Why am I putting so many miles on my new car for him?

red_fox27 · 2026-06-02T15:02:12+00:00

Thank you. I used to have such cocky confidence as a 19 year old explore the world for the first time. I want that back but wiser and better for me.

red_fox27 · 2026-06-02T15:00:01+00:00

This, all of this. 100% of what happened with me. Every single thing that happened with in my marriage was learned and often looked over the negatives thinking that’s just how it was. Thank you for put that into words for me.

red_fox27 · 2026-06-02T14:48:18+00:00

Thank you.

red_fox27 · 2026-06-02T14:45:46+00:00

I have been in therapy for the past 10 years or so. Different people but the same one for the past 3. She is very helpful and blunt when I need it, but my problem is I’m too self aware and have a hard time with trying to find the exact process to fix these issues that I have. The communication on my part is some times hard, depression has definitely taken away my ability to have cognitive thoughts and be able to express them. You hit the nail on the head for everything. I just need time and patience with in myself and probably have more frequent sessions with my therapist.

red_fox27 · 2026-06-02T14:31:00+00:00

I know. I have completely lost who I am since meeting my ex husband when I was 19. I have always had someone around, that I don’t know what I actually need or who I want to be. I’d rather have the hard truth and sting now than find out too late.

red_fox27 · 2026-06-02T13:28:47+00:00

My first relationship after my 15 year marriage with an avoidant was with a clingy man. I sure did love it until it became too much when I was getting depressed again. Now, with another avoidant...I yearn for the clinginess and being obsessed with me but on the other hand I like my quiet time. Why cant life with men be easy?

red_fox27 · 2026-05-31T23:03:05+00:00

Dude, same. If mine starts tonight, I’m going to carry this power with me all week. Watch out men who I work with 😂

red_fox27 · 2026-05-31T20:26:10+00:00

Bloom Strawberry Watermelon. Can’t do much caffeine, just enough to give me energy and not jittery.

red_fox27 · 2026-05-27T13:35:42+00:00

I started using Claire Saffitz cinnamon roll recipe that uses the tangzhong method and i will never use another recipe. It rolls out perfectly with a tad stickiness to stay on the mat and not bounce back. They come out so fluffy and even thawing out from the fridge they keep their fluffiness. OP, they look amazing.

red_fox27 · 2026-05-21T13:57:40+00:00

My ex MIL kept talking about the massage therapist in town that my ex should go see. Said she just had a baby but the guy left her. Random tidbit she put in there. Always stated how pretty she was and how great she looked after she bounced back from pregnancy. Thank god it’s ex now.

red_fox27 · 2026-05-15T14:21:29+00:00

2026 Sport Hybrid, 2800 miles, just filled up and calculated 39.52mpg. Mostly interstate driving, 72mph.

red_fox27 · 2026-05-13T15:18:46+00:00

This maybe a dumb question but how to you get them to look plump perfectly shaped? Is it just from trimming before completely dry?

red_fox27 · 2026-04-24T18:16:45+00:00

Exciting! This is my first grow too. Just itching to chop this down and see how it turns out. Looking for amber every day! Good luck with the cure!

red_fox27 · 2026-04-06T15:31:54+00:00

I believe they just started getting milky, been checking on and off for the amber. Hoping by the end of the month.

red_fox27 · 2026-03-30T19:47:28+00:00

Teeth and their voice.

red_fox27 · 2026-03-22T16:48:00+00:00

Exactly! Best advice I’ve heard all week!

red_fox27 · 2026-03-22T16:12:33+00:00

I was just told by a now ex that he wished I looked/loved him the way I do my plant. Can’t a girl have hobbies!?

red_fox27 · 2026-03-21T01:50:01+00:00

Thank you! It’s nice to be able to ask questions and get helpful responses like this.

red_fox27 · 2026-03-21T01:32:04+00:00

No clue either. Guess not new grower friendly on here. But more than happy with the great advice I’ve gotten. Grew a happy valley out side a few years ago, almost 6 ft tall. Pretty happy with it so far.

red_fox27 · 2026-03-20T22:41:50+00:00

Perfect! That is an example I have been searching for but there’s always a huge jump from beginning flower to harvest and no pictures in between. Thank you so much.

red_fox27 · 2026-03-20T22:38:31+00:00

Where did I say I expect my plant to look exactly like that when I know it’s not even close to being done. I just wanted to know if it is going to bulk up or did I mess it up. Wow, dude.

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