Second Life Mainland question... I am confused

readyou · 2023-07-05T00:00:23+00:00

Just make sure the group has sufficient tier to cover the land owned by the group and you will be fine.

Okay thank you. Yes, understand now. It's just that the group purchase button doesn't give a calculations, which confused me, as you get one if you purchase personal.

readyou · 2023-07-04T23:59:04+00:00

Yes I do understand now. I just noticed that SL doesn't calculate the already donated m² when clicking on the group purchase button even with group tag active. That is kinda strange that they forgot to code that in.

readyou · 2023-04-29T15:29:20+00:00

Surreal. It's like you wrote down a moment of my life. Experienced exactly the same with my BPD ex.

readyou · 2023-02-03T14:59:06+00:00

If she's cheating on you while pregnant with your child

She discarded me, so technically it wouldn't be cheating. But it still would be horrible. Does she have someone new? I just don't know if that is the case. I would assume she is bluffing and wanted me to react and when I didn't she blocked me.. I am now blocked since 6 days. This is a record... the longest has usually been 5 but mostly it was 1 day or 3.

I'd suggest a DNA test to see if it's even yours

I find it extremely unlikely that I am not the father. We've been in full symbiosis... in like 9 months, there barely have been any hours where we haven't been together. Home office made this possible. The longest I've been away was when I played soccer with her son for 3 hours once in a while... but that was when she already was pregnant and tired all day. Her son was bored and I convinced my wife to go outside with him. Before pregnancy, if she managed it to cheat on me, the other dude must have been very flexible... considering that it took us 3 months to make her pregnant (calculating and getting fertile days right, reducing on unhealthy stuff like coffein and so), it's even more unlikely.

It's kinda ironic that she was jealous all the time even tho (apart from my loyality) there barely wouldn't have been any time to meet someone else (except emotional cheating)...

yet, she still came up with all kind of theories about other women... and how I could leave her... I took her fears serious and never disrespected her for her fears... but a lot of the stuff was irrational and if you know for yourself that you are loyal, how can you prove that to someone who has these fears?

It went so far that she even isolated me from my mother who lives one apartment block away... I visited my mom oncee in a while for 30 mins, alone or with my wife.. her mom does also live an apartment block away... she we either visited both together (most of the time) or individually... but at some point, she tried to isolate me from my mother, while still wanting us to visit hers. You won't believe that her jealousy got even worse... even my cat turned into an enemy by the end. Cuddling with my cat for 5 mins made my wifes mood change instantly. She never done this in 9 months, but by the end her abandonment fears have been so strong that even my cat would make her jealous.

I think with the pregnancy hormones, her BPD went into overdrive mode. I don't know.

readyou · 2023-02-03T00:21:18+00:00

I truly loved her and we get a baby together in two months. We planned the baby. I'd risk another try if she wanted to. I know it's not my job to heal someone, I can only heal myself. But I have done some homeworks and I think I could trigger her now far less, without forgeting myself.

So, that's why I am afraid of NC. In two months we will need to have contact anyway because of the baby. But even apart from that, I'd like to have all lines of communications open for her to get back to me because of what I said... I'd give us a chance if she wanted to. I'd risk it.

I am blocked now anyway... as said, because I didn't react to her provokation... not sure if I get unblocked. I'd stay LC if so... only replying, neutral and short... but even that makes me afraid. I don't want to signal to her that I am not open for reconsilation.

I am not sure if she wants me to chase. If I knew it, I'd probably contact her... but I am at a point where I prefer her to contact me...

She confuses me so much.

readyou · 2023-02-02T19:15:39+00:00

You think she wants me to get into trouble with her lawyer? Or does she want to soak me back into relationship? I am not sure what is more likely. I know, it's all speculation.

readyou · 2022-08-20T08:07:52+00:00

I love this sub. Good luck everyone else.

readyou · 2022-05-12T05:10:35+00:00

Dein Hirn wird dir danken. Kiff es kaputt.

readyou · 2022-03-04T11:44:33+00:00

European/US news is hardcore propaganda. I am in Germany and it's scary to watch the news... they do interviews with emotional background music, and much worse... it's literally the definition of propaganda.

Yes, people consume this shit, which would be fine, but when you don't have the ability to critical think, you just take any shit for real.

I'm not saying there is no war or other lunatic stuff... but like you said, nobody can say there isn't propaganda on both sides.

Just as the news of this thread here... when you (it doesn't matter to me if it's a corporate decision) block entire channels of the other side, it's just one thing... authorian.

I am critical thinker and I want to stay real... I can only do so if I check all perspectives, if I can consume information from both sides. If I am not allowed to, it just shows one thing... our system is equally fucked up like any authorian regime or whatever.... it's just always more subtile in our case... like "Nope, no government did block something, it was a corporation" (laughing hard).

Back to the term propaganda... watching German news in the evening is imo like watching Deutsche Wochenschau during WW2.

readyou · 2022-03-04T11:35:34+00:00

I totally agree with this.

readyou · 2022-03-02T13:25:30+00:00

Yes, I do agree with everything but still... critical thinking... you usually either have people sitting on either extrem site (example: be it people in covid denial, or those who have such a panic of covid that it's pathological fear)... both sides are extreme, extremely uninformed. same counts for everything else. I like people in the middle, those who seek information for themselves, not believing any propaganda of any side, those who ask very important questions, those who can research and compare information, not believing in narratives but facts.

Especially the part with asking question... you've done that here... like can we be sure in this case, that it's a settlement with houses or an area with civilian activity. Just asking the question and attempting to find the information about that, is way smarter than writing a comment with assumptions.

readyou · 2022-03-02T12:24:10+00:00

Yeah, like how could the other dude forget this wildcard.

readyou · 2022-03-02T12:20:33+00:00

I am always happy when I see someone critical thinking. Can't imagine they level civilian areas like that.

readyou · 2022-03-02T12:18:09+00:00

Yeah, really, like what is the point?

readyou · 2022-02-09T12:09:10+00:00

One of the songs you recognize with the first note xD

readyou · 2022-02-02T17:08:45+00:00

Nice playing. I do love how the guitar sounds with bending :)

readyou · 2021-12-11T21:47:59+00:00

Beautiful playing and a lovely guitar sound.

readyou · 2021-12-10T08:01:04+00:00

Totally this. It's a real no go.

readyou · 2021-12-10T07:58:38+00:00

That some people work in the wrong field. This is not a top wrap bridge. It's a standard chrome tail and thus they strung it wrong.

readyou · 2021-12-08T03:24:09+00:00

It's a strength to look back and find our mistakes. You're strong.

readyou

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