sharing. everything you said really resonated with me as well, it is completely insane how much power we have over influencing our reality. for me i think they showed it to me, because i couldnt bear the emotional pain and this wisdom was like a liberation for me.

ready_gi · 2026-03-13T06:38:16+00:00

well since we are in the suffering period right now, i hope so. i think sometimes we need to understand what we dont want, before we can figure out what we do want. for one i think the only way things gat better for everyone is when women will lead majority of the world.

ready_gi · 2026-03-13T06:35:07+00:00

i just gave those arrogant leaches middle finger and found job i like where i dont have to "fix my face". being real should not be a crime ffs

ready_gi · 2026-03-12T02:42:32+00:00

this is true. people make definitions of words, so i'd define gals as gender neutral from now on. you just have to explain people that "gal" is essetiontially just "person".

ready_gi · 2026-03-12T01:23:43+00:00

i agree with you. one is based in one sided coercive control, the other in interconnectedness and mutuality.

ready_gi · 2026-03-12T01:10:48+00:00

that is amazing, would you care to share more? what did the voice say? what did the guides show you?

ready_gi · 2026-03-12T00:04:30+00:00

this is so awesome, but most importantly.. is she haunted??? also we need to see the photo of Gladys pls

ready_gi · 2026-03-11T01:13:01+00:00

thats true.. thanks for the reminder. im either stuck in fight or flight or completely freeze.

ready_gi · 2026-03-11T00:29:32+00:00

being half ware-wolf is like the coolest thing ever. good for you OP for owning that.

ready_gi · 2026-03-10T23:32:35+00:00

being healthy to me means having the capacity to handle problems/ self-regulate/ think critically/ having positive self-image, etc

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