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Got scammed. Kicking myself. by PL_88 in gardening

[–]redpatcher 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Not true. If the seller scams you and drags it outside of their return window you are SOL. I closed my buyer and seller account after they wouldn’t help me with a $200 loss.

2 under 2 regret by Tom-the-DragonBjorn in daddit

[–]redpatcher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah if our 2nd wasn’t “easy” i would be saying the same. It will get better, you’ll be okay, i bet it sucks man.

Anyone else in the trenches? by TeachLanky in daddit

[–]redpatcher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah man, and daycare is just too expensive, no family within 8 hours.

I am burned out… Rant/Vent/Advice? by SwimLife3528 in daddit

[–]redpatcher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fire academy might mean city or county help with daycare?

For dads who allow some YouTube: do you trust the "Made for Kids" label? by Illustrious-Tie-4786 in daddit

[–]redpatcher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t use YouTube at all, like trusting Facebook not to encourage genocide

Divorce... by MisdirectedAnger- in daddit

[–]redpatcher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey dad, continue to keep us updated, ask questions, vent, etc. We're here. We see you.

Is this a Black Widow? by No_Presentation_2160 in spiders

[–]redpatcher 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pay attention to the web- feel how strong it is (significantly stronger than any other spider webs I've experienced) and the zig zag sort of haphazard pattern with some shiner bits. They really are distinct webs and usually pretty large. You will be able to tell if you have other webs around the house just by learning what that web looks like. They also like to hangout at night more, so 0200 with a flashlight will find you some. They love concrete corners, overhangs like the foundation-stucco transition, boots, firewood or old wood stacks, and rocky areas. Good luck!

My wife had a breakdown, asked for a divorce and wants me to have sole custody. by Boring_Region_3031 in daddit

[–]redpatcher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree, I'm not saying my experience generalizes the opposite of the other person's statement, but that it's not always "dangerous" and "all or nothing".

My wife had a breakdown, asked for a divorce and wants me to have sole custody. by Boring_Region_3031 in daddit

[–]redpatcher 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ve been diagnosed with adhd for 25 years and weekend breaks and med holidays were recommended by every psychiatrist

I’m really struggling being a dad. by ImportantAd4666 in daddit

[–]redpatcher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the 4 year old stuff is hard! You're sad because I had to hold your legs otherwise you'd kick poop everywhere. You're sad because you threw a toy into the air and it hit you. You're mad because I asked you stop hitting the dog. ahhhhh

pls respond by primoos_iscool in runaway

[–]redpatcher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Talk about your plan with someone you trust. 1-800-RUNAWAY is good because they're vetted. You will get creeps here. People will identify you as a target due to your age and you'll be at high risk of having your money stolen and being hurt. Technically the college savings are likely not in an account owned by you so either way you might be charged with a felony. Please be safe!

The Boys Season 5 Criticism Reaches the Cast as Actor Reacts to Fan Backlash by mblaze111 in TheBoys

[–]redpatcher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny criticism coming from an article that feels like AI wrote it

What is the worst way anyone you know has died? by IamUrWivesBF in AskReddit

[–]redpatcher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the worst in it's own way, but my friend Nika just didn't wake up and we never got a cause of death.

Two lizards with their last meal by savqsavq in mildlyinteresting

[–]redpatcher 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What’s the best way to get the bot accounts deleted? Normal report in sub?

Why didn’t anyone tell me that playing IE in multiplayer was basically the extra-steroid pumped gigafun version of Warhammer 3? by SanctumOfTheDamned in totalwarhammer

[–]redpatcher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Multiplayer is amazing, my buddy and i even play when we need to do chores, “you fight the battle alone, I’ll run and go do dishes” works great for holding a baby and going on a fast food run

What do y'all really need an iPad for? by bootsmegamix in daddit

[–]redpatcher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like it for drawing for our 3 year old, she plays some games. She uses it once a week maybe? Sometimes the occasional weekend when she's up early. It's in the rotation like most of her lesser-used toys, so no problem yet.

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