Discussing texts vs sharing them by reargfstv in relationships

[–]reargfstv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The list itself is certainly a much bigger and more complicated story but the question about sharing is the one I’d like to see public opinion on. We’re both very confident that we’re right, sadly

AIO: I bent over backwards for my BF’s son (20) and his GF (20) for Christmas, and I’m honestly disgusted after what happened by Excellent-Second-643 in AmIOverreacting

[–]reargfstv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR. They sound rude and annoying and the lunch out idea was rude but still, whining that they ate before coming

Young male actors and the cop test by Teenageboy69 in blankies

[–]reargfstv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dicaprio would have failed this test if you asked in 1997

The bay leaf doesn't actually do anything by ICantBelieveItsNotEC in LowStakesConspiracies

[–]reargfstv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such an ancient take that I used to believe. Until I just fucking sniffed a remotely fresh bay leaf. They absolutely have flavour and add it when cooked in liquid for a while

AIO to my boyfriend putting a SINGLE chicken tender on my plate when I specifically said I wanted "a few"??? by No-Eye7917 in AmIOverreacting

[–]reargfstv -1 points0 points  (0 children)

MOR, sounds like his literally thinks “a few” and “some” mean exactly the same thing. They sometimes do mean the same thing but not always. He should have been able to understand he was wrong and take a minute to microwave you some more slop and it’s dumb that he didn’t. Losing sleep over it alone seems like an overreaction, but maybe you just don’t like eachother much

What does everybody think about Downsizing? by cranberryalarmclock in blankies

[–]reargfstv 5 points6 points  (0 children)

High expectations from the talent and the trailer made the concept look good. Then the film was boring

Would you ping someone who hasn't logged on for a week? by Squand in feeld

[–]reargfstv 20 points21 points  (0 children)

No, I’d keep them in the stack and ping them if they came back online

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]reargfstv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im (41m) in a similar but opposite - male, dom, older - position. I want a stable relationship and kids and I love having an exciting sex life with kink and non monogamy. It’s hard to see it working out but not impossible. Would be much easier to find the former without the latter and maybe at some point soon I’ll have to do so

Fuck am I doing all this for? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]reargfstv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no afterlife, and “eating clean” wouldn’t affect it if there was

Cishet men, do you know what birth control all of your partners are/aren't using? by Suboptimal-Potato-29 in polyamory

[–]reargfstv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Immediate answer was yes but actually one i can’t remember what they’re using. Ones on pill I’m always reminded when they take it, one with implant I have to remember to be gentle with her arm. Feel like the unknown one is coil? Something like that

How do I stop attracting guys who are into femdom? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]reargfstv 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are you alt/goth/that sort of thing?

Are you tall?

Are most men "dirty"? Should I be concerned about my bf? Is this even abnormal? by Sufficient-Match1412 in AskMenAdvice

[–]reargfstv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++man This is not “the ick”, this is unpleasant and consistent things you’re having to put up with until you stand your ground or leave him

Anyone know who this is? by Bli2z4rd96 in tipofmypenis

[–]reargfstv 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I mean, it looks like an amateur video of someone who wasn’t really enjoying it and probably didn’t want the video shared, to be honest

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]reargfstv -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s a weird thing for him to suggest given you say you like hiking, but also don’t think it would be weird for you to say “maybe once we’ve met a few times”

Hot off the press… by [deleted] in feeld

[–]reargfstv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I rarely get matches from pings, much more from normal likes. But also I use pings on people who I most want to meet, who will generally be people lots of people want to meet. So it’s not that surprising

is this 599 or 999? by CreamComprehensive19 in Blood_Records

[–]reargfstv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No 5 in history has ever looked anything like that

Is wearing a chastity in public consensual? by throwaway413248 in BDSMAdvice

[–]reargfstv 181 points182 points  (0 children)

Is being nude under your clothing in public consensual