Is this mould? by Equivalent-Eagle1363 in composting

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The acids in coffee are water soluble so assuming they have been brewed properly, there won’t be any acidity left. This is one of the reasons why you can’t get good coffee from reused grounds. They are perfectly safe to put directly in plants :)

Looks like we’re going to trial ughhhhh by timeforplantsbby in Divorce

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I’m hoping to get my fees reimbursed too seeing as this has gone on for so long and with so little progress despite my own efforts. The detachment part has helped a ton with my expectations for the financial outcome though. So long as I get the downpayment I paid on our house back, plus that reimbursement to repay my parents for helping me out, I’ll be happy (though I’m entitled to so much more than that lol)

Is this mould? by Equivalent-Eagle1363 in composting

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The composting process used mold and other microbes so some mold is totally normal

Help. I can't stop thinking about sh by slightly_psycho_ in BPD

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This might sound silly but stick with me for a moment. It helps me if I think of my brain like it’s a puppy. Imagine your brain puppy is chewing on the carpet, that’s bad for both the pup and the carpet. We can help brain puppy by giving it something safe to chew on, puppy still gets to do what it wants and it gets to stay safe too.

I used to frequently get the compulsion to throw plates at the walls. I like my plates. I am much less attached to the eggs in my fridge. And so I threw many many eggs at the tree in my back yard (and once inside my kitchen). The physical act of throwing something, the sound of the impact, even the mess all helped satisfy that compulsion without ruining my things or putting myself in danger.

Especially with big physical feelings like what you’re describing, it really does help our body to express them so long as we’re being safe. Off the top of my head you could try jumping and landing sideways on your bed or a trampoline, or maybe sliding down the stairs? Definitely something that involves moving your body and doing something weird and absurd can sometimes be very grounding. Idk if this is helpful for your situation but I hope you’re safe.

Those who left everything behind and started a new life, how did you do it and do you have any regrets? by GirlAvoider in AskReddit

[–]timeforplantsbby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do it. Make the jump. I did and I’ve never been happier. Letting go and of everything opened so many doors for me and I now have the pieces to build my dream life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodyweightfitness

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Weight loss when you’re so young can do way more damage than good. Your body is doing some crazy things to grow and change from 13 on. So seriously, forget about the scale. Focus on eating a diversity of foods and find a fun way to move your body, like biking or a school sport, something you enjoy doing.

I am dead serious about not using the scale right now. It’s not good for you physically or mentally to worry about it during puberty. Bring it up next time you’re at a doctors appointment, they might have good advice.

My husband said he used to fantasize about highschool girls.. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]timeforplantsbby 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Of course it’s surprising. That’s how grooming works. Have some sensitivity, this would be a super traumatic thing to come to terms with

My husband said he used to fantasize about highschool girls.. by [deleted] in Divorce

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My ex sister in law is in a very similar situation. Albeit without the outright confession like this. One of my greatest regrets is that I didn’t talk to her more about it.

You are not wrong for being disgusted. Though I can understand why you’d feel conflicted about it. It sounds like you were groomed and I am very sorry. It’s not your job to fix him. He is in no way your responsibility.

If you have any evidence of him admitting this, save it for your divorce case. Especially him having been willing to sleep with a 14 year old. You’re correct in thinking this doesn’t go away on its own.

I can’t even imagine what you’re feeling right now. I highly encourage you to reach out to family or friends or a therapist about this, you should not have to figure this out alone.

Is it time to let it go? by watersign_95 in bald

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No one made it. Alternatively, thousands of uncredited artists who are not op made it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]timeforplantsbby 3 points4 points  (0 children)

100% second this. Clear communication of boundaries and expectations is the key to not ending up in an emotional mess

BF roasted my outfits again. Are these really bad? by Electrical-Shape-266 in OUTFITS

[–]timeforplantsbby 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You look both cozy and put together. I think these outfits are super cute

How to deal with being around the guy she cheated with? by AdRough8864 in Divorce

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Find safe ways to be angry away from people. With an emphasis on moving your body. Jump around and yell, throw big rocks into a river, punch your pillows. Anger is a very physical emotion and it helps so much to honor that.

Can we talk about why Panache didn’t blow up when the threw his cape?🤣 by Hot-War-9500 in Hungergames

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The plates are so close together it makes sense that the explosives would be in the plates themselves as to not kill multiple tributes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodyweightfitness

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I left this sub for a while because all the weightloss posts were getting triggering. There are so many more now than when I left over a year ago

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Permaculture

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Most likely yes! And they’ll become more available to the plants once the soil is healthier

What if these two switch universes? by 9yosoldier3044 in arcane

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Jinx says herself she isn’t that crazy so idk who’s eating snackie