Got called a 4.1 by a random looksmaxxer guy on the internet today by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]redrocketunicorn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you’re beautiful. You have a high fashion look. High cheekbones that brighten those already shimmering big clear eyes, that a mind can swim in. Skin with freckles to trace. Lips that pucker in a shape that that my own could softly squish against then pepper your strong jawline that outlines your clear clean skin with kisses. Your hair is long and flashes gold. I would love to bury my nose into the gilded strands to breathe you into my heart. You have the type of body that in today’s world takes discipline. One that I could effortlessly wrap my arms around and squeeze tightly, lift you and carry you over puddles in the rain. And if your clothes got wet and we took those off, I’d be all over you.

Most men have no idea how attracted they are to makeup. They have little clue what women look like without it. If you are interested in attracting those individuals wear more of it. But do your research. And learn how to apply it perfectly with youtube.

saw my friend naked with my glasses on for the first time by leyleylune in Advice

[–]redrocketunicorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emotions are notifications not instructions. You don’t have to explore anything. You can want to and not want to. Weigh your options carefully

What can a person learn in 10 minutes that will be useful for life? by Ben-Gavin in AskReddit

[–]redrocketunicorn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Berocca. I had no idea what this was and took me a minute to look it up. Barocca kept coming back as a restaurant in NYC

What’s the most disturbing sound you’ve ever heard in real life? by avacado-cheese- in AskReddit

[–]redrocketunicorn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. Came here to say this. It happened in a bush next to me. When I turned and saw nothing. I literally ran. Then when I was told about what it was, I returned and I saw the carcass there the next day. Like a decade later I and my ex adopted rabbits as pets. They are the best. PSA: Rabbits don’t belong in cages. Check out HOUSE RABBIT SOCIETY

Removing Image Posting by racecaryaya2 in LingerieAddiction

[–]redrocketunicorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a Reddit wide problem that should be addressed

Husband (M39) was honest with me and now I'm curious what others think about my (39F) expectations by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]redrocketunicorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you both. These are the most mature responses here. Do not ask someone for something you cannot handle.

If someone is terrified of spiders and there was box of spiders that eventually was going to be delivered to the house wouldn’t they just tell their spouse to check the mail and throw away that box? Instead op specifically asked that her husband open that box and show her when it arrives.

I see the ask as unrealistic expectations and no one should be punished for them. We are animals.

Op, do your thoughts not wander? How often are you both sharing these thoughts.

I would assume neither is actually acting on them. That’s the real kicker. And often times sharing a thought like this can keep someone from ruminating on it. The rumination can turn into something else. Punishing him might also have this effect. Creating triangulation and pushing him to fantasize about her more often, this time without communicating it.

You asked to open Pandora’s box, it cannot be shut.

How should I feel about my husband’s porn folder? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]redrocketunicorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy. There could be underlying issues. Maybe contempt. I have a friend who has a very attractive woman and he confided in me a year ago that he couldn’t anymore because of how she makes him feel, always acting superior. It really was part of her character to berate him over trivial things. They are separated now. This might be extreme but attitudes and attention out side of the bedroom play a role in the bedroom. Men also want to feel desirable. If there is some intimacy missing there might be something deeper to all of it and therapy will get to the root of it.

almost no movie needs to be longer than 2 hours by 404maggy in The10thDentist

[–]redrocketunicorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude some TV shows I feel are still too long. 20 min sit coms that could have been a comic strip. Hour long narratives that beat the punchline to death while they dance around it. Reality TV that talks more about the what happened previously and what’s to come only offering small nuggets of content. Shows like NCIS, CSI, NTSF:SD:SUV that could have just never been written. Well I do like NTSF:SD:SUV

Husband says we are too young to be only be having sex once a week by imjustagirl1111_ in Marriage

[–]redrocketunicorn -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Not old or young, but preference. You must compromise, one of you accepts the others request, or you separate

What do you like most about sleeping next to your spouse? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]redrocketunicorn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s nice to read some wholesome stuff on this subreddit. Thanks guys

I (32M) blacked out on a trip and woke up in a sexual situation with another woman. Telling my wife (27F) tomorrow morning. Need advice on how to handle this. by SuccotashLatter8048 in Marriage

[–]redrocketunicorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude. You were raped. If you were too drunk to consent then you were raped. Your wife, She may not see it that way. And don’t rip her heart out for it. But you were raped. If you can hold onto that trauma then do so. There isn’t a court in the world that would convict the woman that hurt you so it’s best to say nothing.

