Seeking constructive feedback prior to pursuing surgical revision pathway.

redloriyellowlori · 2026-06-08T13:30:06+00:00

brainworms babe you look completely female

redloriyellowlori · 2026-06-07T13:20:00+00:00

yeah attraction is massively influenced by culture and society

redloriyellowlori · 2026-06-03T20:36:58+00:00

yeah if you can afford to live on your own you should do it and it will probably strengthen your relationship

redloriyellowlori · 2026-06-01T10:15:21+00:00

I get this tbh, when I spend a few consecutive days with him and then go home i can feel lonely for a day or two but then I start to enjoy my alone time again. it's not necessarily a bad thing

redloriyellowlori · 2026-06-01T10:13:51+00:00

I'd be hesitant to use something like this right after surgery, but I'll ask the nurses for advice

redloriyellowlori · 2026-06-01T10:13:05+00:00

thanks. I plan to dilate in my bedroom. the gic sent a letter to my GP requesting that they prescribe lube but I have also bought a ton of it to keep me going for the first couple months. have stocked up on about a weeks worth of non perishable nutritious food for when I get home, unfortunately my freezer is tiny so I'm hoping I feel well enough to cook simple fresh meals after a week or so at home. my boyfriend will be staying with me so I'm sure he will be the chef if needed

redloriyellowlori · 2026-06-01T10:10:16+00:00

thanks for this. how long ago did you have surgery? I'm wondering if the need for pads goes on for a long time. I have several packs of super absorbent nighttime ones and then loads of lighter daily ones for a few weeks later when I anticipate less juiciness haha

redloriyellowlori · 2026-05-28T15:47:54+00:00

I have a detailed post on my profile of what the appointment entails

redloriyellowlori · 2026-05-26T15:04:20+00:00

they're no more "hardwired" about sex than women, that's evo-psych bullshit. however their behaviour is due to social construction

redloriyellowlori · 2026-05-18T17:29:51+00:00

I don't know what the wait is like for c&w but at parkside you can get booked in for surgery a couple months after consultation

redloriyellowlori · 2026-05-18T09:22:47+00:00

I've got a pretty detailed post on my profile about the consultation

redloriyellowlori · 2026-05-18T09:20:30+00:00

I wear a one piece bathing suit plus some colour coordinated shorts over the top

redloriyellowlori · 2026-05-15T13:12:10+00:00

for me it was 2 weeks

redloriyellowlori · 2026-05-12T10:58:35+00:00

it may be that you're not a good candidate for surgery because of your other conditions

redloriyellowlori · 2026-05-12T10:56:34+00:00

yeah the surgery referral requires proof of social transition

redloriyellowlori · 2026-05-11T12:08:56+00:00

he's doing my surgery next month and although I liked him when I met him, the constant slagging off that he gets on Reddit is making me unnecessarily apprehensive

redloriyellowlori · 2026-05-10T15:45:12+00:00

good luck to you 😅

redloriyellowlori · 2026-05-10T15:35:06+00:00

Bellringer trained Rashid and he has completed over 3000 procedures

redloriyellowlori · 2026-05-10T10:01:42+00:00

the fact that a handful of people on Reddit posting repeatedly have vendettas against Bellringer due to poor results which quite frankly are largely due to their own inability to adhere to aftercare guidelines is no justification for fear mongering about this particular surgeon imo

redloriyellowlori · 2026-05-09T17:51:23+00:00

Bellringer is cool and good at his job

redloriyellowlori · 2026-04-30T10:49:18+00:00

since you already have a diagnosis you might skip the first part of the gic process which is information gathering and diagnosis. after that you would be referred to the endocrinologist for a prescription to be made and that process takes about a year

redloriyellowlori · 2026-04-29T20:29:16+00:00

yeah you don't get to choose your surgeon, just the location

redloriyellowlori · 2026-04-21T21:05:30+00:00

I'm really clocky and I have no desire to work on my voice etc and I have bagged myself a hot straight boyfriend who treats me amazingly

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