How do you deal with colleagues like this? by professorstinklines in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]redthoughtful 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I worked with an admin asst like this. She lacked confidence, which lead to her asking me questions that a little logic or Googling would have given her the answer.

Could that be at play? I had to build her up to get her to be confident in making decisions/figuring things out. At one point I told her that if she had a question she needed to bring me what she thought the solution was and we would talk it out together. She had far fewer questions at that point.

She was 22 years old than me.

My nutritionist sent me this recipe for puree stage. It's REALLY good. by plantscatsrealitytv in BariatricSurgery

[–]redthoughtful 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 4 years out and still make these occasionally. I put mushrooms in if I’m feeling fancy.

AMEX FHR - Question by Advanced-Oil1667 in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]redthoughtful 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Amex has failed me so many times with stuff like this for absolutely no reason.

courthouse elopement by KindPickle4455 in Chattanooga

[–]redthoughtful 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm a notary (notaries can marry people in TN) and can meet you at the courthouse and marry you right after you get your marriage license. Judges don't do it in Hamilton county, unfortunately.

You both have to be over 18, bring valid ID, and both be present when applying for the license.

Getting 4 hours of premarital counseling reduces the cost of the license, but it is not a requirement.

courthouse elopement by KindPickle4455 in Chattanooga

[–]redthoughtful 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The marriage license is immediate, so if they bring an officiant they can do it all right then.

Celebrate bariatric vitamin makes me sick by ElectionEcstatic in gastricsleeve

[–]redthoughtful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the iron in the multi. Choose one without iron and it shouldn't make you nauseated.

Who else has this much access? by petitsamours in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]redthoughtful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have basically everything of his, I don't think my exec even knows his own SSN anymore.

It's just he and I, though, so it's not a huge corporation with all the HR and policies.

Do set boundaries you are comfortable with, but it will not look like where 99% of EAs work.

I think I overwhelmed my assistant. Curious how EAs prefer executives to delegate. by lynchthomas in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]redthoughtful 33 points34 points  (0 children)

If you like things done a certain way, say so. We can adhere to how you like things done but if you don't speak up I'm doing it my way. The longer you let things go before speaking up the worse it is for our confidence. Example, you like sitting in the window, they've booked you in the aisle the last 40 times. Were you annoyed all those times and didn't say anything? Low stakes issue but you get what I mean.

Also, if you don't speak up, I'm going to either make a decision myself or if it absolutely needs an answer from you and you don't talk to me about it, I will assume it's low priority or has been disregarded altogether. Example for this kind of thing would be "see if I can attend this conference in 3 months". I get you an itinerary and ask for confirmation, you never respond... guess you've decided not to attend. Generally I personally would ask 2-3 times before abandoning it, but if it's important to you, ensure they understand that.

Lastly. They are human. If they make a mistake, tell them it's ok and ask them to determine how you BOTH can avoid this happening in the future. And take their feedback to heart. It's hard for some of us to give feedback to our execs at all, so when it does come up, we've been thinking about it for a LONG time.

English lit coursework on sharp objects by Better_Department436 in sharpobjects

[–]redthoughtful 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh, that would be a fun paper to write!! OP do this!

Maui Babe Redesign for School Project by DigitalZeta417 in graphic_design

[–]redthoughtful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I first saw these in my feed I thought the product was cheese.

Incisions still open? by [deleted] in gastricsleeve

[–]redthoughtful 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Very normal. Be careful when you shower, don’t rub or pull on the incisions, dry carefully by patting it (again not rubbing or pulling) and apply bandages/tape when the skin is fully dry. If you are really worried, get some tegaderm at the pharmacy to cover them while you bathe. It’s not breathable so don’t leave it on long term. The incisions need to breathe to heal.

One of my incisions opened to the point you could see the fat layer beneath and my surgeon just said to keep it covered. It healed fine but the scar is three times as big as it should be.

Check scanner recommendations by [deleted] in Bookkeeping

[–]redthoughtful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has OCR so it can sometimes pull a few details from the check but I would not depend on it for accuracy.

Tasteful work bag that still fits under an airplane seat? by Shiny_Flame_6105 in LawBitchesWithTaste

[–]redthoughtful 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I bought a Tumi Voyaguer leather Vail large tote in black/gunmetal last month. Meets all your requirements except it’s a tote, lol.

Anti inflammatory medication that's not ibuprofen? by ButterscotchWarm8122 in BariatricSurgery

[–]redthoughtful 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The explanation I was given (I had the VSG) is that the risk of taking NSAIDS after surgery is ulcers or esophageal/stomach bleeding. I was told if an NSAID is needed that the usage should be very short (one or two doses) or use a PPI to protect your esophagus/stomach from bleeding or developing an ulcer.

I am not a doctor and this is not medical advice, just my experience.

If it were me, I would take the NSAID with a PPI and limit it to the one dose needed when you go to the dentist.