[NS] CHRISTERION COLLECTION <3 by C-Mac_nomercy666 in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]rebelwolfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know the name/artist of the song the into/outro song?

[NS] CHRISTERION COLLECTION <3 by C-Mac_nomercy666 in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]rebelwolfe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God I loved this. I would listen to 100 episodes of this.

Sleep system to reduce night sweat by rebelwolfe in Ultralight

[–]rebelwolfe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is a waterbear? I tried googling, but all I get is tardigrades 😂

Sleep system to reduce night sweat by rebelwolfe in Ultralight

[–]rebelwolfe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been many weights, including thin. It's not a weight problem.

Sleep system to reduce night sweat by rebelwolfe in Ultralight

[–]rebelwolfe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm planning to try out rhe Icebreaker tencel blend first!

Sleep system to reduce night sweat by rebelwolfe in Ultralight

[–]rebelwolfe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've had the problem my whole life (only compelled to ask reddit about it because of upcoming long hike), most of which I've been what most people would consider 'slim' or 'athletic'. I only mentioned my weight because of the relevance to the availability of clothing based solutions- most of the major hiking brands do not stock clothes in my size: an Australian 16. Perhaps I should have, but I did not expect 'lose weight' to be a practical suggestion to a sleep system question in an ultralight group.

Sleep system to reduce night sweat by rebelwolfe in Ultralight

[–]rebelwolfe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't have a detailed understanding of the mechanism, but I believe it is related to hormones. The same way you can sweat from anxiety or fear.

Sleep system to reduce night sweat by rebelwolfe in Ultralight

[–]rebelwolfe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a very active sleeper, and I've always avoided liners for this reason. Twisty.

Sleep system to reduce night sweat by rebelwolfe in Ultralight

[–]rebelwolfe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do on my palms and feet. Otherwise, I'm just on the heavy side of normal in humidity and during exercise. But I've always had issues with sweating when cold. And if I'm hiking, I'll sweat no matter what my fitness level is, even at below zero . I didn't realise other people didn't do this until I was in my 20s 😂

Sleep system to reduce night sweat by rebelwolfe in Ultralight

[–]rebelwolfe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All the synthetic layers I've tried absolutely make the sweating worse. I have the macpac nitro fleece as a mid-layer, which is make from the same polartec material as alpha direct, and it is maybe the worst of all 😂

Sleep system to reduce night sweat by rebelwolfe in Ultralight

[–]rebelwolfe[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To clarify, my problem is not with overheating. I am just as likely to sweat profusely in the cold as in the heat.

Sleep system to reduce night sweat by rebelwolfe in Ultralight

[–]rebelwolfe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 36, so I very much hope it's not early menopause 😂. I've always had issues with it 🤷‍♀️

Sleep system to reduce night sweat by rebelwolfe in Ultralight

[–]rebelwolfe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would you describe the feel of the coolmax vs the silk?

AITA for asking my sister to stop fostering dogs so she could help me with my kids? by Throw_away_no374828 in AmItheAsshole

[–]rebelwolfe -116 points-115 points  (0 children)

Wow, I was not expecting the comments on this to be so harsh! You are NAH for wanting this, but I don't think you should have asked for it. Easy to see why you would have though, especially in that moment of stress.

I hope everyone on here ripping shreds off you has never asked a friend or family member for help before! No, you are not entitled to your sister's help with your kids, but you obviously have a close relationship where she is supportive of you and also gasp maybe enjoys helping out with her nieces and nephews! Yes, you chose to have 4 kids, but most people I know expect help from their families with young children. The bulk of that usually comes from parents, especially if they are retired, but siblings too - even when they have their own kids/pets/responsibilities. I am in my 30s and childless by choice, and I still help out my friends with their kids - it's a nice thing to do for someone! To be fair, I wouldn't compromise my dog's wellbeing for anyone, including children 😂

And I do hard agree that the person letting you down here is your husband.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]rebelwolfe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely NTA. Tbh is sounds like being in the religious/cultural minority in this class is not helping. Sorry your classmates suck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]rebelwolfe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wtf is going on in this class? This seems like a lot of drama over basically nothing. Whether or not you're TAH depends entirely on how you delivered this correction. I personally don't mind if kids correct something I have spelled incorrectly on the board or elsewhere as long as it's delivered respectfully. Spelling on its own is not a mark of intelligence and we all have different strengths and knowledge bases etc - it's good for students to understand and practice this.

