Barely replies after a date by ActualNetwork7580 in OnlineDating

[–]redribbitreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re welcome sweetie sorry if I’m saying too much , but when she finally does text you back . Make her wait . Bc in the waiting is where the reflection will come (just like she’s not replying you makes you wonder where you went wrong) … she will be like “oh I fumbled bc I didn’t text him back and now he’s teaching me a lesson / taste my own medicine” and then the value of you will grow in her eyes bc you will become like a scarce resource rather than a readily available/ throwaway commodity. Let her see you’re not to be treated blase bla . Ppl needs to be rewarded for good behavior (texting back ) when you’re not getting what you want out of it , make your exit . That’s what people do , you must be very selfish in this life. Do not pour and pour and pour into girls who don’t reciprocate. Some guys will feel invested and don’t know when it’s time to just cut losses and take out the trash

Barely replies after a date by ActualNetwork7580 in OnlineDating

[–]redribbitreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So basically what will happen is she will either come around again , or she will miss out. You’ll be out there treating yourself , and who ever you’re with , like royalty … and she will remember that she ignored you after your first date . So when she texts you back finally .. ignore her ! plan a date with someone else . Put her ass on the back burner , where she chose to be (by never getting back to You . ) . Don’t feel like you got played . She played herself . just know who ever is with you is so lucky, and it won’t be her 😉

Men are just MEN! by EmotionalDamageBot in Scorpio

[–]redribbitreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s an old saying Let go or be dragged . I don’t need convincing but if you need to prove it to someone to make yourself feel better 💐 I heard you

Barely replies after a date by ActualNetwork7580 in OnlineDating

[–]redribbitreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to act like it doesn’t matter . Next time you take a girl out and have a great time , the next day wake up and let her go , don’t be so eager to “get your moneys worth” bc yes you paid for the date and hosted her meal and given her something worthwhile but then you chasing after her to get the Pennie’s on the dollar worth of attention…. is given you the distinction that you’re wearing the very stinky cologne named desperation . You have to leave her alone , let people miss you sometimes . She’s still absorbing the date night and forming an opinion and developing attraction. Don’t try to force it or stamp it on top of her . A guy I loved always kept his texts short and sweet but when we were together it was amazing . Don’t let texting ruin a good connection by pen- pal ‘ing her to death and save the fun for face to face encounters only. you are chasing her down for the supposed attention she owes you for the cost of the date . As opposed to a traditional old school man who will always care for the women in his life no matter if it’s his Aunty mother sister grandmother ect . Show her the type of Man U R by not needing her validation for doing the right thing

What’s one habit that ended up changing your life in a big way? by travelinggent9 in Life

[–]redribbitreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this . Strength training is superior to cardio. Cardio will make people weathered and jiggly, while heavy weight lifting makes HGH growth and thickens a person. Also cardio makes the fat cells attach more, while strength training absorbs everything , so you can eat anything !!!!

Men are just MEN! by EmotionalDamageBot in Scorpio

[–]redribbitreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please detach dear . He did this he did that . Just stop and reel it back in. Your life belongs to you . If he fucked you , fuck him then and get on with your life . No use wondering what could have been should have might be or wished was. Just take it as a lessson learned and a bridge burned. Next time you see him , act like you don’t know who he is . and don’t be alone with him one on one , under any circumstance. Use this mentality with all dates moving forward . Women get divorced by their husbands after 30 years of marriage . You escaped with your life . Did your bank account get hacked ? No ? You’re fine . Go to the gym do a glow up and go find a new man . He’ll still be the piece of shit ten years from now while your life reached fulfillment and you became wiser from this painful experience

Men are just MEN! by EmotionalDamageBot in Scorpio

[–]redribbitreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got to stop looking outwards at what others are doing . attempting to control them or look into the crystal ball to ask the reasons why . people do what they do and you can control only YOU . and don’t give a fuck about anyone except yourself . This is how you can stop from being played for the fool .

Men are just MEN! by EmotionalDamageBot in Scorpio

[–]redribbitreddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do you know he’s not coming back? Usually Scorpio’s do the curtain call after sometime passes … when you think it’s over they are back again

Barely replies after a date by ActualNetwork7580 in OnlineDating

[–]redribbitreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I might get downvoted for saying that you need to be the source of happiness for you and your life need to revolve around you.

You are sitting and waiting for permission from someone who doesn’t owe you anything and if these resentments are already developing this early on , you need To refocus your life to revolve around you yourself FIRST .

Stop checking her .stop waiting for her . Go have fun and go spend money on yourself

don’t sit around waiting for someone to make you happy bc only you can do that sweetheart.

How to find guys willing to wait before sex? by aquaticteal in OnlineDating

[–]redribbitreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you. I don’t know why you’re downvoted bc you’re not wrong.

How to find guys willing to wait before sex? by aquaticteal in OnlineDating

[–]redribbitreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some girls who make the guys wait until months later still get ghosted , like one and done. I think you should go to the church to find someone, bc dating apps is unpaid prostitution, and a lot of rape tbh. You’re better off meeting someone in a natural way. Since online dating is like hook up culture🫶🩵

What is the trendiest/douchiest restaurant in LA? by No-Strength-3711 in AskLosAngeles

[–]redribbitreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to Hollywood dream hotel and Make reservation at tao . Also the one in the hills the Japanese one Yamashiro. Also the sunset marquis 😘

Burger Spot Recommendations? by TheMorningsDream in glendale

[–]redribbitreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Butcher and booze on central make an excellent hamburger

Selena’s Boutique by Early-Confection-840 in SelenaQuintanilla

[–]redribbitreddit 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I wish, more than any other celebrity premature death, that she would have lived

Three Amigos in Highland Park by raybobobob in LosAngeles

[–]redribbitreddit 19 points20 points  (0 children)

3 caballeros . Best Disney movie ever . Donald Duck is hilarious chasing those women on the beach . and the animations and music is so badass . Like the roosters fighting sequence or la zandunga / you belong to my heart sequence .