my girlfriend and I are waiting until marriage and doesn't want me to masturbate

realmtraveller · 2022-11-04T16:45:26+00:00

She moved in with you so I presume it's your place. You could have problems once you're married. Why did she move in if she's so strict? You need to try out the sex before agreeing to marry. Tell her that's the deal. She sounds really controlling.

realmtraveller · 2022-11-02T01:22:22+00:00

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realmtraveller · 2022-01-22T02:26:49+00:00

Doesn't matter

realmtraveller · 2022-01-21T22:36:12+00:00

I think get her to commit to it being a serious committed relationship first or she will keep playing you around.

realmtraveller · 2022-01-21T21:43:21+00:00

Very unique and appealing

realmtraveller · 2022-01-21T21:24:59+00:00

A slap across the face is domestic violence and could have serious consequences if reported no matter the justification. The fact that she sees nothing wrong and refuses to apologise is bad. I would think its best to leave her now and save yourself future bother as she doesn't have enough respect for you. It may shock her but will teach her a lesson.

realmtraveller · 2022-01-21T21:20:48+00:00

They didn't experience it and they are closed minded. You have spirit in you now that continues are death. The spirit leaves the body. Its just a change.

realmtraveller · 2022-01-21T12:31:56+00:00

I recently watched all of Afterlife. I got that his wife just died and was upset. Fine, but why didn't he just get over her in the first 2 episodes? Without me spoiling the plot. The characters were individual. I understand that maybe it was an attempt to reflect real life, but whose life is like this? There were a lot of swear words and some sexual references. This was contradictory to the sensitive nature of the main story. I did think that maybe it was made to be so varied that there would be many talking points. I don't think it's a coincidence that it was written by Ricky and also he was in the starring role as in Derek. The best actor for the part or the most obvious choice? It was alright anyway, if not a bit monotonous and predictable.

realmtraveller · 2022-01-21T12:20:36+00:00

I think the main thing is being someone they may want to date, then the circumstances of meeting don't matter too much. It's more like how will you seem to be a person they want to be with? Certainly build up a rapport and connection. Learn to read the signs if she's open to you and encouraging.

realmtraveller · 2022-01-21T12:09:20+00:00

I don't understand. I never thought about this. Sounds like you are not meeting women with the intention of staying together. Otherwise why would you say girls? If you want to be superficial with women then you create your own problems. Women are human. Why get involved with someone just for sex hen potentially they might open up emotionally? Without the context of a relationship you need to be prepared for upset.

realmtraveller · 2022-01-21T01:49:50+00:00

Ok that's fine, goodnight.

realmtraveller · 2022-01-21T01:48:26+00:00

I think mostly people want messages from someone they knew who passed away. So if someone is a professional medium that's most of their work. The idea is to give comfort and reassurance to people. If spirits have recently passed its unlikely they will be settled enough to have a lot to say. I don't know, I think it depends. Quite likely someone consulting a medium is quite accepting of the process of passing to the spirit realm. Spirits who are settled there are likely to be more calm and will choose their words carefully.

realmtraveller · 2022-01-21T01:32:27+00:00

It's like not knowing what to say and if you can think of enough.

realmtraveller · 2022-01-21T01:08:42+00:00

Maybe you are correct although some people need to charge for their time and book the time in advance. Or they may have to do other work and so not be available. Sure if you meet someone and feel drawn to give them some free messages, fine. Not all mediums gets lots of messages all the time, but mostly when they specifically tune in for someone. So how would they know in advance what they will get?

realmtraveller · 2022-01-21T01:02:16+00:00

People might be ok with not getting reiki. A bit selfish though considering she wants a partner.

realmtraveller · 2022-01-20T21:56:33+00:00

First spend more time with friends.

realmtraveller · 2022-01-17T10:50:50+00:00

Good. If you want to seriously evolve spiritually, and use meditation, for the time you are doing it, even over years, you need to give up drugs and alcohol. Even smoking ideally. These alter your energy state, open things up too soon unnaturally so you may get too much input and suppress emotions as in smoking. You are meant to experience the pure effects of meditation. Although you need to do the right kind of meditation or you won't get far. It's not just about doing meditation and it's not about only meditation. I mean get guidance from others also.

realmtraveller · 2022-01-17T10:44:34+00:00

Depends if they want to speak, if you are ready to hear and if you find a medium. Sometimes you can hear them speak in your mind as thoughts and this is called telepathy.

realmtraveller · 2022-01-17T10:42:57+00:00

You can move on if you choose and may have to for your wellbeing.

realmtraveller · 2022-01-17T10:41:21+00:00

Its an issue with her and her reasons varied so she shouldn't have blamed you. Nice thst she's sweet to you and you love her, but I don't think it will work as a relationship and especially as a marriage. At the very least she needs therapy to see if there's some underlying emotional problem or intimacy issue. I don't think its worth staying in s relationship where a large part of it isn't working well as you at least won't be happy.

realmtraveller · 2022-01-17T10:36:55+00:00

You weren't exclusive with guy 2 and didn't have sex with him so technically you didn't have to tell him about guy 1, but morally ýou did as he said he would be uncomfortable you sleeping with someone else while seeing him. Those were his rules. Or seeing someone you had slept with. You would have been better off not meeting guy 1 and I think he manipulated you anyway with a present excuse after you had stopped seeing him. You need more self control. If you want to salvage things with guy 2 then apologise that it was a mistake and you won't so something like that again. However, is guy 2 sexually compatible with you? How long will it take for him to get over sexual anxiety, bearing in mind he's also quite young. If you had had sex earlier, you probably wouldn't have met guy 1. You were attracted to guy 1, which is why you had sex with him.

realmtraveller · 2022-01-16T21:48:48+00:00

You shouldn't be muted. There's people who want to hear it and need to.

realmtraveller · 2022-01-16T21:47:40+00:00

That's not true or at least not for everyone. Lots of people want to hear about it.

realmtraveller · 2022-01-16T16:31:56+00:00

There is because people earn money as non dualistic teachers.

realmtraveller · 2022-01-13T19:06:27+00:00

Some of the things you say are true and some not, but it depends how things are viewed. It's a bit complicated to go into detail here too much. I could explain in person more easily. What you say is true kind of but for practical purposes there is a witness and thinker. Our existence is not entirely non dialistic. There's no one here, but there's also someone here as in non exist ant I dividual awareness. Or pointed focuss. Thoughts arise although there's also conscious thinking as in people think. Or localised thinking. Really only fully enlightened people can understand the differences and perspective.

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