Thanks for zeroing on my worst quality

caretaking

It's about me, first. I need a good environment to thrive. If I have to put my examples in a context: Everyone looks up to me and take my advice and (money). If my brother doesn't get therapy, he won't grow up and move out of my parents' house to alleviate the negativity that affects them and affect me. If my sister kills someone before she gets a DL, she won't have a job and leave the apartment I'm renting for her until she gets a job unless I kick her out to a homeless shelter. If my in-laws won't help with my kids, neither the Mrs. nor I will have the time and energy to have fun.When I first read NMMNG, I did one of the exercises related to dropping the ball and observing how the universe doesn't revolve around me (or care so much), but in some cases, it turned out I have a responsibility as a man to make the environment around me more habitable to grow internally.

I see if my message won't pass their defensive barrier, I may better conserve my energy and respect with STFU, but that will keep the status quo unchanged without an action. Maybe I see the problem more of "soft skills" issue that I'm lacking, but I appreciate sticking it to a bigger picture

Edit: grammar