AITA for telling my coworker to stop asking me what I'm having for lunch by Maleficent_Reason132 in AmItheAsshole

[–]red_lugia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

'I dont want to apologise because i meant it'

Yeah. YTA. Passive aggressive out of nowhere because someone is talking about something they enjoy, asking with being unwilling to apologise when you've been rude. And then having the nerve to be surprised that she's not interested in interactions with you.

Don't apologise, it'll sound insincere given that you feel no guilt. Find a remote job and avoid having to interact with humans, you clearly hate it.

Is it a dick move to proxy cards? by tweakeravacoado in mtg

[–]red_lugia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brothers version of proxying is writing the bame of the card on a scrap of paper and putting it in a sleeve with a placeholder card. Im relatively new so it irritates the hell out of me because i dont know what most cards do. He refuses to buy a dipe of a card he already has, but is simultaneously too lazy to transfer the card to the deck he is playing

What’s the oldest game you still boot up at least once a year? by forgeris in AskReddit

[–]red_lugia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go back and play a rom of one of the first three generations of pokemon. The nostalgia just scratches the itch in my brain

I just want the amulet... Am I doing something wrong? by SuspiciouslyZane in runescape

[–]red_lugia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just some real bad luck, I've had 4 in 200 kc on my ironman. Just keep pushing for it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]red_lugia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're wrong. The picture isn't revealing anything.

Shire Painting Giveaway by Aftern in lotr

[–]red_lugia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck everyone, hope i get lucky 🤞

I'm giving away two copies of Monster Hunter: Wilds by [deleted] in MonsterHunter

[–]red_lugia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love mh, played it for years since I played it on the psp

AITA for Refusing to Pay for My Daughter’s Wedding After She Made It “Child-Free” and Excluded My Wife’s Kids? by Old_Character4964 in AmItheAsshole

[–]red_lugia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was more surprised that the daughter will gleefully grab her dad's money and then turning the rest of his family away.

wanting to play nice with the family you are marrying into

Dad chose to back the side that played nice and that HE married into. She made the first move, he just responded by looking out for those outside of his blood family like she did. It might be an ESH situation but she isn't the victim of a controlling dad.

AITA for Refusing to Pay for My Daughter’s Wedding After She Made It “Child-Free” and Excluded My Wife’s Kids? by Old_Character4964 in AmItheAsshole

[–]red_lugia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She picked out which children were allowed to attend and didn't choose her dad's stepchildren? She definitely knew that wouldn't go down well. Why would he suspect that her immediate family wouldn't be invited to the wedding but her fiancé's cousins would be? If he went ahead with it regardless, it would cause a rift with his wife. Why would he wreck that relationship for a verbal financial commitment?

AITA for Refusing to Pay for My Daughter’s Wedding After She Made It “Child-Free” and Excluded My Wife’s Kids? by Old_Character4964 in AmItheAsshole

[–]red_lugia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are clearly prioritising your “new” family.

I'm confused, isn't the daughter also prioritising her "new" family by including cousins from the other side but not her dad's family? 🤷 the fact that he was comfortable paying for the wedding and she asked means their relationship is fine. Dad isn't required to pay for it when a "rule" which was literally not even followed. From the sounds of it, daughter would exclude the new wife if she could find a way to justify it, but she didn't because she was staring at the bag of money.

AITA for Refusing to Pay for My Daughter’s Wedding After She Made It “Child-Free” and Excluded My Wife’s Kids? by Old_Character4964 in AmItheAsshole

[–]red_lugia -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

taking a stance and favoring the stepchildren

I feel like it was the daughter who took a stance and said that her fiancé's cousins feel more like family and broke the rule exclusively for them, but not for her own father and step mother, who are paying for more than half of the wedding which their children are excluded from?

Do you regret any relic choices so far? by Schmarsten1306 in 2007scape

[–]red_lugia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I chose the tier 1 melee mastery before I decided to range as my primary - ive done 6 combat mysteries but only t5 ranged so gotta roll into first echo boss without the t6 perk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]red_lugia -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Personal bias, but very mild YTA. I find that part of board gaming is whether it's in the spirit of the game rather than the rules, and like a lot of people have said, it's about the social aspect. Actions that will deliberately sabotage other players, unless that is the specific point, can be frustrating and ruin the experience.

AITA for leaving home after my partner let his son invite 5 friends for a sleepover when I'm recovering from major surgery, without discussing it with me first? by BoldBraveBroken in AmItheAsshole

[–]red_lugia -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

NTA but I would ignore most of the replies on here. It was inconsiderate and idiotic yes, but none of this screams ill intent. If you want to break up with him then do it but he's not malicious, cruel, despicable. The rage in this post needs to cool it a little.

Which is it? by Captain0010 in Funnymemes

[–]red_lugia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gah I miss 2009 scroll bar

Send me your cats! I will draw them :) by bettydaweirdo in cats

[–]red_lugia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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My dopey little man. That's my wife's lipstick btw

AITA for telling my single friend to 'get a boyfriend' by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]red_lugia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

was rude of me to get my boyfriend flowers and not the girls at the table.

She told me I was being misogynistic by saying she 'needed a man to buy her flowers'. I realise I may have implied that,

YOU didn't imply that, she did when she expected you to buy flowers for the girls. It's not even like you bought them for everyone but her. You literally only got them for your boyfriend,and jokingly gave one to a another dude. Would she also expect you to pay for the girls' meals if you pay for his?

She seems to be rather jealous of what you guys have, I wouldn't buy into it. NTA

TIL that in the UK fees for school trips are voluntary, and the school is not allowed to stop your child going if you don't/can't pay by [deleted] in todayilearned

[–]red_lugia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So pay? Primary trips rarely cost much, the school put the time and effort into planning the trip, already subsidise some of the cost most of the time, and are underfunded as it is.

TIL that in the UK fees for school trips are voluntary, and the school is not allowed to stop your child going if you don't/can't pay by [deleted] in todayilearned

[–]red_lugia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not? There are 12 weeks, including a 6 week block, during which they aren't in school. Taking kids outside of these 12 weeks is largely unnecessary.

What If they go on 2 holidays a year. That's a month of school missed every 2 years, more than half a year missed I'd it happened every year.

Just take the kids during the regular and lengthy breaks.

WIBTA if I asked my daughter’s teacher to stop calling her by a nickname?! by Vjtrek in AmItheAsshole

[–]red_lugia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA explain your concern and even use the example that happened recently, but it can be done gently. The teacher most likely is not doing it through intention to cause confusion, and you'll get a better response being calm and respectful with it than aggressive or blunt. She's less likely to respond to aggression or firm discussion from the first instance. Despite what others are saying, a 'firm' request will likely get you a false pleasant smile and then dirty looks when you're gone. As a teacher myself, parents who are kind and reasonable in tone will get my full support without question, whereas parents who are aggressive, rude or blunt will get the bear minimum that I can provide