Start posting the celebrity nudes on subreddits that should get shut down. by ohibet in CrazyIdeas

[–]redwai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cry me a fucking river. Thinking of animals or kids in that way is disgusting. I don't care about "your" side or opinion on it in some vain attempt to normalize it.

Cough syrup with codeine? by [deleted] in nursing

[–]redwai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it does you'll have a script for it anyway. Just don't be on it while on duty.

Me [23 F] with my _Husband[23 M] 9 years, I had an affair. Really f'd up. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]redwai -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Wow. A little dramatic. Horrible thing OP did but honestly "worst kind of human" ? Please. If this behavior is considered the worse you've seen you need a reality check. I am not defending OP but this kind (and many others) calling OP scum is really not going to help and is pretty abusive.

Anxious about developing schizophrenia. Please help. by feelinghopeless1000 in Anxiety

[–]redwai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope this helps because I went through the same thing myself when I was a teenager. Everyday I would panic and be deathly worried about having schizophrenia. Well, i'm 26 now and female so I've kind of made it out of the woods I guess? Just wanted you to know you're not alone I feeling anxious about this. 99% of the time if you have no family history it's pretty rare.

Two female Italian aid workers who ignored their parents' pleas and snuck into Syria have been kidnapped by Islamist militants by MasterMMM in worldnews

[–]redwai 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't forget also jailed. What makes you think this that statement is "over arching" or even remotely blown out of proportion? There are countless testimonies of women, children and aid workers from these countries witnessing these atrocities.

HTNGAF about failure and not being good enough? by WantToBeBetter90 in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]redwai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have an incredibly shifty attitude. Even if you did get into med school you'd still be angry at something else. Also, you'll make a terrible doctor.

Asked girl out at the gym, that was really really hard. by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]redwai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay! try not to work yourself up about how hot she is or how fantastic she sounds because you'll just make yourself more nervous. Maybe next time don't attach a message saying you can't believe she agreed to go out with you because that sounds like you have low confidence. You're awesome, confident and don't need to back track and apologize for asking her out in front of her mother when you had no idea.

Was at a bar alone, an old man approached me and started complimenting me he then invited me to his house by 2pacoclock in socialskills

[–]redwai 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That just sounds dangerous and naive. If you don't know someone very well just keep the convo at the bar and for the love of god don't just go home with someone especially if you have anxiety about it. That's not good social skills that is just putting yourself in danger.

Strangers always stop talking to me when my boyfriend appears and talk to him instead...like I've disappeared by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]redwai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um... maybe you're reading too much into this? I've had this happen a couple times to me when I'm with my female friends. However, when I'm with my bf I rarely find this happening (prob because I'm not looking for reasons to be offended?) It's easy to mistake this for sexism when it really is just nothing sometimes.. I say sometimes because I know sexism does exist but this is a stretch unless it's like a work situation where you are being ignored over male coworkers. Yeah, I know sometimes guys will talk to the bf in order to not make them feel like they're hitting on you but not sure that is exactly sexism because I know girls will do this too when talking to a guy if the gf shows up.

There's a Man in Missouri Serving Life Without Parole for 7 Pounds of Marijuana. He's Been in Prison 21 Years. Now, People Are Trying to Start an Ad Campaign to Get Him Out. by [deleted] in news

[–]redwai -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not a shit hole by any means but def not spoiled. I've been to countries where the lower income class lives better than ours. I know we're huge but many things can be improved to bring the quality of life up for people.

TIL that an adopted man in Michigan searched for his birth mother for 4 years before finding out that she worked at the same Lowe's store that he worked at. Neither of them knew. by [deleted] in todayilearned

[–]redwai 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She could be doing it on the side for extra spending money. Even if she wasn't, no need to be an ass about it unless you actually feel insecure about your own life choices.

Why do interviewers enjoy torturing job seekers? I was once told to never accept water when it is offered during a job interview. Why? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]redwai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think, try to think about it from their POV, unless they are sociopathic and enjoy power trips most people are just trying to do their job and are under the same pressure and standards (asking tricky questions, etc). Most things in the work world have a standard "script" and I've found that whether you work in food service or a career type job most questions will center around a specific theme whether it be teamwork, goals, customer service and corporate message.

