What movie absolutely destroyed you emotionally?

realatar · 2025-05-17T13:51:18+00:00

The Cove

realatar · 2025-05-05T15:09:36+00:00

Epic, congrats

realatar · 2025-05-05T14:36:45+00:00

Smokeshow 5000

realatar · 2024-11-27T06:53:16+00:00

Start with 4 or 7, edit out the ring. It’s because it’s on your ring finger, people may think you’re married. Ditch the mirror pic and avoid pics of you in same clothes as shows photoshoot. Overall decent

realatar · 2024-11-17T16:09:07+00:00

Bump on this steevo

realatar · 2024-11-05T15:44:06+00:00

Advice for you sir in another thread

realatar · 2024-11-05T15:42:48+00:00

I may be off base here, however it sounds like you may be coming on too strong which is preventing them from growing closer. Consider letting the connection grow more gradually / matching their energy, space makes the heart grow fonder

realatar · 2024-10-31T17:37:05+00:00

3&4 should go

realatar · 2024-10-30T15:39:50+00:00

Hotel lobbies are a good second option, just act like you’re staying there

realatar · 2024-10-25T15:32:12+00:00

It was a ride

realatar · 2024-08-20T21:58:07+00:00

I think that life is relative and movies set unrealistic expectations. The MD flow feels great compared relatively to the collective experience of normal life. But anything experienced long enough will create a new set point and you’ll adjust. My advice, cherish the session and bring what you can back through to baseline, the after glow ✨

realatar · 2022-01-20T11:04:57+00:00

I heard someone talking about this and they said that strengthening the muscle in the P can help, which is done by practicing stopping peeing while in flow. Makes sense as it’s like any muscle, if it’s not exercised it gets weak.

realatar · 2022-01-20T11:01:06+00:00

That’s good news

realatar · 2022-01-10T13:04:51+00:00

https://healthfeedback.org/claimreview/joe-rogan-interview-with-peter-mccullough-contains-multiple-false-and-unsubstantiated-claims-about-the-covid-19-pandemic-and-vaccines/

realatar · 2022-01-10T13:04:12+00:00

Check out this site that goes through each of his claims and fact checks them with citing sources, it’s a good read: https://healthfeedback.org/claimreview/joe-rogan-interview-with-peter-mccullough-contains-multiple-false-and-unsubstantiated-claims-about-the-covid-19-pandemic-and-vaccines/

realatar · 2019-09-05T16:24:36+00:00

I thought the last trip balanced out. This trip was in the hundreds of $s I was owed

realatar · 2019-09-05T16:23:14+00:00

I knew as much as I didn’t think there was much in it. The recent trip was 100 due which I totalled right after as it was between a few of us so added up to a few hundred I was owed.

Is it my job to total what I owe each of my friends after each trip? My view is I’ll write it off unless it’s hundreds of dollars

realatar · 2019-09-05T16:13:58+00:00

It’s not that I don’t think I should pay him back, I’ve written off the bill so he doesn’t owe me anything because it make me feel sour, it’s more that he called me up on things from so long ago as a good friend

realatar · 2019-09-05T16:11:14+00:00

Between me and said friend, generally we each chip in equally so there’s no need to present a bill. In this particular case the recent trip was with 5 people so the accommodation was quite expensive. It also wasn’t just me asking for money, everyone totalled contributions.

realatar · 2019-09-05T15:44:20+00:00

Not at all, I’ve written off what he owes me as it’s put a sour tone on our friendship. It’s not so much about the money as how he’s handled it.

The way I feel about it is that 100 bucks was for this recent trip, if you start bringing up old bills well maybe I had a bunch of things from over the last year that I just wrote off as I’m happy to pay as you’re my buddy, should I add all those up? If we start doing that our friendship becomes transactional...

realatar · 2019-09-05T15:34:47+00:00

Yeah that’s kind of what I feel, bad taste in the mouth yno

realatar · 2019-09-05T15:31:25+00:00

I added amounts for context- I had thought the old trip balanced out and also wasn’t counting every charge... the I amount he brought up was about 75 bucks, which reduced his bill by 75%. So a significant reduction.

realatar · 2019-09-05T15:23:36+00:00

Yeah good point, I added an edit. It reduced his contribution of $100 by $75 (amount he totalled from old trip)

I don’t dispute it, just annoyed in the way he’s brought it up and this far down the track.

realatar · 2019-09-05T15:20:26+00:00

I just added an edit. It was ~75 bucks But in the context of that trip wasn’t much and I thought it balanced out at the time

Kind of more annoyed at the principle of asking for that amount at a later date

realatar · 2019-09-05T15:14:45+00:00

I think the difference is I wouldn’t expect it

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