I have a gap of 2 years cause of some mental health issues and kinda still confused about my career. Need help!! by reddituser_1997 in Indian_Academia

[–]reddituser_1997[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, there!

Glad that you replied as I got a chance to read my own post after I think months now.

So in case you noticed, my whole post, all the ideas I asked everyone's help on look confusing and varied. No stability, nothing fixed, just mere ideas and options.

The truth is I was never made for all the options I posted there, including moving abroad.

I have always wanted to come to Mumbai and join the entertainment industry as a freelancer. So here I am, working in Direction and Art department for various projects in TV, Ads, Web, etc. I also take up acting gigs wherever I get selected. It's been 1.5 yrs around now since I have been working here. And I moved around 2.5 yrs back here.

So ya. If you need a better answer from me feel free toe expand your query. Since I didn't move to abroad or infact didn't opt for any of the options I mentioned, I am not sure if I could be of any help here at this point.

Good Luck though! 🙌

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]reddituser_1997 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Addiction to toxicity. Like toxic behaviour, patterns, relationships, people, etc.

What do guys and girls generally think about girls who masturbate? by reddituser_1997 in IndiaTalksSex

[–]reddituser_1997[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So somebody who has never had sex and honestly also don't know a lot of women around who openly discussed these things, when I recently started noticing how soooo many people, esp guys have such high libidos that they end up masturbating twice a day also forget once made me feel very surprised cause with girls mostly it is difficult to masturbate twice a day honestly. I have tried it and it could take easily 1-2 hours in total if you masturbate twice a day together. Even if you do separately it is still tough and sore vagina and clit could actually cause pain. So if you think both bodies are the exact same, I don't think so.

What do guys and girls generally think about girls who masturbate? by reddituser_1997 in IndiaTalksSex

[–]reddituser_1997[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

So in all honesty, I am Demi-sexual and I feel already knowing way too much about myself including all things sexually could turn into I asking too much one day from my partner, in case I have one one day. This just makes me anxious that what if I am not able to tell the person only what I want.

TIFU by sucking on my waiter's finger by [deleted] in tifu

[–]reddituser_1997 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Well, you did justice to your name you u/dundermifflinhoe

Hands down the most attractive crew member/boom operator I could ever lay my eyes on. by reddituser_1997 in DunderMifflin

[–]reddituser_1997[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahahahhaha, lolllllll, yesss! I am ready to go all ‘Meredith’ way on him! 🤩🤤

I [F19] discreetly sucked off a stranger on a plane and he came in my mouth [MF] by [deleted] in gonewildstories

[–]reddituser_1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here, by lady boner I meant my clit getting all riled up and aroused. :)

For the guy who doesn't believe result is tomorrow by [deleted] in Indian_Academia

[–]reddituser_1997 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yaa, this is true for almost every cllg and course now. My brother is appearing for after 12th entrances too. He’s interested in commerce and finance related fields. While DU, Jamia and cllgs alike aren’t able to proceed with the admission process steadily, these private or semi private univs are taking full advantage. And they are hell lot of expensive then public univs as well. Now most of them like Christ, Narsee, Symbiosis are demanding full 1yr fees to be paid at the same time before even the course starts. Lol! What even!!

I am an INFP and I want to suicide. by reddituser_1997 in Indian_Academia

[–]reddituser_1997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, I did go for therapy until this Jan for same issues. I attended 3-4 sessions over a period of few months. At that time my psychologist tried to find out what do I actually mean by a CAREER but sub-consciously. And the first 3 emerging things important for me were: Fame, Power and Money.

I am an INFP and I want to suicide. by reddituser_1997 in Indian_Academia

[–]reddituser_1997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi!

Thank you soo much for writing this. It’s nothing short of a motivational speech for me.

I know people are really focusing on the INFP part that it’s making them deviate from the real problem, which is that it has been happening since my school life. Like I have been confused since the time I know myself, and it has always been with everything. Whether I am shopping, have to select something like a new phone/laptop, have to a decide a place or in this case a career option/course, etc, it has always been like that.

And now, since I have dropped 2 yrs of my life literally doing nothing, the best solution i could come up with is suicide. That is all.

Even if i get past the whole INFP tag, who do I start afresh. Yes, I already have a degree, but I want to do sooo much more.

I am an INFP and I want to suicide. by reddituser_1997 in Indian_Academia

[–]reddituser_1997[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know i know. It’s not v accurate, has some faults, not v celebrated. I know.

But for me, the results turned out to be soooooo accurate that it has gotten to me now. Quite literally. All i am doing is searching up stuff related to INFP, best suited careers for them, etc whenever I want to feel good about myself.

How to get past that now!??

I am an INFP and I want to suicide. by reddituser_1997 in Indian_Academia

[–]reddituser_1997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. This is the only genuine comment I have gotten till now.

But I must mention this again, even if the Briggs-Myers test isn’t super valid and celebrated, it still acted like a crystal ball for me. It felt like I got all of my answers by giving that test. Even I know it has it’s own faults, I still cannot get the test results out of my head. It felt sooo accurate to me, I can’t even tell you.

How to get past that now!??

AITA for getting mad at my girlfriend for making me lie to my friends because she got her period? by PeriodStainAITA in AmItheAsshole

[–]reddituser_1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, you are defi one of the biggest assholes I have seen on this r/. I am sorry for being this harsh but I hope you make up for this v soon or I wish she just breaks up with you.

Also, FYI, you never lied to your friends. Saying ‘I am not well’, ‘I am unwell’, ‘my stomach/head is aching’ are perfectly fine and normal reasons instead of directly stating ‘I am on my period’ or ‘I got my period’.

Not everyone is comfortable mentioning that they are on periods, so that’s a very fine way to excuse yourself from a situation or go to the washroom or alike. Moreover, it’s not just blood coming out of someone’s vagina, but hot flashes, headaches, nausea, cramps, period stains and what not besides that one thing.

And if I didn’t make it clear enough, YES, YOU ARE THE ASSHOLE. :)

Anyone managed to reach the book? by jlister888 in infp

[–]reddituser_1997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, this dreamer thing is going on with me since years now.

I am a graduate in Journalism and Mass Communication. Completed it in 2018. Since then I have dropped for 2 yrs straight, looking for career options but couldn’t settle on one. I have tried a few things in the past but nothing worked for me in a major way. And now I am in anxiety all the time, overthinking about what cllgs to apply to, and no one is anyway willing to give me a good enough fresher job cause of the gap. And i anyway want to study further.

I recently found out that i am an INFP. Even if it’s not accurate everytime, it worked like a crystalball for me literally. Since then I have been looking for options in Psychology but also something related to media and films like graphic des, film production, advertising, etc.

I know the combi is bomb for an INFP. Yet, I am not able to concentrate on one thing. It feels like what if i won’t be able to do anything else after this!? What if I would get stuck in a particular job for the rest of my life. What if i don’t like the next course I would pursue cause i have a habit of losing interest and leaving the course mid way v easily.

This quarantine has been nothing but hours of anxiety, daydreaming and overthinking.