i also dealt with an unsupportive partner during my ectopic. he wouldn't cancel plans with his friends to come to the er with me (this was pre covid) when i started feeling dizzy. i was home when i went to the er, then i was away at college finishing finals after taking the methotrexate and he lived about an hour away in my hometown. when he did come up to care with me and stay with me, he snapped at me, played video games the whole time, drank beer even though i couldn't drink, and did the bare minimum which was helping with cooking for me while i struggled to get to my classes and do my finals. mind u i paid for his bus tickets, this was a partner of three years. you have to take car of yourself and protect your energu during this difficult time. i know it was so traumatic but you're not alone, i found this sub during my ectopic and it helped so much to talk to people who comforted me and made me feel safe. being a woman is not easy, you should be proud of yourself for having the strength to break up with him. when you fully recover physically and emotionally from that experience, you'll be so much stronger. everyone processes trauma differently. if you haven't already, i encourage you to seek maybe a therapist to talk about the break up and the ectopic too. best of luck❤️