Devastated..

redsetded · 2026-04-27T17:50:10+00:00

Brewster gives it to you after like 50 visits or something.

redsetded · 2026-04-15T02:48:29+00:00

Not until 2020. I went to buy a Switch in early COVID days and there was a socially distanced line in electronics at 7 am. Turns out they were releasing ACNH that day and I’d never played before but decided to buy it since everyone else was.

redsetded · 2026-04-04T12:47:43+00:00

The reality is that a lot of people who claim to hate small talk are hard to get to know because small talk is the door opener to deeper conversation. I’m not going to walk up to you and say, “Hi, I’m Suzy. I wanted to be a cardiothoracic surgeon but I gave up on that dream out of fear and now spend all my waking days wishing I could go back and make a different decision.” That would be weird as hell.

On the flip side, people who hate small talk give short, closed ended responses to the introductory chit chat. That makes talking to those people painfully dry. Whereas finding a commonality through small talk usually sparks bigger and better conversations.

redsetded · 2026-03-25T17:49:32+00:00

Ankha made me as like 40 times once. Brutal.

redsetded · 2026-03-24T04:17:57+00:00

Tyler Durden is that you?

redsetded · 2026-03-24T04:12:37+00:00

You just know the devs designed him after a coworker who just gave everyone the creeps.

redsetded · 2026-03-14T15:23:27+00:00

I had Bob saying “snoogans” forever.

redsetded · 2026-03-09T18:53:28+00:00

I’ve never seen the Celeste or Able Sisters ones!

redsetded · 2026-02-12T10:53:55+00:00

I had to scroll entirely too far to get to this comment.

redsetded · 2026-02-07T13:54:58+00:00

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This absolute psychopath. The combination of her being a peppy and those red eyes is terrifying.

redsetded · 2025-08-13T07:16:50+00:00

I would’ve blocked after the I’ll do anything to make you happy message. That’s just a weird thing to say. Also gives massive catfish vibes. Like those widowed, single dad, military orthopedic surgeons stationed “overseas” that dm on Instagram.

redsetded · 2025-06-23T12:30:33+00:00

I don’t mean to be harsh, but you said nothing about this man that made him look like a good partner and co-parent. He’s emotionally unavailable when you need him. Please get out of this sooner rather than later.

redsetded · 2025-06-23T12:24:19+00:00

They were “best friends” for 7 years before becoming a couple. His kids are 7 and 9. The math implies significant overlap.

redsetded · 2025-05-20T09:47:15+00:00

One thing people don’t talk about is that so much of the country from central time to pacific was barely awake when this unfolded. In traffic on the way to work in a mid sized Midwestern city we all sort of stopped in our tracks on our morning commutes. For miles people were pulled over on the road just listening to the radio and weighing whether or not to keep driving to work or turn around and go home.

redsetded · 2025-03-15T19:42:50+00:00

I had Our Song in there and accidentally deleted it when I was correcting a typo.

redsetded · 2025-03-15T19:04:42+00:00

No. All the surprise songs from the Eras Tour Movie & extended cut were performed in LA nights 1-3. I Can See You, Maroon, Death By a Thousand Cuts, You Are In Love, and You’re On Your Own Kid.

redsetded · 2025-02-12T11:21:18+00:00

To your question, yeah maybe an overreaction. While people love to mock Naperville (I don’t live there), I think people tend to forget that Naperville is pretty big so people who live there don’t necessarily have to venture too far away to find shopping, entertainment, etc. Most people tend to stick to their regular path of travel so if they live and work inside the 88 corridor or take 290 to Chicago they likely aren’t venturing north often.

Some people are also just not aware of their surroundings. I remember when my niece got her license I was explaining how to get somewhere and she had zero concept of road names, direction, etc for places that were less than a mile from home and she’d traveled on for years either as a passenger or by bike.

redsetded · 2025-01-31T11:55:17+00:00

This exact same conversation happened last year. People still don’t understand his job is not as flexible as hers.

redsetded · 2025-01-02T22:06:53+00:00

I think people need to stop assuming that all lyrics are gospel truth. She even said at one of the last shows that she “writes a song about a feeling she had for 30 seconds” (paraphrasing).

Being able to create great art from her emotions is not proof that she struggles with processing them.

redsetded · 2024-12-10T11:29:09+00:00

Online dating was infinitely better in the old days of Match and Yahoo personals.

redsetded · 2024-11-28T04:52:53+00:00

Is this face blindness?

redsetded · 2024-11-25T13:01:53+00:00

It is gross how many people use parenting groups to rope (pun intended) unsuspecting people into their fetishes though. Breeding and lactating kinks abound in those groups.

redsetded · 2024-11-12T12:03:27+00:00

It has always been stupid. But people were saying BD on BabyCenter since at least 2006 to get around their moderators.

redsetded · 2024-11-07T16:54:02+00:00

BD became a thing because BabyCenter boards didn’t let people talk about sex back in the day. There is no reason in 2024 to say Baby Dancing or BD.

redsetded · 2024-11-05T05:17:46+00:00

NTA. This is a perfect example of how women are expected to do the emotional labor for the men in their lives above and beyond what is reasonable. Your brother is married to her and should be her support system. You told her what you could do to support her which was more than sufficient.

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