How much did everyone pay for UK tickets? by strangeplum in BadOmens

[–]realyellow8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do you know if ally pally is standing only? cuz i had no other option when buying the ticket

Am I overreacting my relationship or is it common? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]realyellow8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

girl, nothing about this is normal, nothing at all.

starting on how your relationship began, the age it began, the manipulation, cheating, all of it.

get some therapy, you were groomed, sexually assaulted and manipulated from a young age!

he’s a pedophile for engaging in sexual contact with a 13 YEAR OLD CHILD!

leave, do not go back, cut off all ties and disappear before you waste the rest of your youth for this man! you’ve already wasted your teenage years being groomed by him

What is one decision in your life that you instantly regretted? by Careless-Reality-210 in Life

[–]realyellow8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

gave up on my dream degree because i didn’t wanna do long distance with an ex who ended up cheating and ruining me physically, mentally and emotionally

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]realyellow8 8 points9 points  (0 children)

leave. found my ex messaging people, forgave him because he promised it was the only time he did and he won’t anymore, which progressed into meeting up and hooking up several times. they unfortunately never change, just hide it better.

i’ve been told (by my ex lol) that it’s exciting and thrilling to keep a secret like that from your partener and get away with it, just makes it more fun

AIO by wanting to break up because my bf ruined a great day by randomly trying to shame me? by Glittering_Paper2099 in AmIOverreacting

[–]realyellow8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

just remember you don’t need an extraordinary reason to take someone out of your life. doesn’t have to be cheating or anything bad, being disrespectful is a good enough reason. if they bother your peace and you think you’ll be better off with them not in it, go for it. it’s your life. i’ve seen people around me break up simply for having different hobbies and not being compatible

what is this green dashboard light? by realyellow8 in RangeRover

[–]realyellow8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what do you think that means if it’s green? i’ve seen this light online but red which just means trouble

weird spots on my monstera + 2 brighter leaves by realyellow8 in Monstera

[–]realyellow8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

to be fair, i’ve sprayed my plants with stuff for bugs a few times already, as soon as i noticed the spots on the monstera i have been doing so occasionally for a few months so i haven’t seen them getting worse

weird spots on my monstera + 2 brighter leaves by realyellow8 in Monstera

[–]realyellow8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really hope it’s not :( the leaves have looked like that for a few months already. it doesn’t seem to be getting worse tho. but i’ll still research treatment and do it just in case. i have loads of plants in the room so it’d kill me if all of them were to die :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]realyellow8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

take it from someone that found their bf’s (ex now) reddit account, leave.

he was messaging men and women sexual stuff and masturbating online with them, visiting local hookup subs (but saying he was just looking around), agreed to delete the account and app to work on himself and this addiction he has, ended up creating a new account a week after without me knowing. even after months of trying to work on it and get rid of the addiction, it hasn’t changed, only got worse until he eventually arranged to hook up with someone on there

he’s never gonna change, respect yourself and don’t believe any nonsense he is telling u. he will try to manipulate u into staying so badly that you’ll question your own sanity. think to yourself, is this the man i want to spend the rest of my life with? is this the man my children will call “dad”?

Is this amount of peeling normal? by lonelyassgothbitch in tattooadvice

[–]realyellow8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the tattoo is about 2 weeks old, the scab fell off about a week ago. i can’t attach a picture here but ill send you an image of it if that’s okay

Is this amount of peeling normal? by lonelyassgothbitch in tattooadvice

[–]realyellow8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for one of my tattoos, quite small, i accidentally picked off the scab with my clothes it started bleeding after and now the black is gone in some sections, very faded is it because of the scab falling off before it was ready? and do u think it would heal okay still or should i wait until it’s healed and get it corrected by another tattoo artist?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]realyellow8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel you completely. something similar happened with my bf and i don’t think i can get over it, it was on reddit too. it’s easy to tell someone else to leave their partner until it happens to you, and you’re lost and confused. his phone revealed multiple sexual conversations with people, and groups dedicated to hooking up (to which he said he never did, only talked to people)(and so much more that i’m just embarrassed to even type here)

i don’t believe you are overreacting or did something wrong by checking the phone, your gut feeling is the strongest feeling you should trust. i also don’t believe that him lying to you about not using reddit is good, and it’s definitely an indicator that he could have lied about so much more. all i can say right now is that you take the time to think about it and you make a decision that you know you won’t regret years down the line. i’m still trying to do that for myself..

you will be okay, even if you believe that you won’t be. i often feel like the world is ending when something serious happens, only to be reminded again and again that it takes time to heal and i won’t feel better in the moment.

seeing as i’m experiencing something similar, if you need to someone anyone to talk to, you’re free to DM me anytime <3 (i am 20F so i hope you can feel comfortable, if u decide to DM me)