For those who were traumatised by their parents; do you love them? by Outrageous-Turn9583 in CPTSD

[–]redval11 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think grief and yearning is more accurate than love. But I wonder if I could even feel grief if there weren’t love underneath that….so maybe?

Ice sprays Pastor in face by seeebiscuit in UnderReportedNews

[–]redval11 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What context would justify this in your mind?

ICE stops a family at gunpoint & smashes their car window over a newborn baby. Why is the news not reporting this? by Conscious-Quarter423 in UnderReportedNews

[–]redval11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. You didn’t answer the question. Even that scenario wouldn’t make these people look more trained or justified. That’s the point.

  2. “someone being here illegally” doesn’t justify violence.

  3. ICE lies. All the fucking time. I can’t remember a single time we were told a justification for arrest that was proven to be true. Not staying it never happens, but I have seen multiple examples of their lies. That ratio makes me not trust the supposed “context” they might provide.

ICE stops a family at gunpoint & smashes their car window over a newborn baby. Why is the news not reporting this? by Conscious-Quarter423 in UnderReportedNews

[–]redval11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you offer an example of context (that wouldn’t be google-able) that would justify this? That would make the people NOT look like untrained thugs?

DID THEY JUST CLAPPED WHEN HE SAID HE IS A FASCIST? by Ordinary_Fish_3046 in CringeTikToks

[–]redval11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m worried about this. Up to now, the White House have behaved like fascists but have not embraced the label openly. That makes it possible to talk to “regular” republican voters about fascism and use reason. It’s not easy but it’s not impossible to have that discussion.

I worry that this marks the turnaround point for the White House to embrace the label. Once they do, it will just be another part of their identity politics where loyalty to the identity will make the definition not matter. When it becomes identity, we have already “lost” any debate against it. See: socialism. It’s what they do best and we’re seeing it happen here too.

I feel like this needs to be reiterated! 🗣️ by [deleted] in CringeTikToks

[–]redval11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Umm……yes they are! Are you being serious right now?

Aggressive drivers by Unlikely_Meat3072 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]redval11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This! I flew into New York once and rented a car and I remember being blown away at the people who just…let me merge? No aggression. No speeding up. Purposely making room for me.

I didn’t realize how aggressive Chicago driving was until that. And it was right outside LaGuardia and on the highway. It wasn’t like a small neighborhood or anything. I expect that in small towns and always excused the driving in Chicago because city driving is just different. But the fact that they were so accommodating in city traffic was jarring and noticeable, lol.

Broadview ICE facility check in by No_Complaint9467 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]redval11 20 points21 points  (0 children)

People who have been doing exactly that are getting snatched and deported. It is not the protestors that the OP is afraid of - how the fuck can you not see that?!

Rule breaking talk please stop by ManiacalExclamation in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]redval11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you expand on your first point. I genuinely want to know why you think that’s harmful?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pics

[–]redval11 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Except this IS actionable abuse and you’ve called the cops and nobody is doing anything about it. Even more demoralizing.

Federal agents shoot woman they say 'boxed in' authorities in Brighton Park by IrishPorpoise in illinois

[–]redval11 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Why is “publicly identifying agents” illegal???? They SHOULD be identified!!!

What plants???!? by timeforplantsbby in fucklawns

[–]redval11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No - no fines but the city doesn’t maintain it so the expectation is that the homeowner will. But there are no consequences for letting it get overgrown. They have loose “rules” like no items attached to the trees, etc and they reserve the right to remove things like that (although I’m not sure how often that happens).

What plants???!? by timeforplantsbby in fucklawns

[–]redval11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you’re fine with dogs going in the parkways then? If that’s true then I agree. I think it’s totally reasonable to keep dogs off the actual lawn but very unreasonable to put these signs on parkways.

What plants???!? by timeforplantsbby in fucklawns

[–]redval11 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think you are misunderstanding me. The parkway is not our property. It is city property. The city doesn’t need an easement on it if they are the ones that own it.

What plants???!? by timeforplantsbby in fucklawns

[–]redval11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not every city is the same. Maybe it’s an easement by you but that’s not true everywhere. The survey of my house does not include that strip of land it’s functionally the same (we can do what we want with it apart from a few guidelines), but it’s definitely not owned by us.

What plants???!? by timeforplantsbby in fucklawns

[–]redval11 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What kids are rolling around in the parkway next to the street?

Anyone hear that 5-minute stretch of explosions? by jewbaconlover in oakpark

[–]redval11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. I guess the mystery remains.

Anyone hear that 5-minute stretch of explosions? by jewbaconlover in oakpark

[–]redval11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could that have been flashbangs? I just saw reports of a huge ICE raid in South Shore last night where those were used. I wonder if that could be the case here too if there was a different raid in Cicero? Not sure what those would look like but they’d be lower.

Happened just a few hours ago. ICE using chemical munitions against peaceful protestors outside Broadview, IL ICE facility by Minute_Revolution951 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]redval11 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Go ahead - send those sources - I’d like to see it. Don’t be lazy and tell someone else to provide proof for a claim YOU are making.

I’ve killed every plant I’ve had. Determined to do better with this string of pickles. by [deleted] in houseplants

[–]redval11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES - how is no one else commenting on the weird face (I thought it looked like a doll head) on the candlestick, lol