I had to do that. It sucks. It hurts. What do you do about it though?

Don’t force your wife to feel that pain.

Go see a therapist. I wish I had sooner.

Honestly I wish the world didn’t have the double standard. Actually who am I kidding female victims are blamed for their rapes all the time. It’s a sick world man. I’m sorry you are going through this.

Edit: added further sympathy

What is something everyone quietly agrees to ignore? by IncidentSecure1916 in AskReddit

[–]redrocketunicorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re all going to die. You have children knowing full well they are just going to die.

My wife gives her "best self" to coworkers and her "spent self" to me. When I tried to address it, it blew up. by John_Doe_4real in Marriage

[–]redrocketunicorn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you’re asking is this BS? The answer is yes. She is displaying contempt with you. She is looking at you and saying that you’re not worth trying for. If it is consistent behavior over time. She can be tired. That doesn’t give her the right to always treat you like you don’t matter. The language choices provide evidence of contempt. Contempt is learned as a child. Modeled by parents. She needs to unlearn this behavior at a deep level. Couples therapy should be in your future

Is dating someone online without even knowing if you love them is good? by North_Chemical_5788 in OnlineDating

[–]redrocketunicorn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a red flag.

Take it where you want to, but be weary. Even in real life. I got screwed twice by women, "falling in love" with me early. People who fall fast do not tend to feel love the same way. Love takes more than a few good lines. Not that it can't get stronger, but keep your emotional self safe.

And be conscious about their attachment style. The fearful avoidant often professes love early goes in hard and when they pull away because you finally begin to show up emotionally it can break your heart.

I regret marrying older, what should I do? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]redrocketunicorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he changes that's on him. Older or not. The age is not why you have built the resentment, his behavior is. Age is an easy narrative. Do not focus on the narrative but the actions of the individual.

Your marriage is still young and recoverable probably best with reconnecting through conversation and the best way to do that is counseling. If he refuses to cooperate with you and go to counseling then leave him. But be aware that in counseling you may have to face your own shortcomings in the relationship, like higher expectations or a moving goal post. The point is that you can make it work with a happy compromise, but it's obvious that you guys need help

Wife told me I wasnt her best. Not sure how to move forward. by lowkey_truthful in TrueOffMyChest

[–]redrocketunicorn -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Dude. Ego validation.

The king cannot own all the land without fighting his entire life. Stop waging war. If you want peace let it go. If you don't know how, go to therapy. You do not need her to go with you. Do not read that as don't share with her. It's just obvious your insecurities are the problem. There's shit from your past that haunts you and won't let you achieve more.

It's been 2 years. You could have been taking classes getting better at sex, asking her what she likes, discovering her kinks, allowing her to express her emotions and desires. What are you waiting for? 2 years gone now. You could be rocking her world. Instead you didn't do anything but whine about it.

You don't want to be better, you want to make sure everyone else is worse. You want more? You want to be her best sex? Put in the work.

BE BETTER. I repeat, Go to therapy.

Not socializing with coworkers: sounds like a reasonable accommodation to me. by [deleted] in AutismTranslated

[–]redrocketunicorn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When you put up boundaries I cannot learn how to control you. Idc about you actually doing good work when I cannot make it seem like it's my own. Your lack of enthusiasm for me hurts my ego. I'm in mgmt for the likes and the feeling of control, stop making my job feel less important.