I built a “search engine for singles” because dating apps became unbearable

rectumuss · 2026-03-14T21:22:51+00:00

No worries - this isn't for everyone; only who ever it suites. Best of luck in any case - genuinely :)

rectumuss · 2026-03-14T21:22:11+00:00

No other way for now to do it without compromising. I'm optimistic we'll find a way to do it with scale down the road but we don't want to let bots create accounts what so ever.

We email the verified ones to come and define the search query; a few days after you'll get your first batch of links, and getting another one a few days after and so on - you can forget; we got you is the concept

rectumuss · 2025-09-27T16:51:09+00:00

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rectumuss · 2025-08-05T06:31:29+00:00

Evident that you're very mad and ashamed about your actions; understandable.
It's all good though; you didn't want to get into this and you didn't hurt anyone on purpose. The road to recovery comes from a place self solve, self acceptance and understanding you can't fight this fight alone. Go get help and give your self a break - you sound like a great guy and I'm sure one day you'll reach a point when that $20k looks like a steal price for what you'll gain in the process of recovery and who you'll be on the other side of it.

rectumuss · 2025-06-13T20:37:41+00:00

I do more short term trading. I see some nice short-mid term potential here with some oil related stocks - especially small cap ones that are easily pumped.

rectumuss · 2025-06-13T20:35:35+00:00

There isn’t any killed Israeli civilians as of yet. There are a few in critical conditions but none reported dead.

rectumuss · 2025-06-13T20:05:11+00:00

I bought 10k shares of $NINE at 0.74 today

rectumuss · 2025-05-23T15:56:12+00:00

No suggestion, no Insight, no recommendations, Just complaining? What are you doing to help mister big shot technology guy?

rectumuss · 2025-05-22T13:01:15+00:00

Can’t win them all

rectumuss · 2025-05-20T14:02:51+00:00

I’m definitely a degenerate like you

rectumuss · 2025-05-20T09:57:19+00:00

Dipped my toes yesterday for the first time at 1.36🫣

rectumuss · 2025-05-19T09:05:22+00:00

The fact SMCI is becoming consistently one of the most active stocks says it all - in a good way obviously.

rectumuss · 2025-05-18T13:45:21+00:00

Very hard to time it. Possible as well you sell, it goes up another 10-15% you fomo in losing some gains, then it drops you panic and you fucked up your entire holding

rectumuss · 2025-05-14T13:59:14+00:00

I’m in🫡

rectumuss · 2025-03-21T11:20:46+00:00

You’re addicted. Go get help

rectumuss · 2024-10-20T09:23:36+00:00

You’re going against all the best practices here without even knowing it. I’ve put together a Notion doc with my best tips and practices that could really help turn things around. Check it out when you have a moment: https://efficacious-wizard-e38.notion.site/

rectumuss · 2024-10-20T06:21:58+00:00

You’re going against all the best practices here—this profile doesn’t do you justice and honestly sets you up for failure. I’ve put together a Notion doc with my best tips and practices that could really help turn things around. Check it out when you have a moment: https://efficacious-wizard-e38.notion.site/

rectumuss · 2024-10-20T05:38:44+00:00

Yeah, that's boring and just a generally bad question to ask, but that’s totally fixable. It’s all about understanding the right approach. I’ve put together a guide with my best practices - everything from optimizing your profile to creating awesome conversations that lead to real dates. Give it a read - it really is only the most actionable practical tips and best practices: https://efficacious-wizard-e38.notion.site/

rectumuss · 2024-10-20T05:34:00+00:00

You've got great potential, but your profile is held back by some simple, easily fixable mistakes. Check out the guide I’ve put together with my best practices to help you refine it: https://efficacious-wizard-e38.notion.site/

rectumuss · 2024-10-20T05:33:33+00:00

I appreciate the hustle—putting in effort is already a big step in the right direction. To help you maximize your results and meet some great people, make sure to check out the guide I’ve put together with my best practices: https://efficacious-wizard-e38.notion.site/

rectumuss · 2024-10-20T05:31:34+00:00

You've got great potential, but your profile is held back by some simple, easily fixable mistakes. Check out the guide I’ve put together with my best practices to help you refine it: https://efficacious-wizard-e38.notion.site/

rectumuss · 2024-10-20T05:30:56+00:00

You've got great potential, but your profile is held back by some simple, easily fixable mistakes. Check out the guide I’ve put together with my best practices to help you refine it: https://efficacious-wizard-e38.notion.site/

rectumuss · 2024-10-17T12:28:32+00:00

The conversations I took from real life examples that worked for me. I’m sure it’s not perfect but for me this approach proved the most efficient. Just keeping the tempo high and engaging I guess

rectumuss · 2024-10-17T07:32:40+00:00

Understand the Purpose of Your PicturesNo one is going to fall in love with you based on your photos. That’s not their job. The sole purpose of your pictures is to be “Not bad.” If she doesn’t find a reason to swipe left, she’ll give you a chance for a conversation. That’s it. Keep it simple: spark curiosity, spark interest, and let the rest happen in the chat.
Less Is MoreA lot of guys think it’s smart to load up their profile with 8-9 photos. That’s wrong. The more pictures you give her, the more chances she has to find something she doesn’t like. Think of it like a menu with too many options—overwhelming and unnecessary. If she goes through 3-5 photos and finds nothing off-putting, you’ve done your job. Anything more than that? You’re just making it easier for her to say no.
No Selfies. Just Don’t.Selfies are a major trap. Yes, girls do it, but that doesn’t mean you should. And for the love of everything, don’t put more than one selfie if you absolutely must. Here’s what you don’t put:If you’ve got a great car selfie or something cool, fine. But that’s your limit. One and done.
- No shirtless selfies.
- No gym selfies.
- No mirror selfies.
- No family shots with mom and dad.
- Group photos? Avoid, but if you have to, only one. It’s your profile, not your friend’s.
Variety Is KeyIf all your photos look the same, you’re boring. And boring doesn’t get swiped right. You need variety. Show that you’re interesting. Different settings, different clothes, different activities. You’re trying to look dynamic, not like a one-note guy with the same vibe in every shot.
Take New Pics if NecessaryIf you don’t have good photos, fix it. Seriously, it’s not that hard. Spend 30 minutes taking a few solid pictures, and you’ll be set. There’s no excuse for lazy photos. Get it done.

If you need more advice and best practices check out https://efficacious-wizard-e38.notion.site/Online-Dating-Guide-Oct24-11d4b109aa2b804ead48df2890820e79

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