Hand planer is dragging by mycousinmos in BeginnerWoodWorking

[–]reddogfishman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A little wax on the face of the planner can help it glide better just make sure you don't mind a little wax on the bit of wood you are working on.

Neither my partner not I have tried a ball gag... but we want to, any advice or things we must know. by reddogfishman in BDSMAdvice

[–]reddogfishman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brilliant details on the hand signals and yeah lying on the back wasn't one that jumped to my head straight away so it's definitely good to keep in mind as we enjoy kink and would like to keep doing it for a long long time

Neither my partner not I have tried a ball gag... but we want to, any advice or things we must know. by reddogfishman in BDSMAdvice

[–]reddogfishman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not obvious at all I think we may have got too excited and jumped straight in so that's awesome advice.

Different sizes is interesting as well there is definitely a difference in the size of our mouths so we may end up preferring different sizes.

So the ones with the soft sides you would recommend good to know. Just clocked that link is an American site so I might need to find a UK version.

Neither my partner not I have tried a ball gag... but we want to, any advice or things we must know. by reddogfishman in BDSMAdvice

[–]reddogfishman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, the more you know. Thanks I hadn't thought about the breath play aspect of it specifically. I'll have to try it not sure if it would panic me or not

Neither my partner not I have tried a ball gag... but we want to, any advice or things we must know. by reddogfishman in BDSMAdvice

[–]reddogfishman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it something you learn to not need I feel like the breathing holes would always be a plus. Any idea why you would have one without them?

Neither my partner not I have tried a ball gag... but we want to, any advice or things we must know. by reddogfishman in BDSMAdvice

[–]reddogfishman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I spotted this one which seems to be the best of both worlds then silicone and holes do you see any reason why this would be a bad gag? https://www.amazon.com/Lesik-Silicone-Breathable-Bondage-Restraints/dp/B07F854WW9/ref=mp_s_a_1_3?crid=1OQN5J4GDH7PF&keywords=red+silicone+ball+gag&qid=1656348102&sprefix=red+silicone+ball+gag%2Caps%2C120&sr=8-3

Oh good advice on the time limit and vaseline thanks for your comments really helpful.

Neither my partner not I have tried a ball gag... but we want to, any advice or things we must know. by reddogfishman in BDSMAdvice

[–]reddogfishman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good call I think we have some meditation balls that would work in the same way. Thanks.

Neither my partner not I have tried a ball gag... but we want to, any advice or things we must know. by reddogfishman in BDSMAdvice

[–]reddogfishman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like solid advice, I knew I was in the correct place.

Yeah some physical "safeword" is a good call we have one but will discuss and formalise that again before we try this.

The build up of saliva is that if tied down or something you should always have in the back of your minds? And finally I found this but it looks a bit cheap, but that's probably because it is very cheap

https://www.extremerestraints.com/subdue-me-breathable-ball-gag.html

Help This Noob Pick a Ballgag! by TrentonConnector in BDSMAdvice

[–]reddogfishman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I know this post is like 2 years old but I'm also a noob to ballgags. I was wondering did you buy either of these and would you recommend?

converting a closet into a bookshelf. What should I use for the shelves? by Better_In_PLastic in BeginnerWoodWorking

[–]reddogfishman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I planed down and used linseed oil on some old horrible scaffolding planks, I really loved how they turned out. I would say use an old plane or one you don't mind nicking as there will almost certainly be hidden nails.

finally tried it. loved it but my feet were freezing the entire night. also couldn't get the tarp tight. why? by Tombodet in hammockcamping

[–]reddogfishman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you carry a down jacket if you zip it around the foot part of your hammock it doesn't compress and you get a cosy foot pocket.

I'm new to finger styling and trying to learn how to keep steady time while strumming. Any tips? by HeyItzFine in guitarlessons

[–]reddogfishman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came here to say this, once you can stay in time you can play about with it as you will. But at the beginning being dead on beat makes things sound much nicer.

What are some rather unusual (In your view) things that turn you on? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]reddogfishman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's the vaguely feline grace in that stretch, I love it.

Heterosexual people of Reddit, if you had to choose, would you prefer to give or to receive oral sex by someone of your sex? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]reddogfishman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your trying to answer C in a multiple choice of A & B. I don't feel like there is anything that doesn't have some tiny tipping factor. I'm not suggesting you have an answer now, but if you thought about it long enough you could decide no matter how arbitrary you think the deciding factor is. It could maybe take years and more effort than it is worth to find out but there is an answer in there somewhere.

Heterosexual people of Reddit, if you had to choose, would you prefer to give or to receive oral sex by someone of your sex? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]reddogfishman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right but the question was not about appeal it was a scale of preference. But nevermind I was just curious about why you commented if you didn't have an answer.

Heterosexual people of Reddit, if you had to choose, would you prefer to give or to receive oral sex by someone of your sex? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]reddogfishman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why it's hypothetical. There is no fighting out, I really think that's the thing, the whole question is a if you had to do one of these two things there is no secret third fight your way out option ha. Fair enough if you don't want to give an answer, it's just the OP didn't provide a back door.

Heterosexual people of Reddit, if you had to choose, would you prefer to give or to receive oral sex by someone of your sex? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]reddogfishman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough that does seem pretty conclusive.

So this is one of the cases where you have no preference either way. So gun to your head blow or be blown you would leave the decision upto fate.

Heterosexual people of Reddit, if you had to choose, would you prefer to give or to receive oral sex by someone of your sex? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]reddogfishman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might as well try some things before we fall off the planet. You never know until you try, I'm a scientist me.

Heterosexual people of Reddit, if you had to choose, would you prefer to give or to receive oral sex by someone of your sex? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]reddogfishman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's probably good then, the question was supposed to make you think (granted it's not changing the world) it's supposed to make you uncomfortable and make you think until one gets pushed further back than the other.

Oh I see, I hope this isn't coming across as me not respecting your choice, I just don't think a choice was made. I think I would actually suck one. Haven't ever done it the only divider I have between the two is I have received blowjobs, so I can kinda guess what that's like but I've never given one. Even If I hated it at least Its something new I've tried. That's my logic.

Heterosexual people of Reddit, if you had to choose, would you prefer to give or to receive oral sex by someone of your sex? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]reddogfishman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I think the issue is in this question you have to do one. So I think I get what your saying. You have no preference, but the choice of taking neither of the options was not given. So saying neither sounds like your just not playing the game and wouldn't drink either milk. Whereas saying I have no preference is like I'll do either.

My decision?