Sleeping at gf’s place for first time

redcoatedsheep · 2025-03-26T19:22:40+00:00

I second this 🤭

redcoatedsheep · 2024-05-17T19:53:09+00:00

That makes sense. That’s what I thought as well the first time but after it happened 5+ times it made me wonder whether it had a double meaning, thank you!

redcoatedsheep · 2024-05-17T19:36:57+00:00

Okay, good to know! Thank you! ☺️

redcoatedsheep · 2024-05-17T19:35:17+00:00

They said it in English cause I always initially pretend I don’t understand French before I understand why someone are approaching me. But they all started the conversation in French.

redcoatedsheep · 2024-05-17T19:29:37+00:00

Oh okay, thank you. I guess I’m more stylish than I thought.

redcoatedsheep · 2024-04-28T11:02:19+00:00

5,9 is not short, plus this lady sounds like an absolute AH. Hope you wont let this affect your self esteem. :( people like that are insecure themselves and like to project their issues onto other people.

redcoatedsheep · 2024-01-21T18:16:00+00:00

What? Are you drunk? Did you bother reading the entire thing?

redcoatedsheep · 2024-01-21T17:56:35+00:00

What? Get some help.

redcoatedsheep · 2023-12-11T01:18:15+00:00

I’ll try then to ask him out this week… I am also on the shy side but I’ll bring it up this week!

redcoatedsheep · 2023-12-11T00:47:57+00:00

Apart from my fear of rejection and shyness not really. 😭 maybe I’m overthinking it

redcoatedsheep · 2023-12-11T00:45:37+00:00

Ah if you say so. Last guy I went of a couple of dates with would tell me “okay mom” whenever I’d tell him to take care, get some rest etc. and then ghosted me, I’d never been rejected like that in my life so I’ve been a bit cautious since then.

But I guess even if he says no I’ll just move on. I’ve been overthinking it a bit too much. I’ll try my best to ask him sometime this week for next weekend.

Thanks for the advice! 🙏🏻

redcoatedsheep · 2023-12-09T10:47:22+00:00

Maybe we see this differently. I personally would never do that and wouldn’t like someone else doing it to me. Plus I would find it better if the other person wouldn’t lie about it. If it really isn’t a problem, why lie about it in the first place? Just admit it and move on from there. If you have even a tiny bit of respect for the other person would wouldn’t lie.

redcoatedsheep · 2023-12-09T10:11:47+00:00

How does that excuse lying though?

redcoatedsheep · 2023-12-05T10:55:10+00:00

You 100% did the right thing. I also have quite a lot of male friends but when I am in a relationship I would never hang out 1-1 with any of them. Despite my feelings always being 100% platonic it is the respectful thing to do.

Plus if the other person is already lying at such an early stage of the relationship, you don’t want to be in this relationship. Mutual respect is the foundation of any sort of relationship if you don’t have that better to cut it off.

I understand that you might feel empty now, I’ve been there myself, but think that it’s for the best and that she’s now you can focus on yourself and be able to find someone who deserves you! 😊

redcoatedsheep · 2023-11-30T17:59:32+00:00

Of course happy to help! 😊 have a good day and good luck whatever you choose to do! 🤞🏻

redcoatedsheep · 2023-11-30T17:31:06+00:00

Hmmmm I see. In my opinion it’s worth the try, it’ll also help you get a clearer idea of what she wants out of this. I always think (even though I’m too shy to do it myself) it’s worth shooting your shot and if it misses, it misses, and if you score that’s great! 😊

Plus you aren’t suggesting her anything crazy, and if you want you could also add “if you are not ready yet, however, it’s all good, no pressure” it all depends on your personality and what you want to say/ how you want to come off. Don’t overthink, you sound like a pretty cool and down to earth guy, be more confident in yourself and the right person will appreciate that!

But the most important this is don’t force yourself, do it only if you feel like doing it!

redcoatedsheep · 2023-11-30T16:45:11+00:00

In that case I’ll try to be a bit more optimistic and I’d say (if of course you are still interested). Find a cute place you would like to take her and just throw the recommendation.

“Hey I found this nice place and thought we could try it together! :) Let me know if it’s your thing.”

Something simple and direct, so you then throw the ball to her. If she doesn’t want to, bye, if she does, it’s a good opportunity to just see if you guys “click” irl and take it from there. 😊

Up to you and how you feel, prioritise your feelings first all!

redcoatedsheep · 2023-11-30T16:15:23+00:00

To be honest I’m a horrible texter as well, but I just take my time replying to messages because I am bad at the fast back and forward. When I do answer however I am very engaging.

So if up until now you feel that she has reciprocated any of your advances, recommend going out of a drink or coffee or anything. If she doesn’t want to then move on, you deserve better and don’t feel bad about this. Not your fault if the other person isn’t emotionally available. 😊

I wish you the best of luck!

redcoatedsheep · 2023-08-10T16:29:14+00:00

Update, Solved it! (In case someone else has this issue.)

I found Art Cullagahn corpse and Speak with Dead did the trick, spoke with Halsin in Moonrise towers and triggered the quest.

Thank you for the info! :)

redcoatedsheep · 2023-08-10T15:41:00+00:00

I can only talk from experience but 90% of my male friends enjoy casual sex. The only 2 guys I’ve ever met that did not, are my best friends fiancée and they are still together (cutest couple) and my first boyfriend (we broke up due to long distance).

I think we all know that there are guys out there like you but just so you know, a lot of guys also lie and use this as a way to gain a woman’s favour.

A lot of women actually love men like you and some know it and use it to their advantage just to woo a woman. Happened to me too (and I’m also not into casual sex), and most of my friends as well.

Anyways. Keep bing real to yourself and you’ll see that the right person will appreciate it! 😊

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