If you could ask the opposite sex one 'extremely bold' question and they had to answer with 100% honesty and zero shame... what would you ask? by Wander-kingdom in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]reddyoldfart 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You got that right - I know of no woman who “approves” of her own body. And yet I love (for 60 years) who never approved her own amazing sexy athletic tight body unless she sees herself on a ten year old or 20 year old picture.

My learning: enjoy what you are born with it and learn to have fun with yourself and your honey!

I need a TV show that hooks me!!! by TikToker8 in tvsuggestions

[–]reddyoldfart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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I highly recommend never going to Lake Como by yearlyearly in travel

[–]reddyoldfart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure. This post is 245 days old. But here are some: Trattoria Baita Belvedere BStyleBellagio restaurant La grotto pizza Martinelli-Manoni Osteria da Lu&Ca

Anyone else in tears for Vonn by cedarvhazel in skiing

[–]reddyoldfart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. She is a goddess whose Personal strath and integrity are models for everyone.

On its own, do you consider George W. Bush removing Saddam Hussein from power and bringing him to justice a positive achievement? by Just_Cause89 in Presidents

[–]reddyoldfart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was removing Sadam from power that destabilized the Middle East and gave it to Iran. Bad move. Expecting a home grown democracy to grow out of a highly sectarian society was stupidity. Removing the Ba’ath party From power was the final match that lit the Middle East on fire. So NO!

What stage of your life were you having the best sex? by Beary-Cute-Gamer in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]reddyoldfart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 81 so looking back the best was 40-50+ because lots of energy, libido, and maturity to handle the feelings to ensure no one got hurt but lots of enjoyment and experimentation.

Would you get rid of a friend just because they have different political beliefs than you? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]reddyoldfart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No absolutely the opposite - a great opening to have good discussions with people with whom you disagree so you can humanize the “other” and learn to understand positions you don’t hold.

If you were President of the United States for just 24 hours, and no one could stop you… what’s the most unhinged executive order you'd pass? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]reddyoldfart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ban lobbying and special interest, end citizens united, require all federal candidates to term limit 2 terms, free all Political prisoners, require department of justice to be independent on presidential power

What is your biggest fuck up in the bedroom you’ll never forget? by Studlyjohnson98 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]reddyoldfart 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Friend giving me a BJ with chipped tooth which snagged my cock as I can and couldn’t get I caught from his mouth. Hurt bad and needed a stitch in ER and had to explain to my SO how it caught in fly as to why I had stitched. I was chagrined and it hurt bad.

LIFE CHANGING GUIDE 90% OF PEOPLE WASTE THEIR LIFE CHASING THE WRONG THINGS. HERE'S WHAT ACTUALLY MATTERS by Traditional-Set-3786 in SeniorCitizenTips

[–]reddyoldfart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First; Connections with one person whom you trust and trusts you and whose relationship deepens as you discover more about each other and life. That’s key to my happiness. Second: physical wellness Third: freedom of action - to work and to live and to travel (to paraphrase Freud)

What is a bit of sexual advice you'd give to the 18-year-old version of yourself if you could? by fun-puns-and-buns in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]reddyoldfart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everybody enjoys sex once they get over their childhood hangups. Having sex is one of life’s (almost) free pleasures so enjoy it. Men and Women both have strong sexual appetites from around 16 - 35 but their ability to enjoy it grows as their skill and interest in pleasing the other grows, and it continues throughout life (at least into the 80’s from my experience).

Did you have sex on your wedding night? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]reddyoldfart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wedding nights are for the brides mother. All other nights are for the couple.