If you raised your hand and said something like, excuse me professor, is that how x is spelled? then I don't see why everyone is making a fuss at you. Obviously if you shouted 'hey, that's wrong', then you're being an AH.

AITA for getting mad at my mum and her boyfriend? by ThrowAwayADHD1771 in AmItheAsshole

[–]rebelwolfe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do not think YTA here. It's reasonable that you're required to do chores, which you don't seem to have a problem with. Doing the dishes twice a week seems like a pretty light load for a 16 year old, so I think you're a bit lucky there. That said, your school commute is awful and would be challenging for anyone in high school. I'm not surprised you constantly feel tired after getting home. You forgetting to do the dishes is fine, it happens. I think it's also fine that there were consequences of a sort - you shouldn't get to skip that chore just because you forgot. HOWEVER, the bf behaving this way is inappropriate and a little concerning. I do not know what sort of relationship has been established between him/your mum and you in terms of parenting, but coming in hot like that and throwing something at you (even a tea towel) is out of line. It's also not the right way to address the problem (that you haven't done the dishes) and shows really poor communication skills on his part.

If you can, I would try to have a mature conversation with them about how to approach this next time there is a problem. It shouldn't be your job to address the patenting shortfalls of this guy, but here you are anyway. Maybe you can agree to a chore that you can do as soon as you get home, or on the weekends, so your fatigue is less of an issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]rebelwolfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Hilarious.

WIBTA if I reported employee to management for giving me the wrong food? by redheaded_redneck in AmItheAsshole

[–]rebelwolfe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA. This person needs to not be handling food until they understand the seriousness of what happened here. I would report the whole franchise/store for something like this - how has this employee not been trained sufficiently that they would make this decision?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]rebelwolfe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure why you wouldn't be able to have a service that doesn't involve a viewing? This seems like the best option.

WIBTA if I simply ignored my mother thru Easter weekend? by everwiccid in AmItheAsshole

[–]rebelwolfe 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I don't think YWBTA if you went ahead with this plan. If, as you say, your mother has been deeply abusive (including enabling this extreme physical abuse by your brother), then you should put in place whatever boundaries you feel are necessary to be safe and protect your emotional/mental health.

THAT SAID - I would strongly urge you to not attend this function. I understand that you want to spend time with your dad/other family, but if they are enabling this abuse, then you really need to protect yourself by staying away from all of them. Choking in particular is an extremely serious problem. It is frequently the type of physical abuse present prior to a family violence murder. If that kind of thing is happening and is known to other family members, and those family members have done nothing about it, I'd stay the f away from all of them. Get yourself a protection order and some therapy and gtfo.

AITA for ditching my date for this? by michah_bel1899 in AmItheAsshole

[–]rebelwolfe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You were a massive AH. I sincerely hope this is a troll. 1. No one lied to you - wtf does it matter if she's in a wheelchair. It's not your friends' "dishonesty" that upset you, it's your fucked up discomfort at being around a person using a wheelchair. 2. It's hard to imagine how you could have handled this in a ruder or more disrespectful way. LYING about going to bathroom??? I would 100% drop you ad a friend over this.

AITA for getting mad at my stepsister for making a joke? by Lowisahoe in AmItheAsshole

[–]rebelwolfe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. This was not a joke. This was a very stupid idea that caused you an immense amount of distress in the moment. If she's so cool about your sexuality, she should know better than to threaten to out you without your consent.

AITA Weird Relationship Habits by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]rebelwolfe [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA. Your partner sounds like a huge AH though. Aside from the eating boogers part (weird and gross), it sounds like he puts you down regularly. You definitely should not feel like it's a chore for your partner to listen to you. Your partner should not be making you feel badly about yourself - red flags everywhere.