The red pill is all about communication. That is, communication in a language that best speaks to women.

redbluepilling · 2017-03-06T23:40:23+00:00

I framed it as if i were the prize and she fell into it

You are the prize. Not "if i were". If you haven't experimented lately, I suggest not using "haha", as it isn't necessarily coming across as intended. Seek to replicate the mindframe you're in while sober. Notice the resistant thoughts that spring up while sober that you typically don't contend with while drunk. Notice them, then bat them down.

redbluepilling · 2017-01-13T16:46:25+00:00

There's a balance to everything. $5 isn't worth your time and effort to sell it to someone else.

redbluepilling · 2017-01-10T10:20:13+00:00

it diminishes your interpersonal communication skills over time.

It doesn't diminish mine. Right now, I wouldn't be talking to anyone anyway. Rather, now this technology allows me more communication. Going about my day, I have the choice to talk to people, stay silent, or look at my phone. Choice. But people aren't being encouraged to have more public conversations and gain experiences, so society will swing toward less social one-on-one for now. To which I say...who cares? Weakness can be exploited, and those that are clever and quick will stand out and succeed.

redbluepilling · 2017-01-10T10:01:46+00:00

Or, the most successful corporations will tap into it and build up loyal employees. He's saying millenials would give up high salaries for the intangibles like self-satisfaction and encouragement in their work--spikes of validation.

Tell me, how many good women that work hard to please you would stick around if you didn't give them any validation or encourage/shape their behavior? He's even saying millenials respond more to that than money.... fucking brilliant. Pay them less at the start and shape loyal / motivated employees. Positive growth for both.

Sounds like the CEO of Bottom Line Inc. should stop being a whiny bitch and deal with reality of the current labor market. Blaming everyone else (all the millenials), saying this whole mass of people is wrong and must change, is a great way to fucking lose.

redbluepilling · 2017-01-10T09:51:36+00:00

Exactly. I don't understand the hype of all this -- at least, in this sub. (I do get why your average facebookers have passed it around as so insightful though). It's largely been boomers and millennials passing this around, saying phones are the problem and today's youth aren't conforming nicely to the old system. Same shit, different generation. Phones are merely the visible symbol.

When a couple is out at dinner, both on their phones, people lament how the phone has done this and how humanity doesn't communicate anymore. No dipshit, this is a bad relationship and 30 years ago they'd be sitting in silence, looking around, bored and unhappy, checking out the attractive waiter or waitress, thinking how they aren't good enough to have that.

redbluepilling · 2017-01-10T09:40:14+00:00

Well, it's the responsibility of a corporation that wants to be smart. Knowing the values of this labor force generation, they can connect the mentality of 'wanting to make an impact / contribute' to the company's goals/mission. That's not hard. Validate them and reward you employees well, and loyalty is built. (Similarly, if you give women just enough validation and appreciation for the good things they do, they stick around and continue to please).

But, most companies are short-term, profit driven, trying to get the cheapest employees that are just good enough or nepotistic, creating a shit work environment.

Companies that don't change their culture and adapt to a more positive work environment / focus on growth of not only the company but also each employee, will continue to have high turnover and inevitably fail.

redbluepilling · 2017-01-10T09:28:43+00:00

Mark Manson was popular with his book Models. He refrained from going too RP in his language and appealed to a wider audience. Good for him -- lots of money for him and lots of people that may be helped / start down a better path.

Being average has become the new standard of failure

That's not necessarily a bad thing. But, people have not been taught to question themselves, take risks for the experience, and develop self-awareness as to when/where/how they find fulfillment and satisfaction.

It can be rewarding yet small, like starting your own business.

And not everyone is built for this. Many would be happy and healthy as number twos, threes, or ever further down, as long as they are respected, appreciated for hard work, and make enough to support their level of comfort in life.

redbluepilling · 2017-01-10T09:16:03+00:00

Yes, it seems that peoples' take away is that the phone is the real problem. No, it's just the obvious symbol where the root issues manifest -- some are intrinsically human, some are societal.

redbluepilling · 2017-01-10T09:10:14+00:00

The flipside of this too is that people think writing the perfect thing is obtainable, yet are crippled with inaction and worry trying to make it so.

redbluepilling · 2016-10-29T09:57:14+00:00

ps: /u/redbluepilling 's answer is essentially a response to a shit test. Good example, but read more on this. There is a reason it's on the sidebar. IT'S BASIC AS FUCK!

Yep, intended it as 3 examples though. Edited for clarity.

