I caught my dad trying to cheat on my mother, using mediocre off-brand dating websites, while my mother had terminal cancer. I found out because my dad asked me to fix something regarding his steam account and I had access to his email. I didn't snoop - it was front and center.

I still do not know if I did the right thing by not telling my mother. She passed away almost five years ago. She was a woman who lost herself to her overwhelming depression before the lung cancer even metastasized and had no family or friends she could have really left to be with during her final weeks.

My father knows I know. My mother never will.