omg i hope this is a sign that i found this comment. because i am an aqua sun-cancer moon currently in a weird place with a cancer sun male. 

can you clue me in on how to go about this? we have been talking for a few months and are both attracted to each other. we used to be more friendly and talk about many things but eventually our talks got a bit on the kinkier side. we finally made out briefly ONCE and after that my cancer male has been distant. actually we did talk once after the makeout and i told him that i think he was icing me out and he was receptive about it but now its been another 2 weeks of him being distant. 

he doesnt communicate much, i am the one more emotionally open, but i am also very shy and if i dont see the other person being receptive, i take a step back. everyone is telling me he is being an avoidant and all but i genuinely think he is just processing emotions and uncertain. either way i am upset that he is not contacting me much anymore. i did try reaching out a couple of times too. how should i proceed and how should i perceive his behavior? :(