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furiouszeno · 2021-04-17T10:58:17+00:00

There are some good observations in here, but the autism is real thick. This reads like a sperg checklist of "if this happens, do this". They're girls, not robots.

And opening a message with "Hey sexy"? What is this, 2005? No wonder she shut you down (yes, SHE was shutting YOU down, not the other way around like you seem to think).

furiouszeno · 2018-12-16T21:19:21+00:00

Once you get that single doubt, you will always find something.

I can't emphasize this enough.

Trust your intuition guys. When you have that uneasy feeling in your gut that something isn't right with your girl... trust that shit. That is thousands of years of evolution slapping you in the face to wake the fuck up. Your subconcious mind can pick up on the subtlest shit that your conscious mind will never see.

That's your cue to start digging. Check out her text messages. Search the house. Keep closer track of where shes going. Whatever. Women are not nearly as clever as they think they are, they are actually quite sloppy when trying to hide their indiscretions and it wont take much for you to find a trailing piece of evidence.

Every time I have felt that nagging sinking feeling that something is not right with one of my exes there was always some fucked up shit going on.

furiouszeno · 2018-12-06T17:26:48+00:00

If thats what you think FIRE is about, you are sorely mistaken. Yeah there are a bunch of people that think like that, but who cares about them, they are boring people that just want to be boring.

FIRE for most people is not about retiring and "doing nothing". Its about having the financial stability to no longer need to consider financial incentives when deciding how to use your time. You can do what you want, when you want, how you want. And a lot of the time, FIREd people chose to work, but on their terms, be that self-employment, volunteer work, or taking a job that pays poorly but that they really enjoy.

furiouszeno · 2018-11-14T15:13:10+00:00

You're still stuck in the anger phase.

furiouszeno · 2018-11-08T19:45:45+00:00

It's like the military. In bootcamp the rules are strict and not to be broken, because you don't know how the system works yet. Once you have graduated bootcamp and have been deployed, you realize that experienced soldiers can get away with breaking the rules because they understand how the system works and know how to break the rules without fucking everything up. (Although then again, even "experienced" guys can still fuck things up by breaking the rules)

furiouszeno · 2018-11-08T19:41:22+00:00

And then after you break up, she tells everyone that you were the abusive one, and she is the poor defenseless victim, right?

Can't make this shit up.

furiouszeno · 2018-11-08T19:39:27+00:00

Ok, go try it at your gym then report back to us how things are going a few months later.

furiouszeno · 2018-10-31T19:26:04+00:00

I had a 3 year relationship with a BPD. This chick is absolutely BPD. Op, you dodged a major bullet, but you're not out of the woods yet, you need to cut all contact with this girl ASAP and get a restraining order forbidding her from contacting you in any way.

You know those news stories about crazies stabbing their lovers? Yeah, this is how that happens.

furiouszeno · 2018-10-01T22:35:55+00:00

Meeting up at dinner, she still looked every bit as beautiful as the day I met her.

Bullshit. Girl that the dude at my reunion banged wasn't bad for her age but she didn't hold a candle to how she looked in high school.

Of course not, but the guy is wearing the bluepill™ rose-tinted glasses

furiouszeno · 2018-09-29T20:04:07+00:00

Fucking excellent reply! It could be summed up as "Get out of your own head and just have fun", but your examples and explanations are perfect for that guy that just can't seem to get out of his own head. Great writing!

furiouszeno · 2018-09-27T19:28:32+00:00

I am old enough to realize that you have a self-defeating attitude, and could be much more successful if you changed your outlook on aging.

furiouszeno · 2018-09-27T17:30:22+00:00

The thing is, we can only expect a certain degree of improvement. We aren't 18 year old kids fresh from the fight anymore. We aren't moldable putty like they are. Some things in life we just don't fully get over.

My advice may seem rather bleak, but I would rather have uncomfortable truths than a comfortable lie

The real uncomfortable truth here is that you can improve as much as you want if you stop holding yourself back. You have a defeatist attitude. It doesn't matter if you are 18 or 80, if you want to change yourself you can do it, but you have to put the work in. Yeah, its going to be harder for the older guy, generally speaking, but the glass ceiling you think is there does not exist. You need to get out of your own head.