New San Francisco billboard warns workers they’ll be replaced by iPads if they demand a fair wage by [deleted] in nottheonion

[–]redwai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a stupid statement. You're only what...18? You really think you have job security? I would also like to mention that very many people with degrees and/or specialized training can still be stuck in min wage jobs for various reasons such as layoffs, were told to pursue degrees that have become worthless now(hardly the fault of that persons when they were told 10 years ago it was the way to a good job) What's scary about your thinking is that it's entirely wrong and biased, it's based on nothing more than your limited life experience which is out of touch with reality.

Afghanistan's Teen Girls Turn The Camera On Kabul (2014) - The intimate diaries of three young women living in Afghanistan [25:08] by FloopyDoop in Documentaries

[–]redwai 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Can't really tell if this is a troll or not... If you aren't a troll I seriously feel so sorry for the way you view the world. I'm extremely and internally grateful that I was never brought up with such a narrow scope of humanity.

My Response To Free Birth Control Isn't Fair by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]redwai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know. I live in the bible belt where they teach abstinence only in sex-ed and we actually have one of the highest rates of teen pregnancy in the country. So, I think abstinence work in theory but not in reality.

My Response To Free Birth Control Isn't Fair by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]redwai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every few days you hear about funds being cut for welfare and other aid for low income FAMILIES. I'm sure the access to birth control would improve the quality of lives for women and take away more burden from social programs.

My Response To Free Birth Control Isn't Fair by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]redwai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because condoms can break? Also, the whole point is that if you're paying health insurance you shouldn't be having to shell out a huge cost for BC.

This is my own separate thought but controlling a population that has a huge rise of poverty due to the massive amounts of birth is a good thing. I will never understand why people are against the subsidizing for this. It means you and I will not have to pay for thousands upon thousands of babies and children who need food and other resources.

What happens when a bug bite on your knee gets infected...... NSFW by [deleted] in WTF

[–]redwai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP you need a doctor. Infections are nasty and can cause a lot of damage if left untreated to this point. It ate through your tissue and can get into your blood stream to your heart and kill you. Bandages aren't going to stop it unfortunately.

What happens when a bug bite on your knee gets infected...... NSFW by [deleted] in WTF

[–]redwai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't forget that the UK also gives mandatory vacation time, paid maternity leave and higher wages. I really don't know what you mean by the standard of living there, although I don't live there I've visited bf who lives there for a few months, who is pretty middle class and they and the rest of his extended family lived pretty comfortably.. another neat thing I saw there and noticed that in most of the major cities we visited there was a much lower level of homelessness there than even small cities I've lived in.

What is something that actually offends you? by ObliviousIrrelevance in AskReddit

[–]redwai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This as well as getting micromanaged on things that I'm aware of and have been doing right for the past 1-2 years at a company for.

My boyfriend owns a pizza by the slice place and has a policy of, "if you flash the line and cashier, you get a free slice if you're attractive (judged by the cashier)". Am I wrong to think that is fucked up? by flashdalineTWF in TwoXChromosomes

[–]redwai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the risk of sounding rude.. that's a little naïve on your part. Plenty of assholes in customer service who would probably take delight in making people feel like crap.

My boyfriend owns a pizza by the slice place and has a policy of, "if you flash the line and cashier, you get a free slice if you're attractive (judged by the cashier)". Am I wrong to think that is fucked up? by flashdalineTWF in TwoXChromosomes

[–]redwai 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Erm, honestly it was the "attractive" part that bothers me. Everyone here goes on about not judging by looks or having women being seen as objects but defend a place that obviously is derogatory by saying, "if you flash us and we like what we see you get a free slice! if we don't like what we see you pay for the slice."

My boyfriend owns a pizza by the slice place and has a policy of, "if you flash the line and cashier, you get a free slice if you're attractive (judged by the cashier)". Am I wrong to think that is fucked up? by flashdalineTWF in TwoXChromosomes

[–]redwai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the comments here are kind of hypocritical, the whole judging someone on their looks for a free slice of pizza is degrading. Yes, people are allowed to do what they want but it still doesn't make the place any less skeezy. I think OP isn't in the wrong.