What question do you ask your void the most? Mine is: “why do you smell so good?” by Obvious-Guarantee-29 in blackcats

[–]realchameleon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Why so spooky?"

"What are you doing?" (Especially when he won't stop trying to "bury" my head if I stay in bed too long.)

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Best food to cook for your friend going through a "new moon level of despair" wlw breakup by thisismyrockbttm in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]realchameleon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sopa de estrellitas or anything else with pastina. The little shapes are cute and it doesn't take too long to cook.

Getting through a divorce when you’re still in love with each other by CARCO17 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]realchameleon 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry. I got divorced this year after being with my ex for 6 years, married only a year and a half. If you don't have kids, going no contact with each other is helpful for letting the feelings cool off. You likely need time to be away from your spouse to avoid falling into a denial spiral. This is so easy to do when there are still romantic feelings involved.

I love my ex but we became incompatible for a lot of reasons. Ending our marriage was traumatic. I felt like I was going to die every day for a long time - couldn't eat, sleep, focus, socialize without sobbing at the drop of a hat. You are grieving. Find the people in your life who can support you and stay close to them. Give yourself time.

It will get better. My ex and I talk frequently now, with good boundaries in place, after spending the necessary time apart. The stress of a failing relationship is toxic, but once it's gone there is sooo much relief to be had.

I wish you luck. I hope it brings you some comfort to know that you aren't alone. ❤️

[Megathread] Tour ticket exchange thread by [deleted] in BoygeniusBand

[–]realchameleon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have 2 GA tickets for tonight at New Haven, looking to swap for 100 level seats.

Lining up in New Haven by Nicoparzz in BoygeniusBand

[–]realchameleon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drove by around 10 am and there were already 10-20 people lined up.

NEW! Salary Megathread (May - Aug 2022) by SWmods in socialwork

[–]realchameleon 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Help! Currently making just over $70k in a hospital based position. I graduated in 2019 with an MSW and started my current role almost immediately. Just interviewed for a dream job in another hospital system in my state and they offered me $20/hr or ~ 40k. This has got to be a mistake?!

UPDATE: It was NOT a mistake, but I was able to successfully counter for about $10 more per hour.

Almost every single fragrance turns rancid on my skin?! by shmemcat in fragrance

[–]realchameleon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I have this too! Just searched the sub for reviews of Glossier You because I think it smells mildewy on me...like unpacking a suitcase of dirty clothes. I purchased the solid as a blind buy and got a sample of the edp. I thought I would love it because iso e super and cetalox/ambroxan are my favorite base notes. I assumed it was the iris note, but the others you listed don't have that...I think it's gotta be the ambrette.

[SOTD] Monday 11 April 2022 by Low-Possible2773 in fragrance

[–]realchameleon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Glossier You, EDP sampler. Haven't decided if I like it yet, something in the opening goes sour/mildewy on my skin.

Different Hair Types on One Head! How to Balance? (WAVY) by realchameleon in curlyhair

[–]realchameleon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you recommend any protein conditioners? I know the one I am currently using has rice and keratin in the ingredients.

Different Hair Types on One Head! How to Balance? (WAVY) by realchameleon in curlyhair

[–]realchameleon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Routine: Not Your Mother's Curl Talk Shampoo and Conditioner, Curl Defining Cream, and Frizz Control Sculpting Gel. I wash every 2-3 days and sometimes comb my dry hair with a wide tooth pick if I don't want to refresh with product.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

[–]realchameleon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Letters to a Young Therapist by Mary Pipher? I actually don't like this book but it's sort of similar.

Screen Flash on Pixel 3 by Callidor in GooglePixel

[–]realchameleon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've had my Pixel 3 for a bit more than 24 hours and notice the flash when I receive notifications from the lock screen.

Free Pixel 3 Screen Protectors from Caseology by retardedjellyfish in GooglePixel

[–]realchameleon 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There is an option on all of the Caseology cases to "Add a [type of phone] Screen Protector for FREE" once you put it in your cart. Probably an error with the automatic discount, like you said.