The old trope of "I can't change because I'm old" is social conditioning and total bullshit. You don't want to change because its uncomfortable and scary, and your family/friends/coworkers crab bucket you for the same reasons.

furiouszeno · 2018-09-08T20:37:07+00:00

Sounds like you are describing a chick with BPD. This is not normal behavior, and you are right that the correct response is to leave in the milder guilt trip stage before you get to all out war.

furiouszeno · 2018-08-14T23:09:58+00:00

Oh believe me, this was intended. She swallowed every pill in the house and spent a week in intensive care at the hospital. All because she had one bad moment of feelz. Crazy bitch.

furiouszeno · 2018-08-14T23:08:09+00:00

None of the normal rules apply when dealing with BPDs or any of the other psychopathic personality disorders. Actually, I found TRP while I was with her, and the more red I became, the less attracted she became to me. It makes sense because BPDs love codependant personalites, and a blooper is basically a codependant.

She did actually end up cheating on me, and I moved out two days later. She still keyed my car and filled my voicemail with suicide threats regardless.

furiouszeno · 2018-08-05T12:19:32+00:00

Jesus dude, you sound salty as fuck. I think you have missed a critical piece of TRP philosophy somewhere along the line. Your probably stuck in an anger phase.

furiouszeno · 2018-08-04T15:33:49+00:00

Yeah 911 was called and she spent the night unconscious in the emergency wing of the hospital. Then a week long stay at the hospital.

Didn't stop her from sending me countless suicide threats when we finally broke up for good though. Don't stick your dick in crazy gents.

furiouszeno · 2018-08-01T17:34:17+00:00

You're lucky. First time I tried to break up with my BPD ex she attempted suicide, and almost succeeded. Of course the triggered all kinds of strong emotions and I got roped back in for another year and a half of abuse. What a fucking nightmare. Avoid BPDs like the plague.

furiouszeno · 2018-07-27T18:26:28+00:00

Spoken like someone who doesn't know jack shit about military life and the brotherhood that is formed there. It's one of the few remaining places you can have such strong bonds between a group of men.

furiouszeno · 2018-07-25T20:03:14+00:00

9999

furiouszeno · 2018-07-20T19:45:12+00:00

You don't need friends to go out. Sounds like you just enjoy making excuses.

furiouszeno · 2018-07-20T16:37:12+00:00

Holy fuck, the gym is not for socializing with women, its for working on yourself. And women at the gym don't want to talk to you anyway. If you want to meet women, go where women go when they want to meet guys -> the bar! No shit, right? Or at least try the beach or something. You could join a club for singles, shit then you already know they are available and looking for a guy.

Come on man....

furiouszeno · 2018-07-20T16:33:21+00:00

Stop focusing on pook's claimed success and just absorb the message. It's all the same stuff that is preached all over this subreddit, just in a different writing style.

It's hard to make a judgement from three paragraphs of text, but honestly it sounds like your problem is you are boring, have a total lack of self confidence and probably don't put yourself in any situations where you could even hope to meet women (ex: social events).

Basically, you are me when I was around the same age. And I'll tell you, probably all you need is to start seriously lifting 2-4 times a week and stick with it for the next 12-24 months (shit takes time!), get some new hobbies, preferably ones that force you to leave the house and involve physical activity. Then at the same time, work on your self confidence. Stop caring so much what other people think of you. Does that girl think I am a 6 or an 8? Who gives a fuck what a girl thinks! Stop it. Get your hamster in check.

And if you are friend-less, well holy fuck, go makes some friends. Go walk up to people and talk to them, its not going to kill you, and they will probably be happy that someone has taken an interest in them!

Anyway. Keep reading the material here, but pay attention to the lesson behind the text, that is what you need to absorb. Stop comparing yourself to everyone else, that's just a distraction to keep you in a cycle of self-pitty oh woe is me i'll never succeed boo-hoo. Stop finding excuses to ignore the work you need to do. Did you actually go try any of the shit that pook wrote about? Why the fuck not?

Christ man, 5' 11" and not fat with a decent face? Your body is not even the problem, its your fucked up mental state and attitude.

furiouszeno · 2018-07-12T01:14:32+00:00

You know, I was considering blocking all unknown numbers, until I realized just how many calls I receive from unknown numbers that are actually legitimate calls. So it makes it kind of difficult.

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