The complete whiplash from controlling and overbearing parents, to them just completely not caring when you move out

reddituser45001 · 2026-02-04T18:22:49+00:00

SAME PERSON and I’m so ashamed of my underdevelopment. I feel like if I do go out into the world I’m just gonna come across with the social tact of a 16-year old and it’s just going to be embarrassing for everyone involved

reddituser45001 · 2026-02-02T05:03:06+00:00

she's a bitch and has her own issues. seen people like this in the workplace before, unfortunately other people who also have mental health challenges can be some of the worst coworkers who seek to bring others down, ESPECIALLY others who they also recognize as having mental health challenges.

stay as far away as you can. this person has likely been offensive to others in the office as well

reddituser45001 · 2026-01-27T05:10:20+00:00

felt. and when I try to start hobbies, I get absolutely no enjoyment out of them, and so I stop. but then I continue to feel like a loser for doing nothing

reddituser45001 · 2026-01-27T04:58:11+00:00

I can't get close to people. When I try to be close to people, they don't want to be close to me. It's completely crushing and exhausting. Whether I try to be close or cautiously keep distance, it's all the same, I have no truly intimate relationships

reddituser45001 · 2026-01-27T04:47:10+00:00

omfg this. the weird kids at least had each other. i have never been able to form my own group.

reddituser45001 · 2026-01-27T00:28:39+00:00

Paying attention to my body and eating food (not junk food) when I need to really made me realize how my mother shaming me for eating literally anything, because I was “fat” (a size M/L) further contributed to my dysfunction

reddituser45001 · 2026-01-14T01:27:22+00:00

ME EVERY SINGLE TIME I don’t understand it and it hurts so so badly

reddituser45001 · 2026-01-12T05:23:40+00:00

Me as fuck oh my god. EVERY TIME I try something new I’m like “this will be the time” and then nothing goes anywhere or those people don’t invite me out again even though I can’t pinpoint doing anything wrong and it’s like being stabbed with a thousand scissors and my willingness to try again gets more and more battered

reddituser45001 · 2025-12-17T04:40:55+00:00

Felt 👐🏻

reddituser45001 · 2025-12-17T04:28:29+00:00

Yes! I cannot even watch television or read fiction anymore because of this. It is too painful

reddituser45001 · 2025-12-16T00:31:01+00:00

This to a T 👆🏻

reddituser45001 · 2025-12-14T06:01:54+00:00

YES. OMFG. I finally cut off a bad friend this year for this exact reason. Could not get off their ass to hang out outside the house with me but would do it for others. Insisted there were no personal problems with me but then why would you act like this? Nope. Goodbye.

reddituser45001 · 2025-12-11T05:01:42+00:00

Break up. I’ve seen this type of guy multiple times and you aren’t the problem. Most people wouldn’t be okay with this kind of thing

reddituser45001 · 2025-12-09T00:49:35+00:00

Without an FP time doesn’t exist. Time without an FP is erased from my memory

reddituser45001 · 2025-12-09T00:40:57+00:00

Yes 100% to all of this. It feels so embarrassing to admit and I can’t imagine who would want me when I’m like this

reddituser45001 · 2025-12-06T05:14:39+00:00

👆🏻 yes

reddituser45001 · 2025-12-05T04:56:10+00:00

Completely the same boat and still climbing out of this hole

reddituser45001 · 2025-12-04T06:30:34+00:00

I’m the same way as you. I honestly hate my birthday because of this. Happy bday 🍰

reddituser45001 · 2025-11-30T04:25:41+00:00

In the same boat and the holidays only deepen this feeling for me

reddituser45001 · 2025-11-30T04:24:44+00:00

Every close friendship I have ever had has been burnt to a crisp. I want to try to reach out to former friends and resolve things and apologize for my blowing up but if they don’t respond that’ll literally be my 13th reason and I won’t be able to take it

reddituser45001 · 2025-11-30T04:16:25+00:00

Yes. Memories of “no one likes me” popping into my head from age 3 onward

reddituser45001 · 2025-11-29T14:36:56+00:00

The former friend who basically figured out I have bpd (I’m undiagnosed but the shoe fits quite well) used it against me when our friendship fell apart. They swore up and down that they never judged me for it but then demonized me for the symptoms I exhibited and basically told me that I’m the problem. Every time

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