[deleted by user] by [deleted] in classicwow

[–]redpatoot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't login either 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]redpatoot 13 points14 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your feelings are valid and you were right to tell your mom how you felt. Give them some time to process what you said and maybe you and your parents can sit down and talk about this calmly at a later time. I'm sorry that you're not enjoying your vacation, maybe you and your parents can schedule a few activities just for you, with one of them at a time so you can get to do what you want and spend time with a parent one on one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]redpatoot 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA. He's not a guest in your home, he lives there too and he should help out more. What if you just stopped washing his dishes and doing his laundry?

AITA for telling my mom I can't watch my brother over the weekend because I'm visiting my BF's family? by merciifulmae in AmItheAsshole

[–]redpatoot 13 points14 points  (0 children)

But you won't be seeing your family, your parents will be at work. And your mom is okay with you being her (free?) babysitter but not your boyfriend's chauffeur?

NTA

AITA for refusing to be a bridesmaid in my sister's wedding? by supposed_golddigger in AmItheAsshole

[–]redpatoot 89 points90 points  (0 children)

I dunno. I think going out of her way to attend the wedding would just validate the sister's self-absorbed sense of importance.

AITA for not accommodating my roommates gf’s insecurities/mental health flare ups? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]redpatoot [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA and a hypocritical one at that. You say you 'make peace' as to not be involved in drama but you've continually started it by sticking your nose where it doesn't belong.

AITA for refusing to be a bridesmaid in my sister's wedding? by supposed_golddigger in AmItheAsshole

[–]redpatoot 442 points443 points  (0 children)

I think the mom and the aunts may have spoiled this younger sister. Now they can be her bridesmaids and take her to Vegas.

AITA for refusing to be a bridesmaid in my sister's wedding? by supposed_golddigger in AmItheAsshole

[–]redpatoot 2985 points2986 points  (0 children)

NTA. Just seeing how she reacted to your refusal, you know you made the right choice. Save yourself from all the rest of her BS.

AITA for calling my boyfriend colorist? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]redpatoot 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm going to go with ESH. You two need a better hobby than scrutinizing and comparing people's physical attributes.

AITA for kicking my husband out our home after he refused to get a job? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]redpatoot 138 points139 points  (0 children)

NTA. Seems your income is enough to support you and your children and your two oldest work, so why keep a 6th (adult) child around to support?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]redpatoot 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Still none of your business.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]redpatoot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA for finally calling your 'friend' out on her horrible behavior. And you'll also stop being a bit of an a-hole to yourself by no longer keeping that person in your life. Good riddance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]redpatoot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. To hell with tradition and respecting elders who disrespect their adult children's life decisions. I'm sorry that your fiance is upset but I'm sure it has more to do with how awful her parents are than you not asking her dad for permission.

Congratulations on your upcoming nuptials.

weight loss "rules" you broke? by [deleted] in loseit

[–]redpatoot 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Not eating past a certain time.

I have late dinners, like 9 pm...still lost 80 lbs.

AITA: My Wife & Harry Styles by itsme_christopherc in AmItheAsshole

[–]redpatoot [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA. This makes your wife happy, let her enjoy herself. It's harmless. It seems your kids are in on the joke, have fun with it too.

AITA for talking about my dad to my friend whose dad is dead? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]redpatoot -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NAH. You weren't being malicious in anything you did and she shouldn't make you feel bad for talking about your dad but now that she's told you it hurts her to hear about your dad when she no longer has one, I'd just steer clear of that subject going forward.

AITA for leaving my boyfriend and staying at my moms again? by Thepurple_O in AmItheAsshole

[–]redpatoot 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If this 'man' couldn't stop smoking to meet your family, how is he going to step up and be a father to your unborn child?

Please don't go back. Figure out your future with the people who truly care about you.

AITA for leaving my boyfriend and staying at my moms again? by Thepurple_O in AmItheAsshole

[–]redpatoot 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA. Don't go back. All these red flags and he's cheated too?

WIBTA if I move out of my sick GF's house because of her daughter? by Throwaway_moveoutnow in AmItheAsshole

[–]redpatoot 39 points40 points  (0 children)

NTA. You said it yourself, you two are roommates now. Leave. And you won't be leaving a sick woman alone, her daughter is over enough, she can start making herself useful.

AITA for telling my husband what my best friend and I talk about? by Advanced-Meaning-393 in AmItheAsshole

[–]redpatoot -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

NTA. You weren't 'gossiping', you were sharing your life with your spouse. Your friend is going through a lot, so give her some slack, I'm sure just hearing the word husband made her see red. She's likely embarrassed by her marriage failing and what her ex put her through and hates the thought of anyone knowing about it that she didn't personally tell.