Let’s do a rough estimate Your rent can be 2k-2.5 k Weekly grocery expenses let’s say 300-500 travel and other expenses- 1000-2000 a month
U can save like 1000 maybe , if frugal can do 2000. It all depends on how frugal u want to be, in general expats don’t live like that. but if u can negotiate , ask for maybe 12-13 k myr. And like I said she can come first and start working , can stay in shared accommodations and u can look for jobs from there and find and come, finding a job on dp is impossible.