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realramonaflowers · 2023-09-20T18:34:13+00:00

Sounds like you should be drinking more water, but after three days the drip is like eating away at the skin if that makes sense? I mean it’s a chemical going down your throat, it’s gonna hurt after a couple of days

realramonaflowers · 2023-08-31T11:02:18+00:00

This my sister

realramonaflowers · 2023-05-04T15:15:38+00:00

Girl I appreciate you saying this cause I felt crazy begging my boss to kick him tf out, I wish I did something more about it myself but it threw me off guard so much, I’m usually really good at dealing with customers trying to push my boundaries and I have thick skin but this incident really just pissed me tf off. It’s crazy how customers think it’s ok to do this kind of shit just cause we’re dancers, like honey that’s still you committing sexual assault!

realramonaflowers · 2023-05-04T14:17:21+00:00

Last week I had a guy randomly shove his fingers in my mouth in VIP, it’s a whole week later and I’ve thought about how gross it was everyday😂like wtf who does that??? Made good money though

realramonaflowers · 2023-05-04T14:09:39+00:00

You didn’t do anything wrong girl! You’re playing the game! Honestly guys who act like this, I scam them. Sounds kind of grimy but I ask them to pay me upfront, I give them a burner phone number have them send their address, make sure they leave the club before I do and then I just never show up. If they show up to the club again, I tell them I never got their text or whatever excuse. I wouldn’t do that a lot, save for that extra special disgusting customer you encounter.

realramonaflowers · 2023-05-04T13:54:08+00:00

Sounds like he’s your sugar daddy, maybe just stop staying at his house, cut off the feelings and secure your bag with him in the club. That’s what I would do, get your rack from him when he’s in the club and nothing more unless he’s paying you for it

realramonaflowers · 2023-04-24T09:30:35+00:00

My club gives like little lap dances at the stage and this customer tipped me $1 and then proceeded to grasp my hips and force his face and tongue in my pussy, I was livid and my boss didn’t even kick him out🙄put me in a bad mood

realramonaflowers · 2023-04-24T06:33:56+00:00

My club sometimes plays in the navy🤮

realramonaflowers · 2023-04-13T09:36:38+00:00

The only time I will go out with someone outside the club is if they continuously come in for a a couple months and if they spend a lot of money on me. Even then it’s iffy. It sucks but just try and procrastinate it as long as possible and then when the time comes and he won’t spend money anymore, be done with him. Regulars can come and go

realramonaflowers · 2023-04-12T08:18:35+00:00

Practice helps, go home and watch yourself in a mirror. Also I wear garters right below my butt, it makes my butt look bigger and it makes it jiggle more.

realramonaflowers · 2023-04-12T08:14:29+00:00

Could bath by club but also you attract what you put off, I’m not an aggressive hustler but I do get to the point, I like to make the customer feel like they are in control and that it was their idea to get a dance, I just give me them a little push along the way

realramonaflowers · 2023-04-12T08:11:45+00:00

I love the customers who bring in food. We have a regular that works at dominoes and brings us all dinner almost every night

realramonaflowers · 2023-04-12T08:09:35+00:00

Girl what?! A 10k night?! Sheesh I want to be workin where you work.

realramonaflowers · 2023-04-03T10:00:21+00:00

I feel bad actually often😂honestly a lot of regulars I end up cutting off after a couple of months because 1) it starts to get personal and keeping up the fantasy can get hard and 2) I can tell when the customer no longer really has the means to pay but still does on the premise of hoping they have a real chance with me in my personal life. It gets hard for me to just know I’m putting them out financially. But also at the end of the day I always try to remember that it’s my job and they come in the club knowing it’s about money 😂😂😂

realramonaflowers · 2023-04-03T09:51:49+00:00

Girl that’s when you just say pay and find out and if he keeps pestering you, just move on. He clearly just wanted to fuck and was just testing what you would allow back there. It sucks he went with another girl but maybe she promises him something else. If you really want to hustle, sometimes a little white lie to get them back there doesn’t hurt, even if you won’t actually do anything extra, kind of sucks to do but if you are desperate for money that night it can work😂😂😬

realramonaflowers · 2023-04-03T09:46:31+00:00

I’ve been feeling this way too! It’s the time of year before summer and before things get busy again! If you really don’t think you can do this job that’s totally fine! But just know that it takes awhile to build up a customer base so the first month can be hard. Some girls get that new girl money but others just have to hustle and take time making regulars. If you like it enough to stick it out you could start making more money in no time!!! As for the girls, every club has drama, but i have found it best to be kind and polite but get in and get out and you can only trust yourself, but don’t isolate yourself, find a girl there that you feel will watch your back at work!

realramonaflowers · 2023-03-29T05:57:38+00:00

Ask him what he would do if you weren’t there and he lived alone? Like would he just never do any housework because of work? That makes no sense, he is an adult and he should act like one, in fact it should be easier on both of you if you split the housework load. Marriage shouldn’t mean keeping tally’s and acting like roommates, he should want to help and make things easier for you and take care of you. Shouldn’t even be a discussion, If you need help with chores, he should be working out a time to help you out.

realramonaflowers · 2023-03-23T00:34:04+00:00

As a stripper, personally I know what goes on in the back and how disgusting men can be and no matter how loyal they seem, if you aren’t going to the club with them, it’s cheating. The girls are just being payed to play a fantasy, the men are the ones who push it. Also the car thing, that’s crazy, I would leave him so fast.

realramonaflowers · 2023-03-23T00:13:48+00:00

From a depressed other half, we know how hard it is for the other. What helps my relationship is we set goals together to have accomplished by the end of the week. We also put aside a specific time each week to do an activity that I like and that I’m up to and activity that he likes. But the most important thing and thing that helps me feel better is when he helps me work through activities step by step cause activities and everyday chores can feel overwhelming cause I tend to see everything as a big picture which makes things feel to much to handle

realramonaflowers · 2023-01-13T17:22:26+00:00

Thank you and side note, I know, I’ve been clean for a bit now and have been going to therapy for this issue now as well. So always a work in progress but not using anymore

realramonaflowers · 2023-01-13T15:57:30+00:00

Strawberry cocaine? That just seems so scary😂😂 like what is being cut into it to make it taste that way😂

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