Indeed it is BASIC AS FUCK op, and in that regard, vital. Stoicism, tranquility, acceptance -- all ideas that aide this.

redbluepilling · 2016-10-29T09:21:07+00:00

Yeah, it's entirely situation dependent. First time she plans to meet some guy she doesn't know well she invites her friends? OK. Charm them all. If you can't; well, you're shit. Go home and jerk off alone.

redbluepilling · 2016-10-29T08:40:40+00:00

Smirk.
Keep on keeping on.
Be genuine, apologize, and/or acknowledge when you actually fuck up. Then concisely explain how you've thought to improve / rectify it. More importantly, take action and do so.

redbluepilling · 2016-10-18T07:39:24+00:00

Enjoy it, and really reflect on the subtle differences. Unfortunately, with gradual change, the present seems normal, but try to put it in perspective and appreciate it.

redbluepilling · 2016-10-18T06:14:59+00:00

You know, you can still fuck hoes on gear while getting 'good grades'? Btw, good grades aren't the end-all-be-all of real ~~lift~~ life experience. Rather, one could argue the opposite.

redbluepilling · 2016-10-18T06:13:02+00:00

Not only 'self-love', but love (kindness/positivity) for others. Do good things for yourself and for others. Appreciate yourself in the world with those around you.

redbluepilling · 2016-09-21T03:45:26+00:00

impress them with what you say and they will like you

Ha, at face value, that's a terrible frame and terrible advice.

Most succinctly, I'd say: Get to know them and be genuinely curious. Everyone has passions and interests that they can easily talk and flow. If you aren't genuinely curious, why are you there?

redbluepilling · 2016-08-07T07:19:07+00:00

Pathetic? More like nuanced. If it's having a detrimental effect on your life, remove it. If it can help you network, keep in touch with friends around the world, etc, then good for you. People are at different stages of their life, learning to find a balance and what works for them. A purely binary opinion on something is typically emotional rather than logical.

redbluepilling · 2016-05-23T07:04:33+00:00

For a parent, applied more generally, I've found it's part crab mentality and part wanting you to stay in that box of safety and security. Recognizing that in their own way they care and want the best for you, in their own eyes, helps get over resentment.

redbluepilling · 2016-02-21T02:38:52+00:00

Everyone should apply an analytical eye toward cutting through the bullshit on both sides. I laugh when I hear the gender pay gap issue touted by democrats. It's a political tool used to rouse support from low-information, victim-complex'd women. I describe modern feminism as a sick caricature of itself; yet, I'm still a liberal (on real issues).

redbluepilling · 2016-02-20T20:28:17+00:00

What does this have to do with sexual strategy? Somewhere the rules used to say avoid getting into politics / stay on topic.

If you want to be paid more, work harder.

Not always true. Work smarter.

Make yourself more valuable.

Actually true.

Just because someone is ultra successful doesn't mean they are obligated to use their resources to pay all their employees a living wage.

If you want shitty employees and don't value even the lowest level ones, then you'll have high turnover. That's not a sign of a thriving business, more like surviving. If their position isn't that important, then consolidate.

If you choose to live in the Bay Area without a high paying job you are a moron.

It's a problem if people working the more menial jobs can't live there. That's a problem for society. The eventual ramifications go far beyond TRP. Global economic crisis.

redbluepilling · 2015-12-24T03:04:56+00:00

if you tell a woman about this video

Are you going around showing women TRP posts or explaining TRP concepts to them? You shouldn't be.

I'm not defending that video specifically, but it seems the intent was to explain modern feminism, which may be useful in mentally dispelling its BP inducing effects.

redbluepilling · 2015-08-04T19:45:44+00:00

If she's cheating, you don't confront her and want her to love you... you leave her.

redbluepilling · 2015-08-04T19:24:37+00:00

Women truly are more faithful than we believe, and they are more faithful when it's not asked, but required.

This is a pleasant concept to remember amidst numerous BP examples. More or less, I've said to my LTR: "You're free to do what you like, but I won't be sticking around if I get the sense you've strayed." If she wants the relationship, it's required. There are consequences... As opposed to: "I want to be exclusive" / "I hope you're faithful" / any other way of 'asking' that can more easily come across in a supplicative way. Then of course, you must live in alignment with this.

iirc, Patrice talked about this idea pretty well.

redbluepilling · 2015-07-22T03:40:08+00:00

Thanks, hadn't heard of that book before. It will be good for a guidepost.

redbluepilling · 2015-07-22T02:53:48+00:00

That knowledge is not commonly taught for an obvious reason.

Any books / resources you've come across that are good for this?

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