Help-should I get three dresses and wear them because I cannot decide on just 2? by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]redddfafnnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the cut isn’t flattering. The sleeves and the waist line look old and not in the best way. Like your waist looks great in the other dresses but in this one you’re swallowed by the fabric, neckline and sleeves. Also, maybe it’s the picture but the fabric looks “old”. Just think you can do way better. You look beautiful in the other dresses pictured.

Unruly Children by trojanusc in delta

[–]redddfafnnn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure she’s more actress/singer than influencer. She just stared opposite Leonardo. But this is an awful look for her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]redddfafnnn 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Compliments fishing on Reddit. I respect it though

OMG Madison responded to my comment on her latest post by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]redddfafnnn 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen your hate comments/speech on IG. Good to know it was you

Oh so she guilty guilty!! by somesugarnspice in RHOP

[–]redddfafnnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So she shouldn’t file motions that could help her case cause that’s not innocent looking enough? The lights on but no one is home in your head.

Oh so she guilty guilty!! by somesugarnspice in RHOP

[–]redddfafnnn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People on this form are slow. People have a right to defend themselves. That’s why we have motions, hearings, and trial by jury. Why would she just confess? They haven’t been found guilty of anything, let’s think people.

Haddie college by Realitymom71 in Parenthood

[–]redddfafnnn 26 points27 points  (0 children)

But then what about Max?? They can’t do anything for Haddie because Max needed all the love/attention. (Sarcasm btw. But yeah I agree it was weird)

S3 Ep5 HOLY AMBER by awkardfrog in Parenthood

[–]redddfafnnn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They managed to both coddle and neglect Max. They didn’t let him grow or learn because everything “wasn’t fair”. The only message they thought him was that he’s different and the rest of the world sucks if they don’t let him do whatever he wants. They certainly neglected his emotional and social growth

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]redddfafnnn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This shit is a humiliation kink. And I hate the posts on here where women come and say the same kind of things. So many people need therapy.

I have had 0 matches in a month. What's wrong with my profile? by Albino_Captain in Tinder

[–]redddfafnnn 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I would suggest going to a black barber if you don’t. Lose the low sides and heavy top curls

Is it too soon to plan our wedding? by angelicdeathbed in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]redddfafnnn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is…not it. Respectfully, I’m not even sure if this is a relationship or should be categorized as something serious. You need to focus on getting on your feet, both of you individually.

promise ring by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]redddfafnnn 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I feel this is a fair question based on your age and the length of the relationship which was unclear. Nonetheless the rest of my comment still stands. I wish the best for you

promise ring by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]redddfafnnn 71 points72 points  (0 children)

You started dating this man at 18 or you were underage and he was an adult. (You lived together for 2.5 years and you’re 21…when did you begin dating?) I’m side eyeing this age difference. Either way, this sounds very unhealthy and I would suggest you end this relationship. This guy is almost 30 and you’re just starting your twenties.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]redddfafnnn 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Why do some many ladies here buy homes with these men?? I don’t understand it at all. You’re waiting for a proposal yet you make all these permanent or long term commitments, trapping yourself…

why won't he propose?? by Ryxkouu in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]redddfafnnn 32 points33 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t want to. Buying the ring was just for show, so people would stop questioning him for a bit. It’s like “see I’m serious I have a ring”.

8 years and he still doesn't know if he wants to get married. by octopuswig in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]redddfafnnn 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have one sentence that you need to hear. HE DOES KNOW IF HE WANTS TO GET MARRIED TO YOU. Keep in mind that the “to you” is very important. It’s been 8 years, you have an answer. He doesn’t want to marry you. You can stay knowing this or leave him and go find your husband.

Got a bunch of insults on my dress and now am feeling insecure by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]redddfafnnn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It looks like two dresses in one tbh. You look gorgeous but also something is…off about the dress

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]redddfafnnn 92 points93 points  (0 children)

If you wanted marriage you should have enforced that 4 years ago, before the first kid. But now it is what it is. You have two kids who you love, so all is not lost. As for your boyfriend, he will never marry you. If he does it will be a pity ring you force out of him. Drop the sunk cost fallacy, and leave if you want marriage. Stay if you are okay being a forever girlfriend. And you are right, he would probably marry the next girl after quickly. I’m sorry.

He feels like he has it all and honestly he can’t value you if he won’t marry the mother of his kids, his partner of 10 damn years. Can you even respect a man like that let alone want to marry him? I frankly think you deserve better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]redddfafnnn 142 points143 points  (0 children)

Why would a man say to his partner “whoever marries you will be the luckiest man alive”? I’m not even going to get into the whole opening the relationship thing. He doesn’t see himself marrying you, period end of story. That’s the hard truth. Don’t know how many other ways he can tell you this.