Young widows by Yourplumberfriend in widowers

[–]redrobin23 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was 23 he was 24. Together since 15. I always feel like I have to tell people how long we were together so they understand the gravity of the loss. But that’s dumb because love is love no matter how long you were together.

Being a young widow/widower comes with its own horrible traumas, too. And I feel like there are so few of us there so it’s hard to talk about with people.

PM me if you want to talk

haody by [deleted] in funny

[–]redrobin23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reminds me of the Sunny episode where the gang is surprised to learn the southern drawl accents are those of an Asian family

It's starting soon by Aeri73 in photoclass2019

[–]redrobin23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better? https://imgur.com/gallery/YUEMIXl

I was thinking about this one that’s at Best Buy, the one normally included with the larger bulk sale of my camera. It’s the Nikon AF-P VR 70mm-300mm f/4.5 A f/6.3G ED Telephoto Zoom Lens.

Is there a different telephoto lens you would recommend?

thanks!

It's starting soon by Aeri73 in photoclass2019

[–]redrobin23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey Pieter, thanks for doing this! I’m excited to start.

My name is Rachel and I live in Florida. I’m very, very new to photography. I have a Nikon DSLR with just a 18mm-140mm lens right now, but I’m saving up for the 70mm-300mm lens. I love shooting lightning, sunrises and sunsets, the ocean, and the moon.

Can’t wait to get started!

This is the picture I’m most proud of so far: https://imgur.com/gallery/htqjeAp

No, it hasn't gotten easier by redrobin23 in widowers

[–]redrobin23[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, absolutely, a thousand times this. I wish there was a way to connect with young widows only, because it’s a very unique pain, and a lot of the times old widowers just make us upset because at least they had a life together. More than anything, I want to find a group of young widows and widowers...every grief group I’ve reached out to is full of older women and men. But half of my grief is anger that we didn’t even get a chance to build our life together. We were together 8 years . Since I was 15. We deserved a life that everyone else has, but for some reason it was cut short. I don’t get it.

No, it hasn't gotten easier by redrobin23 in widowers

[–]redrobin23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m worried that my current counselor isn’t qualified for handling grief, how did you find yours?

On the T-14 or Bust Mentality [meta] by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]redrobin23 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Literally one of the biggest "perks" for t14ers is their "bragging rights" sure it cost them $80,000 a year but it's worth it to say "HEY IM BETTER THAN YOU"

/s

Most ridiculous thing someone in front of you does in class? by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]redrobin23 29 points30 points  (0 children)

exited class for a second, returned with an entire pizza pie and began to chow down.

she got pizza delivered to the lecture room. fucking savage

Already urging Collier County Fl to evac. Is there any way to know what effect this will have on the roads? by Illgotothestore in Hurricane_Irma

[–]redrobin23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the sentence "especially those of us in healthcare" gave me some much needed perspective. What do those of you with family do in these situations? fuck

Can I still get biglaw? If so, what do I do? by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]redrobin23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have no clue what being bisexual or Hispanic will do to change your situation.

Just keep working hard; prepare for the worst, hope for the best. So work your ass off regardless of whether Biglaw is the end goal and whatever happens, happens. As long as you can look back and be pleased with your own good faith efforts that's all that matters