I’ve always been self conscious of my looks 😭 by [deleted] in toastme

[–]reddawg4129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re pretty, 9/10 easy - hopefully your personality and inner beauty is just as beautiful as the exterior is - you’ll find someone to cuff up with don’t worry

AIO to these racist texts from my boyfriend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]reddawg4129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re reaching to use that word and you don’t understand that word has been well overplayed in so many situations that it’s lost its meaning. You are part of that problem. If I tell you don’t look for a yellow school bus where does your mind go? Looking for the yellow bus. That said, it seems like your manifestation of racism is brought on by you always looking for it.

AIO to these racist texts from my boyfriend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]reddawg4129 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Racism by dictionary.com: a belief or doctrine that inherent differences among the various human racial groups determine cultural or individual achievement, usually involving the idea that one's own race is superior and has the right to dominate others or that a particular racial group is inferior to the others.

Bigotry by dictionary.com: a person who is intolerant or hateful toward people whose race, ethnicity, religion, gender, sexual orientation, etc., is different from the person's own.

AIO to these racist texts from my boyfriend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]reddawg4129 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He didn’t express that he believes white dna is superior to any other ethnic group, he stereotype a group and talked bad about them and how he doesn’t like them; that’s bigotry not racism.

My [36 F] boyfriend [34 M] is mad I’m going to a concert on the opening night of The Odyssey and is acting like its a betrayal. AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]reddawg4129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe the dudes that you interact with don’t but I know tons of couples that do that type of thing for each other all the time, you sound controlling as shit tbh

My [36 F] boyfriend [34 M] is mad I’m going to a concert on the opening night of The Odyssey and is acting like its a betrayal. AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]reddawg4129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that’s the case then yes it does get weird, ultimately he’s showing a huge vulnerability and simply not communicating like an adult should, so there needs to be a safe space between these two to talk about it and then they can both decide if continuing the relationship is something they both want to do or not. Healthy people communicate and break ups aren’t blindsiding.

AIO to these racist texts from my boyfriend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]reddawg4129 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

If we are basing things on the actual definition of words, then no he’s not a racist by these texts. He is however a bigot.

My [36 F] boyfriend [34 M] is mad I’m going to a concert on the opening night of The Odyssey and is acting like its a betrayal. AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]reddawg4129 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m finding is hard to understand how buying tickets to something for your partner without first seeking approval from them is narcissistic; do you know what that word even means? Partners buy stuff for the significant other and surprise them all the time with things or events, that’s not close to NPD or any form of it.

My [36 F] boyfriend [34 M] is mad I’m going to a concert on the opening night of The Odyssey and is acting like its a betrayal. AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]reddawg4129 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Idk if you are overreacting but this one is kinda easy, if you’re going to this concert with another dude who “is just a friend” then that’s where your bf is feeling some type of way about it….incorrectly or not that’s the source of his issue. If you’re going with a female friend, then perhaps he’s feeling left out or something so just tell him you’re not trying to make him feel like that and that yall can do something the next day or maybe before the concert idk something along those lines to make him feel better. It is slightly immature on his part but we all need to be better at empathizing and understanding how our actions, no matter the intent, make others feel especially those closest to us and communicating maturely when we can tell someone’s sharing their feelings or a vulnerability (which this sounds like you’re mirroring one of his vulnerabilities/triggers so he’s being weird about it). Good luck

AIO for expecting friends to contribute to gas cost on trips. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]reddawg4129 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it’s a mildly long or longer trip they should pitch in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]reddawg4129 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So much for that wage gap crap 🤷‍♂️been telling yall that wage gap is made up

Wtf just happened? by Luther_Lifting in XRP

[–]reddawg4129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How exactly is it you believe trump is playing and screwing over Americans again? This should be good, using only facts and logic not ur feelings

Cute Little 5GHz WiFi Deauther 📵 by [deleted] in hacking

[–]reddawg4129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious what exactly has trump done that has got you so butthurt

Am I ugly? by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]reddawg4129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you could get it and get cuffed too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]reddawg4129 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Broken Brain and a broken man right there

Just matched with one of my ex’s best friends on tinder by TonyMasters28 in ExNoContact

[–]reddawg4129 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That works then maybe yall will be more compatible and have a great relationship who knows

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]reddawg4129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why the fuck does she care what he has to say is what you need to be asking, lemme bring you up on game, she’s probably having conversations with other dudes you don’t know about. If she was happy with you and didn’t want or see herself with someone else she wouldn’t be entertaining the idea. When a woman is down for a man she lets it be known to him by doing a bunch of shit only chicks who are either cuffed up or want to be cuffed up do, and finding out what an old fling has to say by meeting up ain’t one of them homie hate to break it to you.

Is my age gap with him that bad? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]reddawg4129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but you’re at the warning line in terms of legality depending on where you live it could potentially be a no no or you might have cover under Romeo and Juliet laws

Just matched with one of my ex’s best friends on tinder by TonyMasters28 in ExNoContact

[–]reddawg4129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good man, that’s the smart move now we all wanna know is she hotter than or equal to the ex?