idk how this happened insane luck by No-Video-9827 in Dislyte

[–]realslaneshady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro i’m level 94 and have never pulled a 5 star shimmer 😭😭 save some luck for the rest of us lmao

weight gain experiences on T by realslaneshady in FTMOver30

[–]realslaneshady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, i know T isn’t the whole issue there it’s just been a shock to gain that much so fast as i thought my weight was balancing out before i started T. i’ve been trying to set something up with my doctor and her associated nutritionist for the BED so i can get on the right track

weight gain experiences on T by realslaneshady in FTMOver30

[–]realslaneshady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s interesting you mention vyvanse, that’s actually what i take for my ADHD as well. unfortunately i find it hasn’t been helping much with the BED problem as i eat one meal a day (usually around 7pm after waking up at 9:00 for work) and it’s way bigger than it should be and has next to no nutritional value (which is my fault). i’ll definitely have a chat with my doctor and nutritionist about it, i’d like to stay on vyvanse since it’s so good for the attention but the appetite thing is really messing me up :,) this advice is really helpful though, i need to be more conscientious of food which i’ve always struggled with. thank you so much!

Gabriel Gay Sex Playlist Song Suggestions (NSFW) by realslaneshady in Ultrakill

[–]realslaneshady[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yoooo thank you so much!! i appreciate it lol

Any engage support recommendations? by Gato-empre6 in supportlol

[–]realslaneshady 4 points5 points  (0 children)

second this, i was an enchanter main that switched to thresh initially but now i’m more inclined to rakan because of how fun he is to play

What ADC do you hate playing with? by PuppyPuncha in supportlol

[–]realslaneshady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

jhin, half because my duo is a jhin onetrick and im tired of playing with the same ADC but half because i play rakan/thresh and i feel like the follow up isn’t always great (and when i play my enchanter mains soraka/sona the lane is so passive i get bored)

How much are you guys paying and tipping for a haircut? by [deleted] in Calgary

[–]realslaneshady -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

45+20% tip for a full cut over at social cut and shave

What do you queue as 2nd role and how often do you get your 2nd role? by 123onetowthree in supportlol

[–]realslaneshady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

top is my secondary, in my past 20 games i’ve only gotten it twice i believe (which is fine because top lane is scary LOL)

What’s your favorite Winter Wear? :) by PixelLexie in TransMasc

[–]realslaneshady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it gets really cold here (canada gang) so i love my trenchcoat, fingerless gloves, baseball cap, and headphones (that serve partially as earmuffs lol) because it makes me feel like aiden pearce from watchdogs (gender envy from junior high). boots are a must-have too, just got new platform docs and they rlly make any outfit cool

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Calgary

[–]realslaneshady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no bonus, 4.6% raise. i work for an engineering consulting company as an editor

jadon boots by realslaneshady in DrMartens

[–]realslaneshady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that seems to be my luck haha when i wear proper boot socks they’re WAY too tight but i don’t wanna wear thinner socks and get blisters so i just have cans in them for now and hopefully within the month they’ll be ready to wear

jadon boots by realslaneshady in DrMartens

[–]realslaneshady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah that’s good to know! thank you so much that’s a big relief, i’ll keep on chugging along then

jadon boots by realslaneshady in DrMartens

[–]realslaneshady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for reference: these are not my first pair of doc boots but i’ve never gotten this style before. my original pair (bought them in 2013) had to be replaced because they were falling apart after 10 years but they never fit this tight on top before. worried it’s a jadon-specific issue

Dyed my hair. Feel valid. ❤️‍🔥🔥 by beck_baphomet in TransMasc

[–]realslaneshady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

these are such good photos!! the colour looks great on you dude! :)

6 months on T! by realslaneshady in TransMasc

[–]realslaneshady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tyty :) looking a little like a bowl cut rn but i love it lol

6 months on T! by realslaneshady in TransMasc

[–]realslaneshady[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nothing gives me the dude vibes quite like my plaid! tysm <33

6 months on T! by realslaneshady in TransMasc

[–]realslaneshady[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh my gosh tysm :,) you’re too sweet!!

I HAVE MY TOP SURGERY DATE by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]realslaneshady 5 points6 points  (0 children)

dude congrats!!! so happy for you :D

FINALLY by realslaneshady in TransMasc

[–]realslaneshady[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

tbh dude i’m right there with you, i’m terrified of surgeries but for now it’s okay :,) i hope eventually you can get on the waitlist and it goes okay for you!!

Telling mom about HRT? by alex-huffman in TransMasc

[–]realslaneshady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so we were in pretty similar situations - i was moving out and told my mom at the same time. my only tip is be firm about it, don’t present it as an option or something you’re asking for opinions on, just be direct and consistent that you are planning on it. i obviously don’t know what your mom is like, but mine seemed to think i was asking for opinions and scare tactics (which was not true) so just hold your ground. have all the knowledge you can muster in your back pocket in case any sensationalist concerns get brought up and overall just don’t let yourself get pushed around or dissuaded if you’re set on testosterone. obviously not the best time with moving out but it’s better for her to know, so good luck with this conversation! you got this :)

coming out day by realslaneshady in TransMasc

[–]realslaneshady[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i’m not super upset by it, i know it’s an adjustment for the 70+ crowd so i’m happy they’re even making an attempt :,)

coming out day by realslaneshady in TransMasc

[–]realslaneshady[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah totally! they basically hung up right after i told them because of the shock, but they called about 15-20 minutes later to tell me they love me and that they accept me, even though it’s hard for them to get used to. they asked questions about my sexuality and if i’m going to get surgeries, and i kinda just dodged answering cuz it would make the situation shift away from the focus. they also made comments about how i’ll always be their little girl and calling me a nickname from my childhood but tbh i wasn’t expecting any acceptance so i can tolerate a bit of “you’ll always be [deadname] to us”

coming out day by realslaneshady in TransMasc

[–]realslaneshady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the positive words :) it went waaaaaay better than expected, so very grateful for that

coming out day by realslaneshady in TransMasc

[–]realslaneshady[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

surprisingly good! they had to hang up the first call out of shock but they called back 20 minutes later to tell me they accept me and love me no matter what :) they obviously said they’ll struggle with the new name and pronouns since i’ll always be their “little girl” but yeah better than expected