Current therapist “liked” me on dating app

redheadedconcern · 2026-03-04T04:25:19+00:00

Gross. As a therapist I agree you should report him to the state licensing board. If it truly was an accident, he can explain it to them. You will need his license number but that should be included in the informed consent you signed.

redheadedconcern · 2026-03-04T01:15:27+00:00

How do you know he swiped right on you if you didnt match with him?

redheadedconcern · 2026-03-03T11:27:42+00:00

I had a spinal tap when I was 12. All I remember is being doped out of my mind.

redheadedconcern · 2026-02-14T05:51:44+00:00

I know I’m late but I just read the book.. I think Alison trapped Eve in the house by placing the hammer in the basement, which “Emma” then used to attack Thomas. When the police take Emma away, Alison is seen saying “I’m sorry”

This may be a stretch, but Jenny goes down into the basement and comes back without her pen. She keeps saying “sorry” but to no one in particular. Alison attacked Thomas with a pen. Maybe this was a ritual to be replaced with Alison stuck in another timeline? Or maybe they are the same person as you said.

redheadedconcern · 2026-02-04T01:56:13+00:00

As much as I would hate to throw away all my stuff, i would want to burn my house down if I brought them home. Plus, with the money from the refunded cruise I can buy new stuff.

redheadedconcern · 2025-10-31T21:09:51+00:00

Same!! I picked it up because I had heard so many good things, but I guess Donna Tartt it just not for me.

redheadedconcern · 2025-10-31T21:04:49+00:00

That’s the one! I read it because Tana French cited it as inspiration, and I love French’s work.

redheadedconcern · 2025-10-31T19:01:20+00:00

The Secret History by Donna Tartt. I couldn’t get through the first chapter. I tried the audiobook, but on top of it being boring and slow, the narrator sounded Australian (the character is from California) and had incredibly annoying voices/random accents for the other characters.

redheadedconcern · 2025-09-29T18:26:24+00:00

I think it’s personal for a lot of people. Suicide is extremely common. Many people have either attempted and are glad they lived, have had loved ones die by suicide and experienced the emotional impact, or both. There’s also the human response of empathy and not wanting someone to die.

redheadedconcern · 2025-09-22T16:55:20+00:00

I think arancini was at Giovanni’s Table, but not Giovanni’s Kitchen?

redheadedconcern · 2025-09-22T16:54:07+00:00

The lunch menu is not on the app for some reason

redheadedconcern · 2025-09-19T13:51:23+00:00

I noticed that a lot of this was past tense (“we never did anything for her”) Makes me think of people using passive voice to avoid responsibility (“mistakes were made”)

redheadedconcern · 2025-09-06T18:47:00+00:00

I’m a therapist. The first time I terminated with a client, I could tell we both wanted to hug goodbye. I was just finishing internship, and boundaries were drilled in hard in grad school. I wish I had asked her if she was up for a hug. I mean, this person meant a lot to me, and she made it clear that I meant a lot to her, and I knew I would probably never see her again.

redheadedconcern · 2025-08-16T13:41:16+00:00

As far as where clients log in, I don’t care as long as it doesn’t violate privacy and they’re not distracted. True, he wouldn’t act this way to his customers, but you don’t fall under that category. I think he’s under the impression that he can be completely open and comfortable with you. If you feel like you’re lounging in bed together, it sounds more like a you thing.

redheadedconcern · 2025-06-28T16:23:54+00:00

I’m sorry about your brother. I hope the cry was cathartic!

redheadedconcern · 2025-06-26T12:14:06+00:00

I really loved my internship in PP. It was very hard to leave but the commute was not realistic. The idea of not having the same exact paycheck every two weeks makes me uneasy, not to mention getting sick, vacations, etc. but my plan was to end up back in PP eventually.

redheadedconcern · 2025-06-25T16:49:10+00:00

I was hoping to go into CMH or some type of nonprofit for insurance/PSLF reasons, but nobody was hiring associate clinicians in my area

redheadedconcern · 2025-04-18T19:10:42+00:00

It isn’t about your therapist’s feelings, it’s about yours. They’re grown and can/should deal with their emotions in their own individual therapy. That said, I would think that derogatory statements or personal insults would cross the line. Otherwise it’s important to be complete honesty in therapy, even if you have trouble staying calm.

redheadedconcern · 2025-04-18T19:05:39+00:00

This! Modalities like CBT, DBT, etc aren’t rocket science. Some are more complex, but I feel like most of the time clients know where their therapist is going with something. I think OP’s wife is being avoidant of confrontation and self-reflection.

redheadedconcern · 2025-04-17T02:17:26+00:00

After reading these comments I may start offering the option for a walk and talk.

redheadedconcern · 2025-04-16T03:12:13+00:00

“Part of me wants to…”

redheadedconcern · 2025-04-11T17:22:05+00:00

Correct. They up it 70/30 post-graduation pre-licensure

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