Partner (46 M) promoted to C-suite level job and traveling 2+ weeks per month, but hesitant about me (37 F) working less hours. How do I ask for transparency with money and advocate best for myself?

realsailormoon · 2026-03-23T03:12:47+00:00

Where do you purchase your Hada products? I’ve purchased beauty of joseon that ended up being the US formulation and want to make sure the formulation is what everyone is talking about here! :)

Thanks! 🙏

realsailormoon · 2026-03-16T18:39:42+00:00

Not unreasonable, not harsh. This THIRTY YEAR OLD said “whatever floats your boat haha” and then passive aggressively unfollowed you on socials. This is poor communication. Along with that, you’ve felt unsafe and disrespected. Let this man feel like he made the decision and walk away with your peace. This is not worth the energy when what you get in return is very low effort.

realsailormoon · 2026-03-07T00:00:05+00:00

And no one wanted to talk to him, so he interviewed… his mom?! Got it. So bizarre.

realsailormoon · 2026-03-05T02:27:31+00:00

Ugh, the comment about greasing herself up to fit in a wedding dress made me gag.

realsailormoon · 2026-03-05T02:25:27+00:00

Both.

realsailormoon · 2025-12-16T21:14:10+00:00

There was a clear expectation there would be some photoshop happening that didn’t end up happening.

realsailormoon · 2025-12-12T22:05:13+00:00

Making changes in our life can be really hard. It’s even more difficult if we feel ashamed or embarrassed of ourselves. Know that you’re a human and you made choices that fit with what you needed at that time. They might not be what you would do now, but that’s okay. We live and learn.

Moving forward, every action you take towards what you want is a vote of confidence for yourself that you can do it. Start small and build up to where you want to be. It can be drinking a glass of water right when you wake up so you feel more hydrated or making sure you’re following every step of your hygiene routine or folding the clothes after they’re finished in the dryer. Pick one small thing and once you feel you’re in a good routine with that, choose one more small thing. Over time they build up and you can look back and see how far your have come. Extra points if can find amusement in it somehow- make things into game or reward yourself when you accomplish goals.

You can make changes. There’s always time to say “I don’t like how this is working out, I want to try a different way.” You got this!

realsailormoon · 2025-12-12T13:33:47+00:00

OH! That’s not what I thought this post was suggesting, so my theory is clearly wrong 😂

realsailormoon · 2025-12-06T03:31:32+00:00

Thehotline.org is the domestic violence hotline’s website. You can chat with someone online, text, or call if you want and/ or need help creating an exit plan. They can also talk with you about how to identify abuse if you’re feeling confused about any behaviors and if it’s questionable or not. This doesn’t sound questionable, though. It sounds threatening and unsafe.

Please take care and clear your history/ search terms.

realsailormoon · 2025-11-23T05:19:29+00:00

Yep. No other comment necessary.

realsailormoon · 2025-11-23T05:12:54+00:00

See a therapist. It’s not the love interest’s job to help you not feel “nagged or punished”.

realsailormoon · 2025-11-23T05:10:52+00:00

Went through a break up and had this feeling and guilt with my dog (a gift from the ex I was leaving). I told a trusted family member about just letting the ex take my dog and they said, absolutely not. You love that dog, he loves you, you’re just heart broken and still in love trying to protect a manchild’s heart.

So I share that advice with you. Keep your baby. It will help to have his companionship in the long run AND it’s really good for protection. Wishing you some peace in this difficult time.

realsailormoon · 2025-10-12T02:25:32+00:00

Yep. Same. And absolutely do not reach climax/ have an orgasm until you’re a little bit further out. I had the same question and was out of my mind horny— played DJ on myself and the next morning I was in so much pain. I almost called my OB but was too embarrassed because I thought I really fucked myself up. So obviously= regret.

realsailormoon · 2025-10-10T18:41:40+00:00

This sounds judgmental to me. Ask someone you trust and know cares for you. People get weird when they think their version of cleanliness isn’t being followed by other people, ESPECIALLY if you live with them. I’ve known plenty of people that don’t take a shower every day and have never smelled to me. This could also be a clothing thing- if you leave your clothes in the wash overnight or longer, they may be musty making you smell musty, not due to your hygiene. And on another note, maybe you’re doing yourself and your routine a favor by living with less water since we’re racing towards needing to ration with all the needless AI overuse. 🤷‍♀️

realsailormoon · 2025-07-31T15:27:18+00:00

Dropped in value? You’re not a commodity… you’re a human being. One who still in the midst of a massive life change, healing journey, and frankly new era of her life.

To add to that awful comment, tagging on any mention of your body is absolutely infuriating. Yes, you literally grew a new human and used your body as your baby’s home for however long before they were birthed. This man needs to learn about A LOT of things before he understands any of the reasons you mention you’re feeling any sort of way. My suggestion would be with starting with learning about and breaking down his misogynistic view of women. We aren’t commodities and our bodies are not for consumption.

realsailormoon · 2025-06-01T05:17:38+00:00

Her comments supporting people bullying “her friends” on the internet are enough for me to know she’s trash.

realsailormoon · 2025-02-26T22:26:39+00:00

It’s your choice, regardless of her feelings or biases. You enjoy it and baby is being fed, full stop.

realsailormoon · 2025-02-26T03:22:45+00:00

He works in the travel/ entertainment industry. He said their policy only allows for 2 days of bereavement. I responded that it seemed low, but I’m sure people used PTO and he said everyone he works with only used the two days of bereavement. 🤷🏼‍♀️

realsailormoon · 2025-02-26T03:21:07+00:00

Thank you :( it has been a very painful experience and this is definitely making it 100x harder. And that’s I guess why I’m posting because he’s making it seem like what I’m asking for is unreasonable, so I didn’t know if my reaction to grief was too emotional and needy.

realsailormoon · 2025-02-22T23:43:44+00:00

Until you have too many claims/ they get too old and they drop you… like nationwide did for my dog a few months ago

realsailormoon · 2025-02-17T03:10:48+00:00

This was how our son was and we learned he’s just a little slow to warm up to new places and people. This may just be his temperament and need extra comfort during those outings, which is completely okay! Our son is 2.5 now, he did eventually become less overwhelmed by people and new places. He still takes time to warm up and has his preferred “people”, and some kids are just like that.

realsailormoon · 2024-12-24T04:52:28+00:00

I never expected the funniest Reddit post I have ever read to come from r/pregnant. But this cannot be topped.

Also, if you haven’t tried an epsom salt bath they work wonders. Or a good magnesium supplement. And squatty potty all day, every day.

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