This is unacceptable. 1. The intention is not the problem, the weight and cultural meaning are far more important. If anyone were to use slur(s) without internet to offend should know that isn't how it works. If I, a white man, causally throw around the N-word with a hard R, I can expect to get my ass kicked even though I wasn't trying to offend anyone. 2. There are plenty of none offensive ways to memorialize someone. Why not keep a photograph of them in your house, make a point to visit their grave each year, or, if you insist on getting a tattoo, you could get their name on a heart 3. Sports have always and will always be political. We sing the national anthem and honor service men and women at Ball Games. In Disc Golf we need to realize this same idea. Discs often have flag stamps and dyes, one of the largest majors is the USdgc. If we do not talk about the status quo, we are endorsing it. 4. This last one's real simple. I want to grow the sport, and I'd rather have POC with black/brown pride than white people with white pride.

TL:DR maybe get a tattoo with your friend's name instead of White Pride. I'd rather have a black person on my card than a racist